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Is my girlfriend pregnant? Her period has changed.

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Question - (16 June 2007) 12 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my girlfriend just had sex last tuesday (june 12)and when we did there were two problems. the condom was too big and it fell off once. even though im sure it didnt touch her in any way, she is worrried that she is pregnant. the next day (june 13) she threw up in the morning and later that day she started her period, so we were a little relieved. today (june 16) her period stopped and she said that she never had a period so short, and now were both worried. please help me. can she be pregnant? is she?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008):

well how did it turn out? is she pregnant. i have the same thing going on

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007):

I doubt very much she will be pregnant if what you just said there went off, its normal for a woman to not go a full week on a peroid, all women are different and even though its never happened before it would of happened another time, i wouldnt worry but if you are seriously worried just take a pregnancy test to stop stressing

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007):

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Hey everyone, i need advise and help. we can't afford a pregnancy test (were poor) let alone get our hands on one. lately, she has been getting cramps and discharge, like she's about to start her period, but there's never any blood. and yesterday she had a huge appetite and then then the day before, she had a bad stomach ache (in the morning and then again in the evening). please respond, we need all the help we can get.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntGet her to the gp for a test or do a home kit, not everyone shows signs of being pregnant, some people can go through nearly their whole pregnancy with out knowing.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, becky100690 United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

why doesnt she do a pregnancy test! i wouldnt imagine she is pregnant as her symptons would not have come out yet i wasover a month when i started getting symptons i shouldnt worry

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

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she also is not showing any signs of being pregnant. please help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):

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hi everyone. its been almost a month now and she hasnt started her period again and we are getting worried. this friday, it will have been a month since she started her period again. please respond

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A female reader, xsweetiex United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2007):

sorry to tell you but she can still have a period and be pregant! your best bet would be to do a pregancy test just to be sure! then you will know for sure xxxx

xbe careful and gud luckx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007):

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thanks for the help and support, everyone. we feel so much better. and good news! her period started again! so we think that it just stopped for a little bit. anyway, thank you all for the support. you really eased our minds on the whole issue.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

No don't worry she isn't pregnant thats for sure, morning sickness doesnt'start that early, she was probably sick with worryying herself.She as also had her period so don't worry ok! x

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A female reader, Evangeline  United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

Evangeline  agony auntHey,

From what you say, it sounds like she isn't. The day after having sex and conceiving is far too soon to be feeling the affects of pregnancy. I wouldn't worry at all. Strange periods like you described can be caused by many different things like stress or anxiety .. which may explain this case if she was so worried. A womens menstrual cycle can be very easily disrupted by such things. Still, if she is worried she should go and see her doctor or a family planning clinic if you have those in America, Or even a school nurse etc .. any thing to reassure her. It may reassure you both most, if she takes a pregnancy test .. these are about 97% accurate so they are pretty reliable. Hope its all ok, keep me posted.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntThe only way you are going to know for sure is by visiting her gp which will be in strict confidence so her parents need never know, i am glad to hear you are using protection though and it is perfectly normal for accidents to happen but please be careful because due to your age the consequences could be very severe if you get caught doing this.

Take care.x.x.

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