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writes:My ex got in contact with me after 5 months and now I am confused. He has never been one to talk about feelings and admits it himself, he says he has trust issues. We met up for a drink and he was treating me very well like we were together again, calling me all the old pet names etc, and telling me I am beautiful and that perhaps things didnt have to end (it was his decision to end things as I was being demanding, which I have learnt from, and he was stubborn and didnt want to compromise). I am so confused as I love this man so much, but he hasn't come out and asked me to take him back, although he is calling me and inviting me out to do things with him (like dates). I have told him I love him still and he told me he loves me, but he has not made it official! I want him back, seen as though he ended things, I think he should be the one to ask for me back, do you agree? Or should I ask him? I suppose I need reassurance that he does want it, it seems like he does by his actions. Reply to this Question
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reader, Skeez +, writes (27 December 2008):
 I think he should too.
If he was decent, he would ask you straight back out officially when he started acting as though you two were together again.
Perhaps he does need thinking time and is only seeing if these dates will give him the all thumbs up to get back with you. But perhaps you should stop treating these meet ups as dates. Tell him that you still care but dont want to act as though you are going out when in reality you are not. I hate saying this but perhaps he is just messing with you. Which ever it is, you need to talk about this seriously.
Goodluck. xxx
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reader, KickRox  +, writes (27 December 2008):
 I think that you should wait until he asks you. Since he ended things. It looks like he still has feelings for you as you do for him..but wants to start things off slow with a few dates and take it from there.
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