21 and want pay a prostitute to take my virginity. Is this illegal?
Q. I'm 21 and I want to lose my virginity soon, I don't want to drift into my mid-late 20's early 30's and still be a virgin. I am aware of the protection needed and please don't try and sell me any of the disneyland wait for the right girl and l...
A. 13 June 2012: you'll definitely feel better after, but over time when you can get real girls, you'll probably regret it. one more thing to add, when you see a prostitute, be sure shes hot and all you're looking for, and save up the money for it. cheap = bad,... (read in full...)
Is he happy or am I failing in the bedroom?
Q. hi there, i love my partner dearly and since he was my first i have always been willing to learn and try new things with him in the bedroom. but he doesnt want to do or try anything new? he likes to stay missionary. i have no problems w...
A. 13 June 2012: well, missionary is my favorite too, and when "she" wants to try something new, im like uhhhhhh ok... i guess maybe he just likes missionary. if you really want to spice things up or change things, maybe you can turn him on by taking the initiative ... (read in full...)
I want the perfect relationship.
Q. hi evry body; im 19 and i have never have a relationship with somone , now there is a guy who ask me to have a proper relationship with him and he told me that he loves me . but i dont now if he realy love me or not, and im afraid to accept ...
A. 26 July 2007: how can you get into a relationship without someone asking you........ in some way... implied or not..... it sounds to me you're waiting for one of those fairy tale moments, ones only in fantasy.
it's ultimately up to how you see the guy, if it is... (read in full...)
He knows I like him.but sometimes he ignores me! But do you think he likes me?
Q. Does he like me? Ok here goes: He catches my eye very often in the class/fields/common room. When he talks to me he listens to what i have to say and goes out of his way explaining things he has just said to me again. He smiles and his face a...
A. 6 May 2007: i disagree, are you saying that all shy guys should be treated this way? that guys HAVE to be the one to initiate everything? what happened to the new movement where girls are allowed to make first moves?
to the writer: if his friends told you... (read in full...)
Out of your league?
Q. If one topic is bound to generate heat between me and one of my friends then it's the perennial question of 'leagues'. Quite simply she insists they exist and I insist they do not although in practice I still sometimes think in terms of them. We all ...
A. 6 May 2007: awesome... (read in full...)
I don't like small talk when I meet someone! Have I got poor people skills?
Q. I think I have bad people skills, so I'd like some opinions on what everyone thinks about small talk and chit chat. When I meet someone new, I always think to myself that I should say something more than "Nice to meet you" and/or "How are you doi...
A. 27 April 2007: you won't come out as phony unless you feel like you're being phony! pretend like you're not and stick with the thought that you can respond with "what's wrong with me saying this?" By the way, if you needed some chit chat advice past how are you ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to have 'butterflies in the stomach"?
Q. What does it mean when you have butterflies in your stomach whenever you see a certain person or hear their name?...
A. 5 April 2007: lets just say every time i summon up the courage to ask a girl to something, i get butterflies in my stomach, the feelings india described a minute before.... it sucks to have butterflies, it makes you not yourself, but i guess thats what lust does ... (read in full...)
Why can't girls have the same sexual freedom guys do?
Q. Why do so many people have sexual double standards? I mean if a girl sleeps around she's a slut but if a guy does it he's a stud. You see parents who give their son a credit card on prom night to pay for the hotel room afterwards, but tell the girl ...
A. 5 April 2007: oh yea and another thing, most of my girl friends at school appreciate their female role, and these differences. although it doesn't make sense to feminists and a lot of women.... i think they are trying to act cute. just something i forgot to ... (read in full...)
Why can't girls have the same sexual freedom guys do?
Q. Why do so many people have sexual double standards? I mean if a girl sleeps around she's a slut but if a guy does it he's a stud. You see parents who give their son a credit card on prom night to pay for the hotel room afterwards, but tell the girl ...
A. 5 April 2007: feminists... but anyway that is besides the point. i think it has something to do with the concept of sperm being numerous, and egg being very few. in other species besides humans, the males job is mostly to make as many females pregnant as they ... (read in full...)
Our sex is getting boring, but I dont want to lose him as hes not making me complete, so how can we change this ?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are very sexual, yet I think that is all he thinks about now. I enjoy the sex, but it is gettin boring. We are stickin to the missionary position and I'm startin to lose feelin of it. He isn't "big down there", yet I love him so ...
A. 2 April 2007: and one more thing, from what i've seen here it is supposedly normal for the girl not to get off, and for girls, its more of a psychological thing, because its harder to physically get you off.... (read in full...)
Our sex is getting boring, but I dont want to lose him as hes not making me complete, so how can we change this ?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are very sexual, yet I think that is all he thinks about now. I enjoy the sex, but it is gettin boring. We are stickin to the missionary position and I'm startin to lose feelin of it. He isn't "big down there", yet I love him so ...
A. 2 April 2007: wow, he "isn't very big down there", the biggest insult you can give a guy. make sure he doesn't see this message.... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy to ask me out again?
Q. Please anyone got any advice? I am really confused, there is this man I like and after my friend told him I liked him he took me out one night. We had a really good night, got on really well and had a real laugh.He never tried anything on all nigh...
A. 24 March 2007: im pretty sure he's too shy to ask you out again, but he really wants to. ugh, i'm in that predicament, .. i'm sure he'd be happy if you did what tasteofindia just said... (read in full...)
Why didn't he answer his friend? Was he too embarrassed?
Q. hello. at school 2day me and my bf were hugging each other as usual :P we have been together for 2 and a half months. well his mate came up to us and said 'are you 2 in love?' and we just didnt really say anything. and then he asked my bf if h...
A. 13 March 2007: embarassed to say it in public, and he doesn't know what you think yet. i'm pretty sure he loves you. it's pretty natural to not say anything in that situation. other guys will think hes a wuss... (read in full...)
Help me please, I am confused about my sexuality!
Q. Help Me! I can’t tell whether I’m gay or straight. I’m basically sitting on the fence. This is the most confusing decision I have ever had to make; I don’t know what to do! I have had a sexual attraction to guys for quite a few years now, but onl...
A. 13 March 2007: I say you sit back and relax like everoyne here said. However, if you have your eye on a guy, don't go for it if you know he's straight, or try to convert that person to being gay/bi as well. It caused a whole f load of trouble to me and a lot of ... (read in full...)
All my boyfriend does is play games online!
Q. I'm currently working full-time and have a part-time. On the side, I'm taking a course as well. My boyfriend on the other hand just came back from a 3 months trip from Europe. He is now looking into applying for the Police, which will take at least ...
A. 13 March 2007: so you're disatisfied at the fact that he has life easier, and plays game because thats what guys like to do, even though you're not worried about his income? that's just another difference between the sexes... please remember that when females ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable?
Q. Am I being unreasonable? My fiance went on vacation by himself for two months in Florida without me and flew me down to see him twice so far because he extended his vacation from one month to two months. I am supposed to go down a third time on my ...
A. 13 March 2007: a little bit of both. i could see him getting mad when you said "so i should be able to as well" because this is different because he actually made reservations before hand. how would you feel if you put a lot of effort in planning a surprise party ... (read in full...)
He asked me out and I said no. Now he's got with my friend and I've realised I DO like him, how do I get him back?
Q. Last year i went 2 a party and i met a boy there who really liked me. He got my email address form somebody and we emailed each other. He asked me out, but i weren't interested. Weeks later, my friend told me that he had asked her out and she said ...
A. 13 March 2007: i don't think you really like him, and you shouldn't try not only because hes your friend's now, but because you only think you like him because now he's not available, and a hard catch while before, you could have said yes. i see this happening a ... (read in full...)
I have been burned bad in my past relationships, how can I start trusting again?
Q. I have been burned real bad in my last past relationship and now I have met a new girl and have very strong feelings for her but I am not sure on how to trust her. How do I start trusting again?...
A. 5 March 2007: perhaps you could find out what caused your past pains, if you at all had anything to do with it, even if it wasn't your fault, and adjust so it isn't like that this time. just a thought.... (read in full...)
Do all men like pert boobs ?
Q. Hay - this is a question mainly for the blokes. What are your thoughts on boobs, i mean is it really that important if there not completely pert? Cause mine aren't and im really scared to take my top off infront of men let alone have sex topless ...
A. 2 March 2007: well definitely not all . I can say that most of hte people I know like them not to big and not too small, and not saggy... but a lot of people are different. I like small ones too.. and I prefer them not to be too big. I have to admit that my guy ... (read in full...)
I'm going to college soon and have a boyfriend of 2 months but I keep thinking I might meet a nice boy at college! Why am I thinking like this when I already have a boyfriend?
Q. hi, im 16 years old and off to college in september. i have a bf that i have been with for 2 months now and our relationship is going well. the thing is i cant help thinking to myself 'when i go to college am i going to meet a really nice boy that...
A. 2 March 2007: i think you're just really hyped up about college.. and expect a lot of new and awesome things that will bring more excitement to you life... i guess its kinda normal but just don't let your imagination get too big... it's unfair don't you think if ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Had DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? I want to hear your stories...
Q. Has DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? If so, please let me know. Either post here (anon if you prefer) or send me a private mail. Sometimes when I'm coding at midnight or tinkering with an errant database, or wondering wh...
A. 2 March 2007: awesome place to pass the time, i learned a lot from other people and about life, so i feel like i'm a lot more knowledgeable... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and just lost my virginity, now I'm really regreting it!
Q. omg....I am 12 and I lost my virginity this year. I love my bf...i do but, now I'm regreting wat i did. I feel like a slut now! I promised i would "save" myself until I got married! But i have just been wanting to do "it". I just wanted to see wat ...
A. 1 March 2007: i think you're just freaking out over nothing and that might be causing a delayed period, if at all it is delayed.. i think for the most part you are fine.. but then you should still take the advice of the two who just replied... (read in full...)
Why do I find it impossible to ask anyone out?
Q. Dear Cupid, I find it completely impossible to ask anyone out. even if I am alone with them and chatting about stuff I just don't seem to be able to ask them. do you have any advice?...
A. 27 February 2007: heres something i think is relatively easy.. go talk to her about movies that have been out and if she knows any good ones ... and if the conversation gets anywhere ask her how often she wathces them and if she likes movies, and then say whatever, ... (read in full...)
How do you "jack off?"
Q. Ok im a bit embrassed by asking this question but how do u jack off? i dont know how and i think all guys should know how to. sorry if this sounds stupid ...
A. 27 February 2007: http://healthystrokes.com/young.html... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't opening up to me, I'm telling HIM everything about me and he keeps quiet about himself. How can I get him to open up more?
Q. My boyfriend of two years is having a hard time opening up to me. I feel like I'm telling him to much about my personal life and he's not telling me much of anything just things that he fells comfortable discussing with me. With that being said ...
A. 26 February 2007: you know.. even though i hear all about this ... i know guys who are really good at opening and ideal from what ive seen posted in these forums, but they can never get any girls.. it's sad... we call these caring people "the nice guy" and they ... (read in full...)
Did our play fighting actually turn him on? Any advice?
Q. hi im 16. me and my bf have been 2gether For 2 months and he has never tried anything with me or anything cos he's not like that. he's really nice! :D all we have done so far is kiss (without tongues) and hug. he came round my house 2day and we w...
A. 24 February 2007: lol i would be turned on... and how do you know he never gets an erection?? isnt it always in his pants?? LOL... (read in full...)
Please can anyone give me some good flirting advice?
Q. even if i flirt with guys, they dont seem to ask me out. and all my friends can. i dont seem to have anything wrong with me so whats the problem? please give me some good flirting advice!!...
A. 22 February 2007: yea i guess being their friend is a good way, but you also dont want to go into the friend territory, you know what i mean? be their friend, but you cant really be their friend.. i think every time your conversations are going well you should try ot ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and haven't got enough courage to talk to boys. Any ideas?
Q. I'm 17 and I still havent ever had a boyfriend. I havent got enough courage to talk to boys...please can I have some tips from the guys...tell me how you would like to be asked out, or whats a good hint that I like you? Thanks xxx...
A. 14 February 2007: I'm 17 and I still havent ever had a girlfriend. I havent got enough courage to talk to girls...please can I have some tips from the girls...tell me how you would like to be asked out, or whats a good hint that I like you? Thanks xxx
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I masturbate 3-4 times per week. Am I the only guy who does this?
Q. dear cupid i am 15-16 i masterbate atleast 3-4 tymes a week or evn more, i would like to know how to stop as i cant be telling anyone i masterbate, as they will be taking the piss and also another thing why do people say its disgusting and am...
A. 13 February 2007: if guys dont masturbate, they are not normal. as for the frequency of yours, its completely normal.. i'd say 70% of guys back in middle school or beginning of high school did it that often when they first found out about it... (read in full...)
I just gave my bf my first blowjob and it was horrible! Now he wants me to do it again-what should I do?
Q. I just had oral sex for the 1st time it was horrid and my boyfriend wants me to do it again...should i or not..im scerd if i say no he will dump me...but im in love with him and i dont want to lose him over not sucking his dick..what should i ...
A. 13 February 2007: kinda obvious everyone will say no you dont have to if you dont want to. if it really is only the swalloing part you dont like, just dont swallow and he'll still like having the oral... and by the way, most guys do like it. if our peers found out a ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a girl but have never dated before, any advice?
Q. Ok, so can u help me? i have a crush on a girl in class but was never was involved in anything relating to a girl. In fact, i never even had a friend that was a girl... and i'm an absolute computer geek that programs and stuff, and don't do any ...
A. 13 February 2007: i think saying hello spontaneously like that might be a little weird, as well as asking for hobbies, do you know what i mean? how would you feel if someone just came to you, whom you've barely talked to, and started asking these questions? you might ... (read in full...)
What is the secret in attracting and nice guy and having a long term relationship with him?
Q. Help! iam 19 but have never had a boyfriend. I don't think I am unattractive but I never get any guys interested in me. This is really getting me down as I feel like I want to be in a long-term relationship. How can I attract men and get a ...
A. 13 February 2007: flirt with them, talk to them and have interesting conversations as if they were friends, but dont go in the friend territory.. thats my bit.. since everoyne else is telling you to be yourself i decided to give a plausible straight answer... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I don't know what to say to him!
Q. I have a boyfriend who is really nice, and i really like him, and i think he likes me to, but when I'm with him, one on one, i feel really awkward, i never know what to say, people just say it will come naturally, but i dont find it does! and i ...
A. 6 February 2007: maybe you're both shy, happened to me.. "omg what should i say omgomgomgomg" then u both end up with nothing... (read in full...)
How do I know if a boy in my class fancies me?
Q. How do I know if a boy in my class fancies me? He stares at me in science, once put his hand on mine, makes loads of eye-contact with me when he talks and when he has done something that makes you angry looks in your eyes and says "awwww, look at ...
A. 6 February 2007: oh he totally fancies u, the touching your hand thing was the one that most stuck out to me though... (read in full...)
How Can I Not Orgasm When I'm With My Girlfriend???
Q. My girlfriend is becoming increasingly worried about our sex lives, we have been together for a bit now and when we do have sex i cant seem to orgasm, this is not just effecting her its effecting me, She sees it as i dont love her or find her ...
A. 6 February 2007: if what you mean by cant orgasm is cant ejaculate and your erection never goes away, GAWD UR LUCKY! lol... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and female and I'm in love with a 14 year old boy! Is this normal?
Q. I am 16 and i am falling in love with a 14 year old boy when i am usually into men from 19 up to about 22 years old. He says he is in love with me, and he wants to start a relationship with me, the age gap is holding me bk? do you think its kinda ...
A. 6 February 2007: no not pedo, yes its normal, the only thing that might be weird is what your friends would say. hah... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about his porn viewing? We're getting married next year...
Q. My partner looks at porn every day.When I confronted him about it, he showed no emotion at all and just replied;it doesn't mean anything. Its you I want to be with. I'm pretty relaxed about things but feel odd about him spending so much time lookin...
A. 1 February 2007: sorry "askeve". person who wrote this question: this person sounds like a strong activist in a feminist group. please don't worry about what your fiance is doing, i'm a guy, it really doens't mean anything. as different sexes, we think differently. ... (read in full...)
I'm shy..so what signs would I give him, to see if he likes me back?
Q. hey everyone i was just wondering what steps cud i make to show the guy i like that i like him..taking into consideration thati am very shy when it comes to guys, especially him! i look at him he looks at me..but that isn't a good way for actually ...
A. 20 January 2007: oh wow i just thought of a funny response for this but it might just frustrate some people..... okay my real honest opinion here is to see the way he talks to you, not just what he says but the tone of voice and stuff, because the words only make up ... (read in full...)
I love him but don't have the courage to tell him! Any advice?
Q. I am in love with this guy and I do not have the courage to tell him how I feel. i dont know how he feels. we have this connection with each other. ever since we met, he tells me things about his personal life that even my best friends wouldnt tell ...
A. 20 January 2007: try flirting and see what happens. start out subtle and if he cooperates then just have fun with it and then evaluate the outcome.... i would highly advise against using the word love, but instead say "like a lot" or something along those lines to ... (read in full...)
Does he explode?
Q. what happens when you overlove a guy ...
A. 20 January 2007: whoa, couldnt understand what the first person just said. nothing happens, except maybe you'll appear as "too clingy", and thats something many guys fear.. and it might put them off a little bit. You can overlove a guy but don't show it in clingy ... (read in full...)
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