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30-35,
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writes: Hi me and my boyfriend recently broke up.. basically he dumped me for one of my best friends! I know that people don't believe that younger people fall in love.. they think its just some stupid phase that we're having and we'll get over it with time. But its not like that.. and i've got really attached to this guy.. we've been on and off for about 5 months now. I need to get him back (please don't start with the 'he's not worth it you need someone you can rely on bla bla bla..' because i really dont care) Can you help me get him back and give me some tips? Thanks XxXxX
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reader, Evangeline  +, writes (26 December 2006):
 There is no method that will definately get him back - so dont get your hopes up too much! The best thing to do - id to show to him that your having a good time without him (even if your feeling like crying inside!) Show him that you don't need him to have fun and try and hang out with your other girlfriends at school. Don't do anything like blank him - if you see him walking down the corrider look at him, smile and say hello - be polite but keep your distance. He probably does feel guilty about what hes done - and if your rude to him it will convice him that he doesnt like you - so dont bitch or be un-polite!
Don't ignore the two of them completely - otherwise they will start to feel comfortable and without guilt if your not around. Keep up with the circle of female friends - dont shut yourself out - it will just make it harder to get back in with them and then you'll be without friends and boyfriend!
The most important thing is to try and not get too worked up about it, make sure you have fun with the girls who havent run off with your boyfriend! And being 17 myself i know how mad you feel about this guy but there are so many price charmings out there that will still your heart - so dont get too hung up on him! Good luck!
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