How to a approach the topic of menstruation with my mom?
Q. Hey well its been about a year since I first started my period (I was a late starter) and I havnt told my mum yet. I dont realy know what to do... do I have to tell her?? Im getting along fine as I am tbh I bought some tampons and its fine, no big ...
A. 26 August 2008: hey, i'm notclose to my mum at all, and don't live with my dad, when i first started my period i had no idea what to do, but after a week or so, i managed to pluck up the courage to tell her, and as cringy as i felt for doing it, she couldn't of ... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to distract myself while my boyfriend is away?
Q. hey (: not a major issue but one i would like some help with if possible, basically my bf is going away for two weeks to america soon, obviously the time difference and what have you will make it hard to keep in contact so i would like some ideas on ...
A. 25 August 2008: i've been in the same situation as you for the past week, but i've actually coped waay better than i thought i would. i've managed to spend more time with the family, see a couple of mates, find time for some hobbies, and relax for once in my ... (read in full...)
Small spots on my penis for a few months - but now there's a HUGE one!
Q. ok, it may not be to much worry but im not sure. for about 6-7month now i have been having between 1 and 2 spot like things on my penis. they went away after a couple week - month but now i have one again only this one is huge it is on t...
A. 17 July 2008: I'm no expert obvss, only being young. But i've recentley had life classes at school, one being involved with things you can catch during sexual intercourse. One of them that came up was "genital warts" which sounds like what you've described. They ... (read in full...)
I've becoming obsessed with him, but he's sending mixed signals. How can I get him into my life?
Q. for 7 whole months i have been crushing on this boy and i think its becoming allot more than just a crush, i have told him how i feel and hes just confusing me and sending me the wrong signals and telling me things to confuse me. i dont think i will ...
A. 16 July 2008: Wow, i had this exact same problem; needless to say, i now go out with him (:
If he knows how you feel, then there's not much more you can do, exept see if he waits to make the first move. You could always hint meeting up together one time, ju... (read in full...)
Should I have sex or not?
Q. Could you try and help plz me and this boy are on about having sex i dont know wether i should go on with it or not hes a lovley boy and i do like him its just i think im a bit scared as we will be doing it outside (probably in a bush) it will also ...
A. 16 July 2008: don't do it!
simple answer.
your' deffinatley not ready &your first time is supposed to be special and with someone who loves&cares about you[visa verse]
please don't take this oppurtunity to take away something as valuable as this to somebody i c... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: I'm sorry, but in my opinion, that was wayy out of order what she said to you. If she said this in agressive way of any sort, then she's obviously not a "best friend". I do no think violence is a way to deal with things, but in the case i actually ... (read in full...)
When will I get my boobs?!
Q. im 12, nearly 13, im a girl and i have pubes and armpit hair and all of that, but what i wanted to know is when will i start getting boobs? and how will i know im developing? and what age did you have them at? thanks :)...
A. 12 July 2008: don't worry about getting them, they'll come when your' body's ready. I'm fourteen and look much older for my age, yet i have no boobs what so ever. Even though i started my period when i was about 11, nothing seems to have happenned sinse then. ... (read in full...)
We had dry sex and I'm on my period...is there any chance I could be pregnant?? I'm really worried...
Q. ok...im very afraid... me and my boyfriend had drysex(humping) while i was having my 3rd day of period and we were on our piyamas(my piyamas are really thin). is there any possible way of me getting pregnant? even though I'm on my period?...
A. 23 June 2008: i'd say 99.9%/100 your' not pregnant;)
the only way a girl can get pregnant is if the come gets into the vagina.
no, your' deffinatley not, even if you were on your' period.
i do it all the time with my bf for a bit of fun.
you'll be fi... (read in full...)
Should I go further? I don't want to be a teenage dad!
Q. My girlfriend have been together have been together for nearly six months now and are very happy.We have got as far as me with my top off and her with her bra undone but still have her top on. I want to go a bit further and suggest oral but...
A. 15 June 2008: well if you're as close as you say you are, it shouldn't be a problem bringing it up in conversation, i know it isn't with me&my bf.
like you said, if it does come up and she says she's not ready, you have to respect that and understand, as if y... (read in full...)
Am I too clingy?
Q. Im finding myshelf being a clingy in my new relationship. Im trying to take up most of her free time, and I know that is not good on my part. How do I keep from being so clingy so I dont need up pushing her away? Because I have a feeling that is ...
A. 15 June 2008: hey,
i'm only fourteen, so i'm not sure whether you'll actually want advice from me, but ohh well. (:
Ive only been with me boyfriend for a couple of months, and he's pretty clingy with me too, i don't see my friends half as much as i used to, a... (read in full...)
Texting tips needed!
Q. I have a simple question. What's the easiest and least obvious way to start a texting conversation with a teenage girl?...
A. 7 June 2008: just a simple "heyy, you okay? done much today? x"
along them lines, its simple yet she'll tell you &hopefully ask you back if she's a decent kind of girl, and just go from there.
Don't sound too eager, yet don't sound matey just interested &... (read in full...)
So, can anyone explain why the adults seem to talk amongst themselves and ignore jazzy me?
Q. is it just me? i live with quite a few adults and sometimes i just feel ignored! i know im walking in deep water here seeing as most of the agony aunts are adults so i dont mean any offense to any adults when i say this. i dont know, can an...
A. 20 May 2008: hey,
ima'bit younger than you are "14".
but still, i know exactly how you feel.
i'm pretty mature for my age, and very independant.
it can get frustrating when you get separated from "kids" to "adults" so i totally agree with you.
whenever o... (read in full...)
Do most teenage girls shave the bikini line? I get bumps and irritation.
Q. do most teenage girls shave or wax down there? i try to shave around my bikini line but get red bumps and intense irritation. what do i do?...
A. 18 May 2008: like "GothPod" suggested, trim first &try hair removal cream,
i usually wax or shave but it's not as smooth&leaves red bumps.
But in answer to your question, it depends on who shaves, some girls preffere to stay natural, but most girls i know... (read in full...)
I need kissing advice...
Q. well you see im 14 and i have a crush on this guy firstly i dont no how to get him to notice me he is always (in a jkie wai) takin the mick out of me and secondly i think im frigid because i dont no how to french kiss a boy and im scared i will be ...
A. 15 May 2008: Hey,
i'm fourteen too,
don't worry, at some point everyone thinks they're "frigid"
when in fact all they are is nervous (:
don't be scared, just relaxed, if you ever get into a situation where you do end up kissing him, then just let it hap... (read in full...)
I need kissing advice...
Q. well you see im 14 and i have a crush on this guy firstly i dont no how to get him to notice me he is always (in a jkie wai) takin the mick out of me and secondly i think im frigid because i dont no how to french kiss a boy and im scared i will be ...
A. 15 May 2008: Hey,
i'm fourteen too,
don't worry, at some point everyone thiks they're "frigid"
when in fact all they are is nervous (:
don't be scared, just relaxed, if you ever get into a situation where you do end up kissing him, then just let it hap... (read in full...)
I'm worried boys will be put off by my ginger hair...
Q. hey im a ginger girl, 16. whenever i go out to town and places and meet boys im always worried that boys will be put off by my ginger hair. I don't know if its just me being wierd or weather boys don't actually like ginger hair. What do you think...
A. 8 May 2008: i'm ginger:D
&i love it.
it makes me stand out from all the fake blondes&brunnettes at my school.
&people always shower me with complements.
[not to sound bigheaded]
tbh. its one of the only things i like about myself.
don't be put ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether I should throw everything away with my boyfriend to be with this other guy.
Q. I'm in a relationship which has lasted a year and a half, suddenly i start texting this guy who's really really nice but i don't know whether i should throw everything away with my boyfriend to be with this other guy. I dont even know whether i stil...
A. 6 May 2008: only you know the answer to this question. If you love your' boyfriend then why should you throw away everything for a "nice guy", you know nothing about him and it could all end in disaster. If all you've done is texted then don't let that trap ... (read in full...)
Who does he like, if he's flirting with me and my best friend?
Q. If a boy keeps flirting, but is doing it really serious, and is doing the same to your best friend. Who does he like ?...
A. 6 May 2008: like the others said.
chances are;
he likes niether of you.
&tbh your' both better off without him,
he'll only cause arguments between you &your friend.
&at the end of the day.
friends are more important than any boy in the world.
x... (read in full...)
I've been wanting to lose my virginity for a long time now, but.....
Q. Hey, i'm 14 years old and before i go into anything personal, i am very mature for my age when it comes to relationships. Like i've never had an actual relationship with any boys my age as i think they are too imature.(i prob sound like a brat or ...
A. 5 May 2008: if you've always told yourself that you want to be in a secure relationship when you lose your' virginity, then why go back on that? If you are as mature as you say you are, then you will wait for that special someone, then you'll have no regrets to ... (read in full...)
My friends fit into size 4. I'm overweight. How do I diet?
Q. well, I'm 16 and weigh about 8 stone. i fit into size 8 or 10 clothes usually. i never thought i was particularly fat, although everyone has hang-ups and I'm no exception. however, today, me and few female friends were talking and i discover...
A. 30 April 2008: Why would you want to lose weight?
by the sound of things you just want to fit in with all of the rest of your' mates.
but why not be different.
nobody likes followers tbh.
no way do you need to lose weight.
i'm fourteen and weigh about... (read in full...)
My mum and dad are so protective, I don't know what to do to make them not like this?
Q. My mum and dad are so protective, i dont know what to do to make them not like this? They say were only protective because we love you, but i dont want to be controlled all the time.. what can i do?...
A. 7 April 2008: God, tell me about it, if anyone knows how you feel, i'm one of them. I ner go out with my mates, and barely have any because of this. All I've learned is honesty, if your mates ask you out one night, talk to them, sit them down and explain that ... (read in full...)
My thoughts are keeping me up all night and I can't get to sleep...
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad and feeling depressed lately. And I just let too much stuff get to me. Yes, I speak to my family about how I feel. I see a counseller once a week. But my thoughts are keeping me up at night. I'm having ...
A. 17 March 2008: i have exactly the same problem as you, i can get into bed at 9:00 and not be asleep untill 3:00 in the morning, and it can become really stressful at times. All i can suggest is you talk to your councillor or your parents about this problem, or ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to him at 14??
Q. ok I'm a 14 year old girl and there is this black guy I have known for almost a year. He is 14 also. I talk to him some times not alot and he wants to have sex with me. I am a vergin and he I don't think is. Last night I was texting him and he asked ...
A. 15 March 2008: Don't do it!
you're obviosly not ready for it, and i know how tempting it can be in situations like these. i meen, think of all the risks you could be putting yourself through, you're still young and will have plenty more oppertunities to do so in l... (read in full...)
I feel left out because I've never had a boyfriend.
Q. hi, im 15 and i have no confidence at all, i have never had a proper boyfriend and never kissed a boy either, every one i know has and i feel really left out. what can i do?...
A. 8 March 2008: You've got to know that you are not alone when it comes to situations like these. There are a millon of people out there in the same position as you, including me. I know exactly how it feels to have no self confidence around boys. But at the day ... (read in full...)
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