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writes: hey, i like this girl that i don't want to like anymore but the thing is i can't stop thinking about her, has anyone got any tips of how to move on from this girl? please help im 16
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reader, Evangeline +, writes (23 December 2006):
To be honest the only thing you can do is simply sit it out. Even if you come to the end of a bad relationship with someone your glad you dont have to see any more - it is still perfectly normal to still feel attached to them or that you think about her all the time.
Some people find moving on easier than others, but the general rule tends to be that you have to 'sit it out' for a while. Try to make it less confusing and easier to do by concentrating on other activities and keeping yourslef busy, e.g going out with friends, focusing on school/college work etc.
You must remember that you will forget about her and that you will meet someone else wonderful who will make you happy - the forgetting and moving on may just take a little longer than you think and not be quite what you expect.
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