Men never hit on me
Q. I am 22 and I never had a bf before or ever dated. Guys never approach me for dates and never even approach me even for sex (so I guess that makes me a virgin also). I am also never hit on by guys or had a guy say he wants my number. I am 5'4 and ...
A. 31 August 2017: Hi there, I think it largely depends on the vibe you put out. Regardless of the lack of male attention you are receiving, I think you're putting out the right vibe. Having men hit on you constantly isn't really something you want if you want to d... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned ? He came home from his class, wearing cologne
Q. My boyfriend is a self defense instructor at our gym. He teaches an hour class one evening each week voluntarily. I noticed this evening that he came home from his class, wearing cologne. This is the first time that I have ever noticed him wea...
A. 12 January 2017: There are so many other factors to consider.
Perhaps your boyfriend noticed he smelled during the class or maybe he didn't have time to take a shower that day. Honestly, even if he is trying to impress " the ladies " what's so wrong with that? We g... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will not stop going on about an instagram post!
Q. I've completely lost the plot with my boyfriend but I'm not sure if I overreacted. I'm trying really hard to think of things from his point of view but it's difficult. My friend's daughter commented on one of my photos on Instagram that h...
A. 19 December 2016: I think you know the answer. You didn't overreact and if you're looking for reassurance then that's fine. But, I think you also know that you don't deserve to be treated like this. Just because you give him freedom doesn't mean that he owe... (read in full...)
Is my supervisor falling for me?
Q. Hello, There is a supervisor at my job who I would always have small talk with and she's very accommodating when I ask her for something work wise. Sometimes I'm so busy I don't get the time to talk to her. I can admit that I do find her attract...
A. 19 December 2016: She could possibly of had feelings for you. It seems as if she's noticed her behaviour is inappropriate and has since backed off. Don't jump to conclusions. Maybe you offended her in some way. There are a number of possibilities for her actions. It ... (read in full...)
Are FWB supposed to be this attached?
Q. We didn't have sex. We cuddled and made out. No hj or bj, no touching of my bottom private either. He was being extremely sweet (interlock fingers, kissing forehead, cheeks, palm, etc) but I dump that as an act of fwb. I didn't text him the fol...
A. 18 December 2016: Let me get this straight
1) you guys haven't had sex.
2) you haven't had a talk as to what you are.
I just want to know what made you think that he is or was interested in a FWB type of relationship? I mean maybe this guy actually has real fee... (read in full...)
I think my husband is being inappropriate!
Q. My husband is a personal trainer, I work upstairs from his studio. He trains this one girl and all he does is giggle and flirt with her. He swears that he doesn't but it's SOOOO obvious to me! What do I do??? I think it's disrespectful to me but he ...
A. 17 December 2016: Considering you're both adults, I think you should have an open talk to with him. Tell him exactly how you feel. If you truly want an open relationship, you wouldn't care that he's flirting. Who's idea was it for the open relationship? Regardless of ... (read in full...)
I can't stand my boyfriend's best friend and I don't know what to do about it.
Q. I'm having an issue with my boyfriend's bestfriend. They've been friends since they were babies but I can't stand him. I just think he's an idiot and a bad influence. I normally have a high tolerance for people but I actually can't stand to be ...
A. 11 January 2012: ....regardless how annoying he may be you care about your boyfriend he's his BESTFRIEND you can't tear them apart try to get to know him better... (read in full...)
I am 15 but attracted to much older men. Is something wrong with me?
Q. I want a real man is that so wrong? but the problem is i'm 15 and no real man would go for someone as young as me, i understand that i'm going through "changes" but I've always been more mature for my age and i find myself day dreaming about older ...
A. 15 December 2011: thank you all for your advice i will take it all into consideration but see i don't know i'm just attracted to them more physically ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is too shy when it comes to sex
Q. Hey guys. I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. It's nearly been two years and she's way tooooo innocent. Like i dont mind it but it halts us from advancing from anything. Like if i try initiate dirty talk, she would immediately reply with ...
A. 11 December 2011: talk to her about how you feel cause at this point you being in the mood could come across to her as you only want to get in her pants so talk to her tell her exactly how you feel but make sure you tell her many times that you respect her and that ... (read in full...)
Man over 20 with a teen?
Q. I am a 24 year old male and I was wondering is it illegal for me casually date a girl who's 17? Or just simply be good friends with her?...
A. 1 December 2011: it's only illegal if you get physical with her so just wait a year ... (read in full...)
The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness
Q. There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...
A. 29 November 2011: don't listen to most of these answers. When she gets older she can marry outside her faith its her choice, it's just frowned upon for now leave her be.text her a good morning text it'll keep you guys as good friends... (read in full...)
My boyfriend moved out, but he's still wearing the ring I gave him! What does this mean?
Q. hi i need help me and my boyfriend split up a few days ago and hes moved out i saw him today and he still has his ring on that i gacve him on our first valentines ady basically its a wedding ring, as he got me an engagement ring, plus he still has a ...
A. 11 August 2011: yeah and it takes awhile to let go. you sound like you want him back though..if you do you should talk things out and take it slow... (read in full...)
My Fiance has had many sex partenrs before me, how do I deal with it?
Q. Hello there, I am a 21 year old girl and I am currently in love with a wonderful guy who even asked me for my hand in marriage. He is 23 years old sweet, kind and always make me smile when I am around him. But the thing is... One day he aske...
A. 10 August 2011: Well i can see how you would be uncomfortable but also 11 is not that big of a number if it was 50 i would be concerned, But besides that every person is different. What i see as your the best he's ever had if he's willing to settle down with.If he ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake and our relationship has never recovered, should I give up or keep trying?
Q. i am in relationship in about 4 yrs and 5 months now,but my bf is different now,he is not like before i know i had made a mistake with him,becus last dec,2010 i had sex with a black man ,(but he know about it becus i met that person in internet ...
A. 22 July 2011: few words but keep trying!! eventually he'll be able to trust you again , it takes time!... (read in full...)
I just want to be friends with her
Q. Hello all, I come to you with a odd question, considering how many people seem to be posting about wanting to go out with a friend. There's a girl in my class who is sexy, funny and smart, she laughs at all my jokes and is very friendly whenever we ...
A. 22 July 2011: start calling her you bestfriend or "she's like a sister to me" people will get the point... (read in full...)
I bought a new motorcycle and my best friend was really hurtful about it!
Q. My best friend's comment has me baffled. I emailed my best friend and told her I bought a new motorcycle. Her response to me was: "OMG!!! I am shocked that you bought a bike. DO YOU WANT TO BE KILLED???? ARE YOU NUTS????? YES!!!!! HELMETS...
A. 18 July 2011: i agree with tish the "you'll be next" was really inconsiderate and i could see why you'd be upset about that... (read in full...)
I am still madly in love with him
Q. I'm only sixteen, but when I was growing up as a child, I was always around my older brother (who is now 20) and his friends. I grew up with one of his bestfriends, Josh (who is now 19). Me and my brother had been living at my grandparents, and ...
A. 17 July 2011: try talking to him telling him all your feelings the rest will flow ... (read in full...)
I bought a new motorcycle and my best friend was really hurtful about it!
Q. My best friend's comment has me baffled. I emailed my best friend and told her I bought a new motorcycle. Her response to me was: "OMG!!! I am shocked that you bought a bike. DO YOU WANT TO BE KILLED???? ARE YOU NUTS????? YES!!!!! HELMETS...
A. 17 July 2011: she doesn't want you to be fending for your life and her be worried it isn't mean it's realistic ... (read in full...)
I bought a new motorcycle and my best friend was really hurtful about it!
Q. My best friend's comment has me baffled. I emailed my best friend and told her I bought a new motorcycle. Her response to me was: "OMG!!! I am shocked that you bought a bike. DO YOU WANT TO BE KILLED???? ARE YOU NUTS????? YES!!!!! HELMETS...
A. 16 July 2011: bestfriends tell you the truth, her reaction shows she cares i honestly wouldn't get why your bother by this... (read in full...)
I bought a new motorcycle and my best friend was really hurtful about it!
Q. My best friend's comment has me baffled. I emailed my best friend and told her I bought a new motorcycle. Her response to me was: "OMG!!! I am shocked that you bought a bike. DO YOU WANT TO BE KILLED???? ARE YOU NUTS????? YES!!!!! HELMETS...
A. 16 July 2011: i'd laugh aha she cares about you a lot and she's right there are lots of nuts on the road but just be safe nothing to worry about. You should take it too seriously she just cares... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really tall, how can I kiss him?
Q. My boyfriend is really tall and he wants to kiss me but I dont know how to kiss a tall guy :-( help...
A. 16 July 2011: he'll lean down aaha don`t worry about it!... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. Hi cupid, I'm a "straight" guy age 24 and im still virgin.. is it normal? ...
A. 15 July 2011: actually i find that quite attractive in a guy to hold out, it means he doesn't sleep with just anybody.... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong?
Q. Hi there, I'm in my late twenties and single and, with the exception of a brief three month relationship about three or four years ago, have always been single. I am quite often told that I am good-looking, I am over six feet tall and am a pretty ...
A. 12 July 2011: since this girl says you over think things could it be your asking way too serious questions or questions that should be asked later on at the first meet ? your trying to hard, let the conversation flow and try not to be nervous confidence is key ... (read in full...)
Why do I have feelings for much older men?
Q. hello i'm 15(almost 16 thank you very much) and partly normal but overall typical well except for the fact of liking men 15 to 20 years older than me. yeah it's great to fantasize about these gorgeous men but i hate thinking of what i can't have. ...
A. 12 July 2011: thank you so all for your help Dorothy Dix-yes that is one thing i consider a lot if they grow older faster than me , we won't have much of a life. Doobie- i don't limit my options I've tried to hang out with guys closer to my age and nothing ev... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a two-year-old to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest?
Q. Is it normal for a two year old girl to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest? She's definitely a daddy's girl but a friend of mine told me she shouldn't want to lay on him. As soon as he lays down even if she's not going down for a nap or rea...
A. 12 July 2011: totally normal my parents friends kid did it a lot and yes she'll be a daddy's girl but eventually she grew out of it (4) now but even if she hadn't it's still normal :)!... (read in full...)
Do you think my girlfriend's relationship with her brother is weird?
Q. My girlfriends brother who is 13 lives in a care home as their parents have a variety of alcohol/drug/mental health problems. They have a really weird relationship though she insists on seeing him every weekend and has him stay over at least 1 night ...
A. 11 July 2011: i don't think it's weird, since you say there household is trouble he just wants a mom figure to be protective and have someone love him it's actually sweet and she just want to protect him and doesn't want to see him hurt. why do you feel ... (read in full...)
How do I get my teacher out of my head and make sure this doesn't happen again?
Q. so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but ...
A. 5 July 2011: pink90- i WISH i had his email so i could just talk to him but he does have a girlfriend and that would be weird, even if we would talk about nothing!
swordandredrose- he's 15 years older so twice my age,which isn't as big a difference but stil... (read in full...)
How do I get my teacher out of my head and make sure this doesn't happen again?
Q. so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but ...
A. 4 July 2011: i will try your suggestions but he's honestly the greatest guy in the world , not just saying that but he's everything i could ever wish for it's gonna be so hard. but thank you for your advice and comforting words. and thank you do much! i'll ... (read in full...)
We have an open relationship. Does that mean he doesn't love me?
Q. hi ok i have been in an open relationship for a year now.i know pple may critisize but it works for us we r both not ready to propaly settle down i am not jealouse if he goes and sleeps with other girls cause i know that to him its just for fun for ...
A. 3 July 2011: it's complicated.. i just think he wants a little of everything and i don't think he'll ever "settle" down which means if you get serious he'll be 100x more tempted to go back to that open relationship and cheat on you. You kinda sound like you ... (read in full...)
Do I ask her out after she dumped me?
Q. Okay so there's this girl who i really like, she's my ex infact and her friends keep bugging me to ask her out but im unsure and also i do not know how/what to say, she asked me out when we dated and also she dumped me so im lost. How do I ask her ...
A. 3 July 2011: there's a point to ex, in the past. leave it that way save your self another heart break, forget her. Her friends are being immature if she wanted to get back together SHE should talk to you NOT her friends.... (read in full...)
I fell for a teacher, he kissed me, sent me roses daily, I got sick, he moved on, what do I do now??
Q. My name is Alex (I'm a girl). I'm a freshman at highschool. When I started school I saw a very cute guy (he must be about 26) who was a teacher at the school (he isn't really my teacher, he doesn't teach at my classroom). We kinda liked each other, ...
A. 3 July 2011: guessing by your flag Italian right? and your like 15? same age as me, well here's the thing i in a way know how you feel i liked my teacher but he never did anything like your teacher did no matter how much i'd loved it if he had. anyways the point ... (read in full...)
How do I get my teacher out of my head and make sure this doesn't happen again?
Q. so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but ...
A. 1 July 2011: thank you lonleygirl you really did help but now i'm wondering what if i never ever get over him i don't even take interest in other guys or not completely or i compare every guy to him but none ever measure up. ans Sammy yeah i would never act on ... (read in full...)
Does the ring signify anything?
Q. Hello... I saw this girl with a simple and very thin silver ring on her left hand on the ring finger, it has no design and its a simple ring. She is on her 20s, and wears no other rings..what does the ring mean? Would it mean something else i...
A. 28 June 2011: sorry spelling error "to put men off" ... (read in full...)
My lover is married, how do I get people to stop judging me?
Q. I'm so fed up of people judging me for being with a married man. Once again my best friend has broadcasted on facebook that I am a homewrecker and my boyfriend will only cheat on me blah blah blah I started seeing this man a year ago but never as...
A. 26 June 2011: do you think anyone will be HAPPY your ruining a marriage forcing a man to divorce his wife, break a promise he made before his friends family and GOD ? no that's unreasonable YOU made the choice YOU have to deal with the consciences if you don't ... (read in full...)
Does the ring signify anything?
Q. Hello... I saw this girl with a simple and very thin silver ring on her left hand on the ring finger, it has no design and its a simple ring. She is on her 20s, and wears no other rings..what does the ring mean? Would it mean something else i...
A. 26 June 2011: Mandy covered it all! aha i would think that it was a ring to put me off and not hit on her, my sister does the same thing... (read in full...)
I'm not usually one to break up families, but I can't help the way I feel about him.
Q. I've got a bit of a dilemma and would really like some advice. I've fallen in love with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. He said he loves me too, but the only problem is, is that he lives in Wales, and I live in England....
A. 24 June 2011: if he "loved" you. (Which he probably doesn't) he would have broken up with his girlfriend and he obviously still loves her because "He loves me TOO" so he's not going to leave her, the advice on her is amazing i advise you do take it. Don't let a ... (read in full...)
I'm not usually one to break up families, but I can't help the way I feel about him.
Q. I've got a bit of a dilemma and would really like some advice. I've fallen in love with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. He said he loves me too, but the only problem is, is that he lives in Wales, and I live in England....
A. 24 June 2011: reconsider your title your breaking up a family! the kids wouldn't get to have a meal with BOTH there parents, find a nother guy! there are millions of non-married men!!... (read in full...)
She will not let me see my son even though I pay child support. I can't afford lawyers. How can I legally see my child?
Q. My ex girlfriend has banned me from seeing our son for no reason at all. I'm 22, she's 21 and our son has just turned 1. It all started when we broke up because I found out she cheated on me before she got pregnant. I moved out but said I'd always ...
A. 21 June 2011: you can have a lawyer appointed to you i'm sure of, do some research there are some firms that provide assistance and about the whole not showing up she'll have to if not likely the police will come and get her or somehow she'll be in trouble she's ... (read in full...)
I know I should wait to have sex, but I think I'm ready.....is this the right choice?
Q. im 14 and like other teen girls i think about sex A LOT and i think im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im scared of the pain or what could happen if we (Im) not carefull......you might think "oh all he wants is sex" not really i told him i ...
A. 21 June 2011: something to add if you don't it doesn't necessarily mean that he'll break up with you so don't feel pressured ... (read in full...)
I miss my best mate and want to be friends again!
Q. Helloo. around a year ago now i fell out with my best friend, after having a massive fight with her boyfriend. we have been ignoring each other ever since, now its been a year its starting to get awkward as we are in all the same classes....
A. 12 June 2011: well it seems that she's very immature girls in the middle school age are catty and WANT drama so chances are if you try to be nice with her she'll even make fun of that but for now just ignore her make her think you don't care and just pretend even ... (read in full...)
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