Do I have the right to feel jealous if my on-and off bf sleep with another girl?
Q. Hello, So technically my boyfriend broke up with me a year and half ago (in Jan 2012) but he still keeps me around. He said long distance isn't for him but I still love him and have a hard time letting him go. So, every break when I get a chance, ...
A. 25 August 2013: Thanks honeypie, I will take your advise and give it some real thought :)... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to feel jealous if my on-and off bf sleep with another girl?
Q. Hello, So technically my boyfriend broke up with me a year and half ago (in Jan 2012) but he still keeps me around. He said long distance isn't for him but I still love him and have a hard time letting him go. So, every break when I get a chance, ...
A. 25 August 2013: @Ms Sady,thank you for your input as well. I did have a few guys asking me out previously but I just saw no interest in them, sadly. My friends want to drag me to clubs/bars and socialize, saying that I would meet some really cute guys there. But ... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to feel jealous if my on-and off bf sleep with another girl?
Q. Hello, So technically my boyfriend broke up with me a year and half ago (in Jan 2012) but he still keeps me around. He said long distance isn't for him but I still love him and have a hard time letting him go. So, every break when I get a chance, ...
A. 24 August 2013: Thank you for all your help; I really appreciate it. The truth is, I had tried to move on, but eventually I found myself going back to him. Maybe because he was my first love and my first of so many things,that's why it is hard to let go. I know ... (read in full...)
Should I let it go and forgive my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 months but have known each other for almost 3 years. I always suspected that he and my sister had/have a thing for each other, but always thought that it was more like unspoken. He was once her teacher ...
A. 3 September 2011: did i indeed come across as desperate ??? i honestly didn't realize that..... but i guess subconsciously I'm still trying to defend him... (read in full...)
How can I be less shy in bed?
Q. I have a boyfriend, everything is great and he is very good in bed. I started knowing that women reach climax also by him, but i don't think he feels good because he is always on top of me, i am just afraid to be on top, i am shy, i would really ...
A. 3 September 2011: i'm like you too so it is always my boyfriend who's on top. I would really love to try some other positions, but is too shy to. Also, I'm not the slim type so that makes me less confident to show him my body. we did tried doggie style & i actually ... (read in full...)
Do women want to see men dressed provacatively?
Q. We All know men love to see womens' bodies - especially the private bits. Women often play upon this in how they dress, to get attention. My question is whether there is any reciprical feeling in women. Do women like to see any part of the anatomy ...
A. 3 September 2011: i guess it really depends. To me, a guy with tux or shirt & tie like Yv said is attractive because it screams professional. But even if he's just wearing a shirt without tie or a simple polo shirt, but leaves a few upper bottons open, showing a bit ... (read in full...)
Porn: sometimes it's helpful
Q. I’ve read countless posts about porn. Women saying porn is killing their self-image, ruining their relationships. Men replying that it just goes with the territory, get over it. By and large the women having a problem with porn are young (18-25)....
A. 3 September 2011: i don't think i have problem with porn as long as my boyfriend can differentiate it from reality. I hate guys who expect their girlfriends to do whatever actresses do in adult movies. To me that's simply impossible & unreasonable.Personally, i think ... (read in full...)
Is she just being hyper sensitive about my hygiene so she doesn't have to give me head?
Q. hi hears my issue. My girlfriend say my penis smells even when i have just got out of the shower. I have no sti or other problems as i got checked. I feel this is her being hyper sensestive or just a reason for her not to give me head anymore. I in ...
A. 3 September 2011: i agree with the other readers that your girlfriend might just be sensitive to smell. I think if she doesn't want to give you a blow job, she'll just say it instead of telling you that you smell down there. To me, that's a more hurtful thing to do. ... (read in full...)
Should I let it go and forgive my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 months but have known each other for almost 3 years. I always suspected that he and my sister had/have a thing for each other, but always thought that it was more like unspoken. He was once her teacher ...
A. 3 September 2011: I'm sorry, eyeswideopen, but why the "troll" ?... (read in full...)
Should I let it go and forgive my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 months but have known each other for almost 3 years. I always suspected that he and my sister had/have a thing for each other, but always thought that it was more like unspoken. He was once her teacher ...
A. 2 September 2011: Thank you all for your answer. I guess even *IF* he was using me, I still would never report him to school or anything because everything was mutual & consent; he never force me. He is my first love & will always be special to me-- good or bad. In ... (read in full...)
What's the difference between pre cum and ejaculate
Q. First of all, please excuse me if i appeared to be ignorant with my questions because i don't have many sexual experiences as my boyfriend is my first. 1) is it normal for girls to get a tear between her private area and anus after sex? at first...
A. 31 August 2011: thank you for taking your time to answer, the anonymous female reader. I think we both had been tested for STD during annual exam & some sort. Mine was recently when i visited Planned Parenthood & the result was negative. ... (read in full...)
What's the difference between pre cum and ejaculate
Q. First of all, please excuse me if i appeared to be ignorant with my questions because i don't have many sexual experiences as my boyfriend is my first. 1) is it normal for girls to get a tear between her private area and anus after sex? at first...
A. 31 August 2011: Thank you all for the answers. @ Chigirl, he told me the other day that after sex, his testicles would hurt. He told his doctor about it but she said it's nothing to be worried about....And about the perineum cut that i got for a few times after ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to bleed even at the third time of sex?
Q. so about half month ago I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and i sort of bled a lot that we had to stop. I had some spotting for the following few days, which seemed to be normal according to what others say online. Then 4 days later ...
A. 30 May 2011: it doesn't quite hurt, only a little bit at the beginning but it was definitely acceptable. I enjoyed the sex so i think it was fine :)... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to bleed even at the third time of sex?
Q. so about half month ago I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and i sort of bled a lot that we had to stop. I had some spotting for the following few days, which seemed to be normal according to what others say online. Then 4 days later ...
A. 30 May 2011: thanks for your reply. No, the sex wasn't rough. in fact, he was very gentle and asked if it hurts. I don't know if his penis is considered large or not since he is my first guy, but he himself is sort of considered a large man i guess :)... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to bleed even at the third time of sex?
Q. so about half month ago I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and i sort of bled a lot that we had to stop. I had some spotting for the following few days, which seemed to be normal according to what others say online. Then 4 days later ...
A. 30 May 2011: thanks for all the replies ~ the thing is that, the second time when we were having sex, he didn't inserted his penis that deep & we stop right away when we saw a little blood coming out, so the bleeding wasn't serious. And pretty quick afterward, ... (read in full...)
Is it a big turn off for guys when they see girls bleeding while having sex?
Q. The other day my boyfriend and I had sexual intercourse for the first time and i guess he sort of didn't know how to react when he saw me bleed. He didn't stop right away because he didn't want me to get anything wrong, but I could sense that he ...
A. 16 May 2011: Thank you so much for all your answers. The thing is that, right from the beginning of our relationship, when he asked me about my sexual experience, I told him I have none. Later on one time when we were about to have sex, something from my past ... (read in full...)
Talking dirty advice and erection problems!
Q. (Mod note: two questions from same user combined.) can anyone please tell me what are the ways that I can turn a guy on and how to talk dirty, my boyfriend and I have difficulties when trying to make out and he told me talk dirty might help, but ...
A. 8 May 2011: Thanks for both of your comment. yes, i know this is pathetic, he has a wife & he likes my sister, yet I end up having a sexual relationship with him. I've asked myself many times too whether I'm this desperate & thus have to appear as if I'm so ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend loses erection as soon as we try to have sex
Q. Hi my boyfriend Is 20 and im 19, We have been dating for 5 months now, known each other for 2 years. Everything is going great except for one thing. We cannot have intercourse at all as my boyfriend looses his erection as soon as we try. We alway...
A. 8 May 2011: i'm in the same situation like you, may be worse. I'll admit that i have no sexual experience at all so even though i try my best to give my boyfriend a blowjob, the result was disappointed. he just loses his erection so fast before we can even have ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to make the move?
Q. So i have known this guy through my sister because he was her professor and he is also our club advisor. I am pretty sure that he likes my sister, but i'm not sure whether he has feeling for me or not because sometimes his behaviors are confusing ( ...
A. 21 April 2011: thank you for answering my questions. in your opinion, if it turns out that I really had lost my virginity without me actually knowing it, shall i tell him about what happened during my childhood? or will he feel disgust? :(... (read in full...)
Husband "stalks" his sisters and neices, shouldn't I be disturbed by this?
Q. Husband "stalks" his sisters, neices. I find his behaviour creepy, embarrassing and weird. Brief background, no they are not overly close. They have been in and out of each others lives every few years or so. We are all in our late 30's (with ...
A. 6 April 2011: oh yes, you should be totally disturbed, i don't blame you ~ that is pretty creepy ~... (read in full...)
How can I start a casual conversation with the professor I'm romantically interested in?
Q. I always want to strike up a conversation with the professor i like when we're together, but i don't know how. it might be due to my limited social skills or it could be because i'm nervous..... i feel very awkward every time we're together alone wh...
A. 6 April 2011: thank you so much for the advises! i don't know why but i start to feel guilty as if some of my classmates might be on this website and see what i wrote......i'm not talking about this current question but a previous one, which anyone from my ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my parents about me and their friend. There is quite an age difference.
Q. I've become attracted to my mum and dad's friend, we've been seeing each other for a few months but don't know how to tell my mum and dad 'cos there's quite an age difference between us, any advice?...
A. 3 April 2011: i don't understand why people always labeled older guys who fall in love with younger girls creepers~ personally i see nothing wrong with that;same with younger girls who like guys that are 10-20 years older than themselves ~ may be you can pres... (read in full...)
What is the most common female fantasy?
Q. I'm very curious. Well I'm just wondering if any women out there can enlighten me a bit on the most common female sexual fantasy? ...
A. 3 April 2011: does having sex with my teacher in school or with my boss in the office count? or with a married guy? LOL... (read in full...)
Was my teacher genuine or will he forget me while I wait? He told me to cool until I'm no longer a student
Q. Okay, so I've been crushing on this teacher for a couple of years now, and we've gotten pretty close lately but he's been scolded and he told me we should cool things off for a while because he says he doesn't want to get me in trouble. He said he ...
A. 1 April 2011: i don't think he really meant it when he said that he doesn't want to get you into trouble. it sounds to me that he's worrying about himself ( getting into trouble and loose his job ) more than you..... sorry if i upset you ~... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and I understand nothing can happen
Q. Hello. I know that quite a few people have this problem now, which is nice to know- as I'm not totally alone, but the thing is.. I'm in 'love' with my teacher from school. I'm turning 15, and my teacher's 3O. Yeah, big age gap.. I know. I met ...
A. 1 April 2011: it is so not true when people say that you'll eventually get over it. at least in my case, i can't ~ when i don't see my professor , it just makes me sad. but when i can bump into him for even just 1 second, it makes my day :)... (read in full...)
I love my teacher and I can't hide it. I want to tell him.
Q. hi. im so confused about my feelings for my teacher and its really hurting me. i cant bear to not go to school especially when i have him for his subject that day, i cry all the time if i haven't scene him in a couple of days. i look out for him...
A. 1 April 2011: i don't think it is a good idea to tell him either because what if he doesn't have any feeling for you? in that case it will only make the situation awkward and he might even try to avoid you in the future..... don't get me wrong, i'm not against ... (read in full...)
My crush intends to make me jealous
Q. Grr! I'm so confused! There's this boy that I really, really like, and I think he likes me too because we flirt and stuff around the halls at school and stuff sometimes. Like, we stare at each other, and sort of always seem to find each other. Idk. ...
A. 31 March 2011: it's natural, most of us will do that so i understand him~ ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to ask to take a picture of my professor?
Q. Ok,please don't say anything like "don't be stupid" or "get it over with" or whatsoever. i just have this feeling that I can no longer hold and really need to share it with someone~ So this is my last semester in my college and there is this pro...
A. 28 March 2011: thank you again, lonelygirlll, for answering ~ i'm not sure that he will be there for the graduation because our ceremony isn't hold on campus but in an arena. from past experience, not all professors show up that day, which really sucks :(
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Is it ok to ask to take a picture of my professor?
Q. Ok,please don't say anything like "don't be stupid" or "get it over with" or whatsoever. i just have this feeling that I can no longer hold and really need to share it with someone~ So this is my last semester in my college and there is this pro...
A. 27 March 2011: thanks for the replies. in fact i really would love to have a picture WITH HIM, and not only OF HIM, but i'm afraid that he'll find it awkward or suspicious. but, since i'll be leaving, i guess it'll worth to try ~ so how exactly shall i ask him? ... (read in full...)
Do I need to seek help? I like older men!
Q. Okay so im a 18 year old single mum to a 10 month old baby, for a long time i have been attracted to older men. My daughters father is 38 and i am currently dating a man who is 52, is this normal? Or do i need to seek help??...
A. 25 March 2011: i don't think it is abnormal ~ i guess girls tend to like guys who're older than themselves because they are more mature and attractive ~ when i was 15, i like a guys who was like 30 something, or maybe 40. now, i am attracted to a guy who is about ... (read in full...)
He left me when I was a month pregnant and I never hear from him until a year later when he wants to marry me!?
Q. Hi everybody,Please help!My boyfriend left me when i was a month pregnant.I take care of myseslf during all my pregnancy time.I had never heard about him and I did not know where he was neither.I took over everything on my own,no child support,and ...
A. 25 March 2011: abandon a woman after she's pregnant is the worst. no matter what the reason is, it is cold-hearted & irresponsible. i will never be able to forgive such a guy because i can never forget the betrayal ... (read in full...)
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