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writes:I dont know what to do. heres my story. My best friend (call him simon) is bisexual and he met someone(call him josh) . They had fancied eachother in the past but they became friends..then intermate.then day by day josh took over and i was being pushed out of the picture and it really hurt me. simon didn't even seem botherd. Once he invited me round after josh had gone but josh wasnt aloud to know because he would go in a mood with simon.Me and Simon ended up falling out over something stupid, we made up but can't hang about with eachother because of Josh, which caused me to hang about with other people whilst he hung round with josh at school. (just like josh wanted, me out of the picture) Me and Simon was really close and I cry almost every night because of whats happened. I used to go round to his everyday we would laugh so many times a day. Ive never had that connection with anyone. Ive tried talking to simon and he doesn't seem to care that i care. I cant live like this, without him. He was the most important person in my life. Now this. Its not meant to be. What can I do?
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reader, Skeez +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Have you ever tried actually talking to Josh rather than Simon?
I know this is probably not what you want to here, but from reading your post, all I get is that Simon didnt really care that much about you, otherwise he would be trying to keep the friendship up still. Or otherwise this Josh person has really made him fall head over heels for him that, thats all he cares about. It happens to the best of people. Once you get into a new relationship or even a friendship, they can become so independant on that person, that they forget the rest of the world exists.
I think you should have one more talk with Simon and pretty much give him a final ultimatum. Its either me and josh equally or no me at all.
If he doesnt want you in his life, then I think your better off. Concentrate on the friends you do have. eventually he should snap out of all this and start talking to you again properly
goodluck
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