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anonymous
writes:il try keep this short and sweet......why would my male friend text me every day. We did have a drunken kiss at christmas and hes been texting me every day since, even tho he has a gf the last couple of yrs. I told him nothing will happen with us while he has a gf and he is still texting me, Sometimes the text will go on all day, a lot of flirty sexy txts i know him yrs..........i know the last couple of yrs hes been trying it on with me and i laughed it off because i didnt look at him that way. Now however i am getting feelings for him but dont want to if he is gonna stay with her...............so what shud i do in this situation and does he just wanna sleep with me. He did make jokes about meeting up and i said i wont be his bit on the side and he said he doesnt wantme to be but im not sure if he just wants to sleep with me to get it out of his system.Advice appreciated, thanks.
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reader, too tired  +, writes (1 February 2013):
This is the same situation that I am going through right now. My ex as of yesterday is talking and texting his female friend as he calls her, and I don't like it because I know that he's sleeping with her and doing the same things that you are describing that your friend does with you. Yeah I'm sure that you do have feelings for him, you both have been cheating emotionally through text.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 January 2013):
 have you ASKED him what's up?
he's flirting and keeping the excitement on the side with you.
IF you were his GF and he was sending the kinds of texts you two have to another woman what would you think/feel?
he's EMOTIONALLY cheating on his GF with you.
CUT HIM OFF. Especially because you are questioning it and developing feelings.
Let him know that as long as he's taken (a gf) that you are NOT available.
do NOT respond to flirty texts. if he's a friend just keep everything "professional" right now..... NO flirty texts, no innuendo...
ask lots of questions about his gf... make him talk about her.... if he refuses, well then his motives are NOT pure with you... he wants a little bit on the side.
start befriending his GF if you like...
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reader, R1  +, writes (31 January 2013):
 Just make it clear nothing will happen till he splits up with his girlfriend. I assume there is nothing from stopping him ending it.
People often line the next person up while they are still in a relationship, this could be what he's doing with you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2013): "why would my male friend text me every day"?
It couldn't be because you sex text him and act like a piece on the side! Seriously, its texting about sex, not phone calls or dates.
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (31 January 2013):
 best way to know is to talk with the dude...you dont have to shag him or fall for his lies because he has a gf anyways.tell him if he dont leave her then you want nothing with him
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