I told him I love him, he told his friends, they are laughing at me, how do I stop them?
Q. Dear cupid, I fall in love so easily and I think I know why. I believe im searching for the male figure in my life because my dad left when i was little. But recently... i really fell in love with a guy and i told him now all his friends are laug...
A. 5 April 2012: I've been in you sitation before. I understand how much it hurts. There's nothing you can do though. Some people just don't seem to grow up. You have to try your best not to let them bother you. If you don't, it's only going to cause you problems. ... (read in full...)
I like my teacher but I know its a bad thing!
Q. Hello. I need some advice. I'm a teenager, and I SWEAR I have the HUGEST crush on my teacher. Its like a crush from elementary school, that's what kind of crush I have. I looove his personality. He tells us a lot of stuff... But I think its a bad ...
A. 19 October 2011: I still have feelings for a former teacher of mine. Don't make the same mistake I did. Even if it is just to get it out in the open and try to move on,keep this to yourself. If you want to talk, you can private message me.
Also, I think should s... (read in full...)
How do you change your entire personality?
Q. Hello, I myself am a really lonely individual, I don't have any girls that are friends guys that are friends, don't have any girlfriends. I think the problem is my personality. Here's what my personality is. I like doing dorky loser things like, ...
A. 25 September 2011: You should never try to be someone you're not. It's better to be "dorky" or weird and unliked than to be fake and popular. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you are.
Continue to do what you love to do and don't worry what other peop... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and he's 20...can this work?
Q. I recently met a guy at the bar that I started dating. The thing is he's 20 and I'm 24... He says it doesn't bother him at all, is this normal? We get along great but it makes me wonder what his motives are... Any insight from you guys out there? ...
A. 20 September 2011: Hun, it's just by four years. Don't sweat it. Of course it can work. Yours is a puny drop in the bucket compared to those who are dating or married, and there's a 20+ or 30+ age difference (and they're very much happy btw).
Age is but a number. ... (read in full...)
I want to stop having these dreams! They are pleasant but interfer with reality
Q. I've been having some dreams recently, well, more often I should say. It's usually with me and a girl, but the significant part of the dream is the action the girl takes. Holding my hand, laying her head on my shoulder, holding me tightly. It's...
A. 18 September 2011: It is very unhealthy to be holding on to those feelings. Believe me, I know. Then to wake up to reality is a serious bite in the arse. You cannot simply wish or push dreams away. I suggest you seek for a dream therapist. No one here can really help ... (read in full...)
I care so deeply for this girl, I don't want her to slip up and kill herself
Q. Well it looks like I've found myself between a rock and a really hard place.. We've been together for 2 months, everthing's been going great. I know who she really is, she's sweet and cute and I guess a little on the shy side, I accept all of wh...
A. 12 September 2011: Please inform her parents. I understand you care about her and don't want her to break up with you if you did, but it is for the best. Her habits need to be put to an end. I is very dangerous. Do what is best FOR HER. She wull probably be mad and ... (read in full...)
Has anyone worried about having an unattractive child?
Q. so this isnt a bf/gf type question but i do need a bit of advice. Has anyone ever been worried about having an unattractive child? It may seem selfish....but i cant believe im the only one who has ever worried. Help please?...
A. 12 September 2011: P.S. I apoligize for the errors in my post. My labtop is being stupid as per usual.... (read in full...)
Has anyone worried about having an unattractive child?
Q. so this isnt a bf/gf type question but i do need a bit of advice. Has anyone ever been worried about having an unattractive child? It may seem selfish....but i cant believe im the only one who has ever worried. Help please?...
A. 12 September 2011: P.S. I apoligize for the errors in my post. My labtop is being stupid as per usual.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to tell my friend that I've fallen for him
Q. Ok so where to start, I think I am falling in love with my best friend. We both went through tough break ups last year and as it turned out we fell to each other for comfort. A sort of 'friends with benefits' aranement really. We always agreed we ...
A. 12 September 2011: Tell him. If you don't, you'll regret it and wonder what could have neem. I know it's clique, but it is true.... (read in full...)
Has anyone worried about having an unattractive child?
Q. so this isnt a bf/gf type question but i do need a bit of advice. Has anyone ever been worried about having an unattractive child? It may seem selfish....but i cant believe im the only one who has ever worried. Help please?...
A. 12 September 2011: No offense, but how could you ask think that? I know there's a phbia that has to do with deformed children, but that sounds a cruel to me. You should love you're child no matter what. There have been so many poor children out there who are abused ... (read in full...)
Would u have sex with someone if they promised a job?
Q. would u have sex with someone if they promised you a job or if theyd support you but you were a virgin...
A. 12 September 2011: No. That is morally wrong. I advise you not to become a woman who "sleeps her way to the top." Get a job the RIGHT and FAIR way. Personally hand in a well-written application and strive to be your best in an interview. If they do not accept you for ... (read in full...)
Why are beautiful people the ones with the most insecurities, when there's nothing wrong with them?
Q. How is it people who are beautiful end up being the ones with most insecurities, even thought there's nothing wrong with them? My best friend who is bloody gorgeous and gets told it by so many people, has more insecurities then anyone would ever ...
A. 10 August 2011: All I ask is that:
1) I could have LOTS of tacos.
2) The world will stop stereotyping and judging people.
... but the that's wishful-thinking.
You don't know for sure that the women who are "beautiful" are the ones with the most insec... (read in full...)
Is my ex having sex with other men?
Q. is my ex having sex with other men? she still shaves her pubic region everyday i found this out cause we ended up having sex one nite out of the blue so why would she still go through the hassle if shes not having sex with others?...
A. 10 August 2011: TasteofIndia and everyone else pretty much said it all.
It's comfortable for a woman to shave. Not to mention there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to take care of yourself and looking tidy for YOU (not anyone else).
She is your e... (read in full...)
Older husband has ED, do I cheat?
Q. need help.my husband is older by 12 yrs..he has ED.i am only 33 even though we r married..do i stop hhaving sex cause he cant..i like having sex..our sex life has never been great anyway..so do i find me someone on the side just for sex or just stop ...
A. 7 August 2011: I can't believe an Agony Aunt would actually ask that question. No, you shouldn't cheat. You decided to marry an older man. That means you have to cope with all the disadvantages. Surely you would have known that he wouldn't be able to have sex ... (read in full...)
Why don't women with low self-esteem stay loyal to emotionally strong men?
Q. Why don't low self esteem women choose to be loyal to emotionally strong, masculine men, who are good to them? (a generalization)...
A. 7 August 2011: This is coming from a girl who can be confident and spontaneous, but at times can put herself done because of her past. Women with low self-esteem have issues with involving themselves with emotionally strong men for various reasons. They feel are ... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and she is 18, can we overcome the age gap?
Q. This is very weird for me to talk about because I know this is not commonly accepted (especially since I would not normally accept this). I am 28, just moved to the states, and I have become involved with an 18 year old. I have never dated someone ...
A. 6 August 2011: The only way the judgments of others can bother you is if you let them. Worrying about what the perspective of certain people and society can definitely put a strain on you're relationship. It may be a big age gap, but judging from your post, it may ... (read in full...)
If a guy knows he's a bad person, why doesn't he try to better himself?
Q. When a man calls himself a s**t , does that mean he thinks he is a horrible person, and that he thinks you are a nice person and he feels bad for treating you badly ?. This is about someone i was seeing. We saw each other for two months, and he ...
A. 6 August 2011: Perhaps he's wrestling with his inner demons and feels you shouldn't be involved. If that's true, then you should give him the space needed. A person can't change overnight. It takes much time and patience, as well as, strength and determination. As ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a beautiful woman to be narcissistic, rude and conceited?
Q. Right so I have this friend who is a woman. She's gorgeous. At first I fancied her a bit, but we soon realized it would not work. So we've remained mates. Thing is, she gets very conceited at times. She tells me these stories about guys she date...
A. 30 July 2011: You're stereotyping. Not all beautiful people are "narcissistic, rude, and conceited." No, you should not cut her any slack either. No one should act this way. You seem decent, and you don't deserve to put up with her smug attitude. Take her by the ... (read in full...)
I feel like my skin is awful and I can't let anyone see it without makeup
Q. Okay I've never talked to anyone about this before, here it goes. It's weird.. So, I hate letting people see me in natural lighting. Like out side and stuff, or even in a really well lite room. I hate my skin, my complexion is horrible. I have...
A. 23 July 2011: There are specialists who can take care of those acnes sacrs, pimples, whiteheads, blackheads, etc. Ask your parents about seeing one.... (read in full...)
I feel like my skin is awful and I can't let anyone see it without makeup
Q. Okay I've never talked to anyone about this before, here it goes. It's weird.. So, I hate letting people see me in natural lighting. Like out side and stuff, or even in a really well lite room. I hate my skin, my complexion is horrible. I have...
A. 20 July 2011: I understand how you feel. I used to wear a lot of make up in middle school. But I saw that it was making my skin worse. It caused my skin to break out more and became greasy. It also wasn't helping my self esteem. I always tried to hide myself. I... (read in full...)
Really romantic love songs?
Q. Does anyone know any really romantic love songs??...
A. 18 July 2011: I agree with female anon. A lot of women, young or old, aren't able to be 'swept off their feet' by a poetic man. I admit it is sweet though. It all depends on the type of little miss you're involved with. If she's very emotional and loves poetry ... (read in full...)
Have there been students who have married their teachers?
Q. Hello, my question is: have there been students who have married their teachers? (by the way, Im 15 years old, and my teacher whom I have a crush on is 30. He went out of the country to get a masters degree, but we remain in contact.) do you think ...
A. 7 July 2011: It's a rare occurrence, but whether people want to believe it or not, there have been a lot of times where two people who share a past student/teacher relationship have wedded and are very much happy. Not all but many sexual relations between ... (read in full...)
I ran into my school teacher crush and after 12 years I still have a thing for her!
Q. I am 25. She is 40. She was my teacher in 8th grade. I hadn't seen her since. I ran into her the other night at a club. I went up to her to tell her who I was and we laughed and exchanged small talk. She was pretty drunk. I asked her about her ...
A. 4 July 2011: Wow. I wish I could have a make out session with my former teacher but I'm 17 and he's married. I've been in love with him for almost 3 years. He's too good of a man though to cheat and I'd never want to hurt him by wrecking his home. You're lucky ... (read in full...)
Can I make my man's penis bigger?
Q. hi am a 21 year old woman and i have a problem my fiance have a small pennis and i real love him so much we are getting married by december what am i suppose to do?is there anything that can help to grew up his pennis?please help me....
A. 3 July 2011: Ronnie makes good points. Have you ever had sex with him? Do you mean he's small even when erect? If you really love him, you shouldn't try to change him (physically, mentally, socially, etc). When you love someone, you accept them fully, faults and ... (read in full...)
Does everyone have a type?
Q. I have heard before that people can have multiple "soul mates" or people that they are attracted to or fall in love with. I have also heard that everyone has a "type", and the one they end up with falls into a mold of a person that is their ideal. ...
A. 3 July 2011: I believe that someone can love two people at the same time. For instance, if a spouse is happy until someone else comes along who seems like the 'right' person is definitely possible. It's true that everyone has a type but they don't always find ... (read in full...)
After 36 years married male friend found me. Now what?
Q. There a guy that in high school we were cloe and wanted to get involved but slowly drifted apart after goin to college. He's married and I am widowed. He has been looking for me. Surprise he found me. We have talked on several occasions and ...
A. 3 July 2011: I'm sorry but I don't think you should 'hook up.' He's married now, meaning he's UNavailable. He made a commitment to another woman and now he has to live by it. Surely you don't want to be a home worker. Does he have any children? After 36 years of ... (read in full...)
Does playing hard to get work and how can you do it?
Q. hi all can someone please answer this question does a woman playing hard to get with a man she really likes work and how should i go about it? thanks ...
A. 3 July 2011: Not always. Everyone has they're own preference. A lot of men may prefer a woman who is easy because they feel like they have a good choice, are just looking for that moment of please, or simple like a woman who's steady and don't "scream trouble." ... (read in full...)
Why do people judge other people?
Q. I'm so mad. Why does the human race have to judge everyone and everything? Who cares if someone is gay or straight? Who cares if someone has a few extra pounds? Who cares if they're poor or rich? If their house got foreclosed? Who cares if the like ...
A. 2 July 2011: I was drawn to your post. I don't blame you for asking this. I still say the same thing every day. I learned the hard way that the world is full of people who can't stand those who are "different. They're too frightened to embrace difference. They ... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 1 July 2011: Hi. It's nice to know that you married an older man who never had any intention of using you for sex seeing how many relationships like your where that is the issue. Unfortunately pretty much all couples with a big age gap have these problems. A lot ... (read in full...)
I really want to get pregnant -- should I?
Q. I want to get pregnant but I know I'm young... I'll be 17 in two months and I've been in this relationship for almost three years. My boyfriend is in the Navy and I love him very very much. We've had a miscariage and it hurt both of us very badly...
A. 26 June 2011: It's good that you two decided to wait. Just so you know you're not the only one who is worried. All women, especially married ones with children, fear for their military lover's safety. The good thing about not being pregnant now is that you don't ... (read in full...)
I like a guy but my best friend loves him too!
Q. I like a guy but my best friend loves him too, he liked my best friend before but now he says he love me again. But he don't know that I love him because I do not want my best friend learn that and the guy once told me on facebook ' I'm gonna try ...
A. 26 June 2011: It depends on how much you value your friendship. In my opinion, a guy isn't worth losing a best friend. Its the classic scenario where two people, friend, like the same guy. When they try to compete with each, it never ends well. Think of your ... (read in full...)
Scared by my ex!
Q. i broke up with an ex-boyfriend like 6 months ago. we were one of those on again off again couples, so it wasnt our first break up. I ended the relationship around january due to some of his behaviour that i really really didn't like. But we chose ...
A. 26 June 2011: I inwardly cringed at the things that you mentioned he does. You're friends are right. You need to call the police and get a restraining order against him. Despite the ordeal you will go through to do so, it'll be worth it. He is becoming very ... (read in full...)
Three weeks since the break up, is it too early to date a new guy?
Q. Hmm so this is the situation. I recently broke up with my bf...we'd been together for nearly 2 years..(22 months to be precise). I was the one who called it off...it was going no where, we were making each other miserable... So its been abou...
A. 26 June 2011: Masq is right. No one here can tell you if it's time yet or not. Only you will really know. Honestly it seems a bit too soon, but it's your call. Stop and ask yourself what made you miserable, what are you really looking for in a guy, what are you ... (read in full...)
Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?
Q. Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if ...
A. 25 June 2011: Everyone else here hit the mark. If he didn't want to lose his family, the thought of cheating wouldn't have crossed his mind. And with TWO women. He cheated on you with two women and knocked them both up. I remember reading it somewhere about a ... (read in full...)
Trying to know how to deal with a friend (whom I have feelings for) from making the worst decision of his life!
Q. I'm just really upset right now over this guy(how typical), say Ned. We met at the beginning of the year at the start of our course. I'm 19 and he's 21. We're both touchy feely people, so when we hugged alot, I never got to think twice and I ...
A. 25 June 2011: Sorry about the 2x post. ... (read in full...)
Trying to know how to deal with a friend (whom I have feelings for) from making the worst decision of his life!
Q. I'm just really upset right now over this guy(how typical), say Ned. We met at the beginning of the year at the start of our course. I'm 19 and he's 21. We're both touchy feely people, so when we hugged alot, I never got to think twice and I ...
A. 25 June 2011: I think I'd have to agree with *Ned on this one. Crushes can make us do irrational things. You admitted it yourself that you have feelings for him. That's probably why you don't approve of his girlfriend. You haven't met her so you can't say she ... (read in full...)
Will a fun car help me get a girlfriend?
Q. alright its time that I get a new car or at least something fun to drive in the summer/weekends. I am looking at sports cars which isn't making my insurance company happy seeing as I am only 17. Well I have found two very different types. 87 Ford ...
A. 25 June 2011: No offense but that's really silly to think a car is a way to meet girls. I know I could care less if a guy had a car or not. As cliqued as it sounds, if you want a girlfriend, just be yourself. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Girls love ... (read in full...)
Should I risk quitting my government job for a boyfriend who I haven't ever met in person?
Q. Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. B...
A. 25 June 2011: "Well he said he'd come in September and sweep me off bring back home with him which is something that something that somewhat bothers me." It should bother you. This faceless man is wooing you with the promise of a romantic meeting. You may think ... (read in full...)
Should I keep waiting, hoping she will change and eventually like me?
Q. I know they say you cant change anybody, they have to want to change. But then I read the stories about the guy who waits 100 days in front of a girl's window to prove his love, and eventually she comes around. I have been friends with a girl for ...
A. 25 June 2011: Hi. I'm sorry to hear about this constant heartbreak you are experiencing, but you are doing this to yourself. Don't keep clicking your red heels together, wishing and hoping she'll come around. Perhaps she has very personal reasons as to why she ... (read in full...)
I really want to get pregnant -- should I?
Q. I want to get pregnant but I know I'm young... I'll be 17 in two months and I've been in this relationship for almost three years. My boyfriend is in the Navy and I love him very very much. We've had a miscariage and it hurt both of us very badly...
A. 24 June 2011: No. Don't do this to yourself. To take care of a baby, you'll need a career to provide for it. To get a proper career, you need to finish your education. Do the smart thing and wait until after college. If you love your boyfriend, surely you two can ... (read in full...)
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