Why can't I date a black guy?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now. Put simply, I'm white and he's black. My dad insists that he's not racist, but he seems funny about it. He says there are risks involved in society. At the end of the day I really like my boyfriend, I ...
A. 30 April 2012: Thanks for all of your inputs.
One thing I disagree with is those of you that say a black man will get you pregnant and run away. My boyfriend and I had a pregnancy scare, he told me that he'd stand by me- he agreed that if I were pregnant... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 12 April 2012: Why do you say they are traditionally women's roles? What about men that live alone? Do they just die because there is no woman around? Surely it doesn't matter who does the jobs as long as they get done? I'm a woman, and I dare not let my dad do ... (read in full...)
Is the "instant spark" that important when first dating?
Q. Hi there:) I've been single for almost a year after coming out of a long relationship, so I thought I'd give online dating a try. I started talking to a nice guy for a few weeks,and we met up for the first time yesterday. I was extremely nervous ...
A. 12 April 2012: Did you know that guys decide whether they like a girl on the first meeting? However women take longer to decide.
I was the same with my now boyfriend. We were just casual friends, not really close. But the more time I spent getting to know him... (read in full...)
How do I greet him and how do I figure out if he likes me too?
Q. I recently met this guy online and we really hit it off. We text each other practically every day. I'm going to meet him in two weeks, but I'm really nervous. I'm taking a friend with me, but I'm not sure how to react. I'm a really shy person and ...
A. 23 November 2011: Thanks guys :) I'm starting to feel better already :) x ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I feel something (anything!) on the first date?
Q. I'm trying to forget this man I fell hard for and get into a committed relationship. It's hard but I'm trying. I went on a date and though the man was nice, cute boyish face, and we had a lot in common-I didn't feel anything. I hoped and hoped he ...
A. 5 November 2011: It's very common for women not to feel anything until up to the sixth date, whereas men often decided that they are in love with a women on the first date. - That's what I was told by my psychology teacher, whether it is true or not I do not know. ... (read in full...)
Irritable bowel...?
Q. My boyfriend has had this problem since he was a baby! It all started when he was 9 months old, he was rushed to hospital and operated on, there was a cyst on his bowel and a twisted gut! He is now 28 years old and 4 years ago this problem has came ...
A. 10 October 2011: Hey there my dad suffers from IBS and he was told a remedy by our dentist which he says, despite the taste, really helps.
All you need is 500ml of water, 1 tablespoon of fennel seeds (put them in a sandwich bag and crush them with a rolling ... (read in full...)
If a guy has sex with a girl, does that mean he loves her?
Q. If a guy has sex with a girl does that usually means he loves her? Also If he didn't love her how can guys have sex with a girl without having deep feelings for them? Thank you just curious....
A. 4 May 2011: Guys I know whom I've asked on this matter have all said to me: "Any Hoe's a go"
So I guess the fact that men generally have higher libido's than women, they opt for sex with the girls who are "up for it".
I'm not saying this is always the c... (read in full...)
The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...
Q. Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...
A. 1 May 2011: And I apologised in advance.
It just appears that you've come onto this site with a problem, but you yourself are unsure of what it is. Note that I said appears. I'm not judging you. But it's a fact that by making things personal it gets to peopl... (read in full...)
The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...
Q. Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...
A. 1 May 2011: Okay. What I'm about to tell you is exactly what you need telling. You asked for help on here. Thats what we're trying to do. You're insecure. You're a control freak "I enforced it..." You have a view of the world wrong. "I wouldn't ask this of ... (read in full...)
The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...
Q. Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...
A. 30 April 2011: Do you know what? That girl deserves the best guy she can get. I went through exactly the same as her at fourteen years old. And two years on I can't face guys my age. It really messed my life up. I honestly think that you are being selfish. H... (read in full...)
Birth control pill supply runs out when I'm aboard, how do I get more pills?
Q. I've started the pill, and from my calendar that I am using to find out when I run out of my first three month supply, I am going to run out on the second day of my holiday abroad. How do I get more pills? Do I have to have a check up to get more ...
A. 27 April 2011: Thanks guys, I'll go back before my holiday :) ... (read in full...)
Birth control pill supply runs out when I'm aboard, how do I get more pills?
Q. I've started the pill, and from my calendar that I am using to find out when I run out of my first three month supply, I am going to run out on the second day of my holiday abroad. How do I get more pills? Do I have to have a check up to get more ...
A. 25 April 2011: Are you serious? I've come on for advice, not to be mocked. FYI I'm on the pill for a reason completely different to it's use as contraception. Grow up. ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend suggesting all these sex improvement operations for me?
Q. Been with boyfriend for 10 years, have always been there for him in every way. I take care of myself financially, stay fit, work out four days a week, dress sexy, do what I can to keep things exciting. The other night he brought up me having a ...
A. 21 April 2011: Ask him to get a penis enlargement and ask him how he feels. How insensitive. Don't cook him dinner! ... (read in full...)
What is the mind of a woman like?
Q. if a woman suggests sexual activity to most any man, he's willing, probably eager, and more than likely thrilled. If most any man suggests the same to a woman, she'll say no, probably be offended, and very likely will decide that he's a shallow ...
A. 21 April 2011: Personally, the thrill of sex only comes to me if I'm attracted to the guy.
I am put off guys who dive straight in to asking for sex, because I'm not aroused by them. Most guys make no effort to attract the attention of the woman. They just dive... (read in full...)
When I ask him whats wrong, he says nothing! Whats up with him?
Q. Well, some background first. I liked him, he told me he liked me. I kinda went beserk, and we stopped talking for a while. Then now, we're talking again. So earlier, I guess he tried to reconnect with me by hugging me and saying we haven't in a ...
A. 19 April 2011: Sounds like he's upset because he feels you don't trust him with your feelings. I know as a teenage girl myself we sometimes taunt boys before telling them what's wrong. It's part of being a teenage girl I guess. If you just apologise for seeming a ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband that his friend is in love with me?
Q. Hello! I been married for 7 years!! We also have the same friends... Last weekend we went to a party with our friends, after the party we got home and went to sleep. About 1am I had a text msg from my husbands friend and it said "I need to talk to ...
A. 30 March 2011: My advice would be no, what if your husband thought you loved him back? Imagine if he fell out with his friend because of this.
Don't tell him. But be careful with his friend, a divorce is an upsetting time, he'll be emotional and a little inse... (read in full...)
Will my shorter penis please her as much as a longer one?
Q. Hi, been lurking here, and have seen all the questions on penis size. I know these get asked a thousand times, but I have another one, sorry. I have never been insecure about my size before, but I am with a girl who was with a guy much, much ...
A. 28 March 2011: Your size is perfectly average. Its not about the size, it's about how you use it!! ... (read in full...)
I don't know what an orgasm feels like?
Q. Hy good people help me. What is an orgasm and how must i feel like or do if i reached it...
A. 26 March 2011: Orgasm is the peak of sexual excitement, depending on how excited you actually are your orgasm will vary in strength.
I'm not sure about men, but when a woman orgasms it feels like the release of a "tickling" pleasurable sensation from her vagi... (read in full...)
Opinion on friends with benefits?
Q. Friends with benefits. What's your opinion? Do these kind of "relationships" always turn into something much more complicating? ...
A. 26 March 2011: Just to verify, this was a general query, I've seen quite a few questions on here about FWB's. I am not looking for a FWB. Personally I think no strings attached just doesn't work. One nearly always falls for the other. Great inputs here gu... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and I understand nothing can happen
Q. Hello. I know that quite a few people have this problem now, which is nice to know- as I'm not totally alone, but the thing is.. I'm in 'love' with my teacher from school. I'm turning 15, and my teacher's 3O. Yeah, big age gap.. I know. I met ...
A. 25 March 2011: Hey, you aren't alone :) I had (and still have) the same problem. I had a major crush on my old biology teacher, but as I got older I grew out of it, we stayed good "friends" and had good laughs in his lesson. When he left, we had a new teach... (read in full...)
Was my teacher genuine or will he forget me while I wait? He told me to cool until I'm no longer a student
Q. Okay, so I've been crushing on this teacher for a couple of years now, and we've gotten pretty close lately but he's been scolded and he told me we should cool things off for a while because he says he doesn't want to get me in trouble. He said he ...
A. 22 March 2011: I don't want to seem like a typical person and say: "Honey, you shouldn't get involved... Blah blah blah.... Consequences of him losing his job... He's a grown man, you're barely an adult..." Something along the lines of that. I agree with what ... (read in full...)
Why are people so judgmental?
Q. Why are people so judgemental? On here there are a lot of aunts and uncles, who seem to think that because a young questioner asks a question about love and relationships, they need to discourage this young person from being grown up and thInking ...
A. 22 March 2011: I like some of the answers. But, a few of you have seemed to have gotten the idea that I'm looking for an argument and to be proved right. I'm not exactly. I'm looking for debate, and I'm looking for evidence. Call it a null hypothesis if yo... (read in full...)
Girls: what pet names do you like?
Q. So, I just started dating this girl and we've been texting a lot. I've called her "cute" a lot. I've called past girlfriends "beautiful" and I know they like that, but it feels like just using those two words isn't enough. I mean, it would get rep...
A. 3 May 2010: Beautiful is nice.
You could call her Sexy. In a playful way.
If you mean Pet names as in what you call her when you see her you could use:
Babe, Honey, Darling, Gorgeous ( Girls do like it to be fair ), Sexy, Sugar, Flower.
It doesn't re... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend lying about the missing condom?
Q. i noticed that a condom was missing from mine and my boyfriends stash he got mad when i asked him about it and then he said later that last time we had sex he used two to help him last longer. I didn't notice but we have been together for six years ...
A. 21 April 2010: Using two condoms is dangerous, it makes it more likely that the condom will split. Don't chase him up on it count the amount before and after you both have sex, if then there is a problem then talk to him.... (read in full...)
Why do guys always stare at me?
Q. Everywhere I go, guys always stare at me, or beep their car horns, or try and chat me up and wolf whistle at me. I can't even walk my dog or go get a pint of milk from the corner shop without getting oggled. I dress appropriately, for example...
A. 21 April 2010: Sorry, no offense, but reading this makes me think you already know the answer to your question, it makes you sound quite big headed... :/... (read in full...)
My friend keeps dragging me around then leaving me for someone else
Q. Hi, A year or so ago my friend came out as bisexual. At first I was okay with it, but now its going over the top, she's 14 years old and talks to girls she doesnt know over the internet and arranges to meet up with them, she asks me to go...
A. 19 April 2010: Thanks for the great replies!
I understand what you are saying, but this friend is the sort that twists reasoning. I have tried to discuss with her how I feel about her and this buisness but she always turns it on me saying I am so narrow and I us... (read in full...)
Help understanding what women really want
Q. When it comes to men why is women picky? why is it women always say they want a good man but then its like you have to be a certain height,certain race, and have all of these materialistic things just to be wit them and on top of that they alw...
A. 18 April 2010: To be fair, Men can be exactly the same, they have this idea of the perfect woman and how she'd treat him. It's a bit over the top to say that all women are picky, they aren't picky we just have certain likings about people. A woman may find a man ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that being told so often can lead someone to believe and therefore make something happen?
Q. Morning All, I was again wondering this week, and once I came out of my wonderland, I couldn't help but think of the answer to the question I had thought of... I will try and make as much sense as possible. When someone is told something ...
A. 16 April 2010: I like some of the opinions here, thanks,
as for you saying this boy was gay before he came out.... I was dating him when we came up with the joke :D... (read in full...)
How do we stop these arguments?
Q. i've lived with my boyfriend for 1 and a half year. things is goin very well at first. but now, Alot of things change. yes! we're Stil loving, the only problem is his temper. he has very hot temper. he always wants Me to listen to him. if i don't ...
A. 11 April 2010: When your partner gets annoyed and you argue, you are both giving negative vibes. I suggest that you listen to whatever he has to say, do not argue with him, just listen. Once you have heard what he has to say do not judge him, understand what he ... (read in full...)
Does giving my mate a hand-job make me gay?
Q. Ok so last night on Facebook me and my bud were talkin about stuff and we got on the subject of handjobs and exchanging them for a little while we actually agreed to exchange them at my birthday party in summer. But then i got to thinking and was ...
A. 11 April 2010: There's nothing wrong with wondering, but, I would class gay as involvement in any sort of sexual activity. ... (read in full...)
I'm Christian but I want to have sex.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i ...
A. 7 April 2010: haha sometimes its the best way to get the point across.... (read in full...)
I'm Christian but I want to have sex.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i ...
A. 6 April 2010: Apologies, I'm tired, should have gone to specsavers.... (read in full...)
I'm Christian but I want to have sex.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i ...
A. 6 April 2010: q1605,
Sorry, but do you often contradict yourself?
"God loves you and will cast you into a lake of everlasting fire if you have it."
So does god really love a person if he is willing to torture them?
Why is it that you seek to instill a... (read in full...)
I've kissed girls but never made out
Q. Umm im a guy and in 14, I've kissed many girls but never really made out. Im scarred when i start i might bite their tongue or something stupied like that, i just want to know how to get into it/start it and how to maintain it. ALso i dont know how ...
A. 5 April 2010: Aww. Bless you.
Thinking about it, I never really thought about what I would do when kissing someone, I kinda just went along with it.
Here's some tips...
1. Stay relaxed before the kiss- Its okay to feel nervous, but the more relaxed you are... (read in full...)
I'm Christian but I want to have sex.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i ...
A. 4 April 2010: I would like to say, I did not mean to stir anything here if I did, I just think that as a human you have the right to do with your life as you wish, it is good to have faith in something as it keeps you going. I am christian but, to be honest I ... (read in full...)
I'm Christian but I want to have sex.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i ...
A. 4 April 2010: Have Angel Sex... Sex with clothes on, that way you can stimulate all your senses :P
Tbh, no offense but why are you living by such out dated "rules" if there is a god, then he must be forgiving, its not like he, the all mighty forgiver is going... (read in full...)
A rough diamond? Compliment? or Insult?
Q. what If your boyfriend says (your' a rough diomand )rough aound the edges.is that insult .or cheeky towards me.?...
A. 2 April 2010: means your good just need some more practice, all it means is he loves you, your just a little outta practice thats all xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want to have a baby and have even saved up the money for it!
Q. helloo please could you help me! i realy want a baby and i'm 13 but i will be 14 if i have a baby all my mates are sick and tired of me going on about it. i have told my boyfriend and he agrees with me 100% he wants a baby and he has s...
A. 2 April 2010: For one, you are under the legal age of consent. Also having a baby cannot be all planned for expenses, if they get ill you won't be able to just get medicines for free. Babies also require a LOT of care 24/7. You do not want to ruin your chances in ... (read in full...)
My Stepmum has been critical of me lately, would it just be better if I left?
Q. Okay so here's the problem. My step mum and dad have been together for about 7 years, they were married 4 years ago when i was 11/12 i didn't really mind, so long as my dad was happy (he and my mum had split up when I was 2 and he hadn't had grea...
A. 31 March 2010: My step-mum has an arithmetic problem with her heart, not to mention she worked with mentally ill elderly patients who also caused injuries and strains on her, and to be honest neither she nor my dad are spring chickens in their late 50's... ... (read in full...)
My Stepmum has been critical of me lately, would it just be better if I left?
Q. Okay so here's the problem. My step mum and dad have been together for about 7 years, they were married 4 years ago when i was 11/12 i didn't really mind, so long as my dad was happy (he and my mum had split up when I was 2 and he hadn't had grea...
A. 29 March 2010: Thanks for the advice, and I have before tried to talk to my dad about this, but each time I do it creates more tension because he feels he should not be in the middle of our things, he used to stick up for me but now he just takes her side. I feel ... (read in full...)
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