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reader, Agonyaunt14.  +, writes (25 October 2010):
Look.. you dont need to do anything to make him happy. you have got plenty of time to do these things. its a bit self control if u get what i mean. If he loves you , then you should not feel threatened about it! SERIOUSLY! x
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reader, fairhalflin  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 you dont have to have sex to keep a man. and dont feel the pressure to. when you're ready you are ready...dont speed things up. believe me, it will ruin the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): I am in the same boat except Im 16 and he's 25. We are friends with benefits. I knew him for about 4 years and we started kissing this past june. I lost my virginity to him and I definitely regret it. all he wants is to have sex and i dont. so i hightly recommend u dont.
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reader, scared16 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 you are obviuosly not ready because you seem really unsure. sex does not make a relationship better it just deepens what you already have. is your bf pressurising you into this in neway sweetie? x x x
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reader, finchy +, writes (18 December 2006):
 wait a year till u are legal age, and wait till u know it is serious. u dnt want to lose ur virginity then regret it later in life.. xXx
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reader, prettyinpink +, writes (18 December 2006):
Honestly, the age gap is too big because you are young. Youd shouldn't be giving up your virginity to make things better in a relationship, you should give it to someone who already makes the relationship that good.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Do you want an honest answer?
Having sex with your BF irrespective of any age difference will not make your realtionship 'better'. It will only complicate things.
How?
It will make you more entrnched in something that is already showing signs or wear and tear. Please hold on to your virginity for somebody you truely love and who really loves you.
x
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reader, Evangeline +, writes (17 December 2006):
 You are very young and even though the age gap between you and your boyfriend is only 5 years, you are still very young and emotionally the age gap is much bigger. If you are scared of having sex with this person, you should not being having sex with them. You should have sex with someone when you feel safe with them and trust them, you are protecting yourself from getting pregnant and do not have any doubts about the relationship. You also should not have sex just to please someone else - you should do it when you are both happy to do it and both want to. It is perfectly normal for a young girl with a boyfriend to want to have sex and expierience that side of relationships - and to feel that you can't control yourself, but please think carefully about yourself and whether you feel ready (not whether you should please him or not) but whether you are happy about it.
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