Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?
Q. Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?...
A. 8 June 2008: My first and second time were exactly that. Not the most exciting way to have sex, but yes, it's completely possible. If she is on top, it works. If you are on top, not so much. ... (read in full...)
Please help me with my body-image issues!!
Q. Him I'm 19 y/o. I have a stupid problem, and feel so down about it :( The problem is that I'm very sensitive to the images in the media. So I feel very down about my body. I'm average I guess. I'm not really thin, but I'm not overweight. It...
A. 8 June 2008: Movies are fantasy. They are not real life. For that reason, you should not compare real life situations to movies. If your boyfriend cares for you and loves you for who you are, that is the only thing that matters. In any case, if you feel a la... (read in full...)
When my clothes come off I tense up and loose my erection! What should I do??
Q. I have no problem getting erections while masterbating or anytime but when me and my girlfriend are getting into it and my clothes come off i tense up and loose my erection! what should I do??...
A. 20 November 2007: Chances are, you are feeling nervous - it's purely psychological. I have the same problem - no problems masturbating, but sex is very difficult. If you look around this site, you'll notice many other men have this problem, so you are not alone. ... (read in full...)
I have a thing for virgins! Is this normal?
Q. I am a 21 year old female, and I have a thing for guys who are virgins. I really don't know why, I am not attracted to young boys, it is certianly not to do with age... so I am not a female pedophile at all, I just find myself wanted to sleep with ...
A. 19 November 2007: Some women tend to like innocent-natured guys. You are completely normal. I have to admit I sometimes find innocent-natured girls attractive, so I guess women have similar ideas in that area.... (read in full...)
My first time and I can't keep it up. What's wrong?
Q. I have recently encountered an embarrassing problem. Last night, I lost my virginity. I was ready, so I don't regret my decision at all. Thing is, I had a REALLY hard time maintaining an erection. Honestly, I don't know how we managed it since I was ...
A. 15 November 2007: I think one thing I should have said in the beginning was the person I slept with was a good female friend of mine, so there was no love there at all - it was completely physical. Although my friend and I get along great, I still don't have that ... (read in full...)
Three different partners, and every time I've a problem with maintaining the erection. Could you help?
Q. hii, umm this may sound stupid but i have a question about my sex life and i was gonna go to the doc about it but i just thought i'd ask you guys first i've had sex with 3 girls now and it seems like very time the girl gets my penis ha...
A. 14 November 2007: I've had a very similar problem. Here's a link to my issue: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-first-time-and-i-cant-keep-it.html
I hope this helps :). I have only had sex twice, but I had the same problem you are having both times. Yeah, it... (read in full...)
I lack confidence and just can't seem to connect...any advice??
Q. I'm 20 and i have never had sex. I don't want a one night stand after an incident over the summer where one of my friends did it with a 14 year old (after she said she was 16) yet I can't through a relationship as I'm too socially unconfident around ...
A. 14 November 2007: Don't worry about it. I am sure you are going through a lot of pressure to have sex (especially since you're attending a university), but don't let it get to you. It's not *that* special.
Also, I could easily be considered a geek as well, bu... (read in full...)
Any advice on hair removal??
Q. I want to know if anyone has any advise on hair removal.. especially around the bikini line. I've tried everything! I've waxed shaved and used cream but everything i try leaves irritation and then hair doesnt stay away for that long and it always ...
A. 14 November 2007: Electrolysis is the only completely permanent way to remove hair, but it's pretty scary. Here's a video for that:
http://www.videojug.com/interview/permanent-hair-removal-electrolysis
Laser hair removal works well too, but it only removes 80-9... (read in full...)
She broke up with me to marry a rich guy, is this fair?
Q. dear freinds, am in a reall big trouble. you know, i was having a girl freind for more than four years, and all of a sudden , she came up with an idea of breaking up, but this is not the only problem, the thing is she happen to risk our love to ...
A. 11 November 2007: It's not fair at all, but think of it this way: If you had married her, it would have been a lot more hurtful. Be glad you found out she was shallow before going any further with her.... (read in full...)
White discharge from vagina
Q. i am 12 yrs old nd need help! i am getting like a white discharge substance cuming out of my vagina, i havnet started my period yet either and dont know what to do about it! i have made sure i'm clean down there nd stuff!!!!!! what could it be?...
A. 11 November 2007: I think it's definitely best if you ask your mother about this situation - I am sure she will understand. If not your mother, find an older female in your family you feel comfortable talking to. Being a guy, I can't really give great info on this. ... (read in full...)
My first time and I can't keep it up. What's wrong?
Q. I have recently encountered an embarrassing problem. Last night, I lost my virginity. I was ready, so I don't regret my decision at all. Thing is, I had a REALLY hard time maintaining an erection. Honestly, I don't know how we managed it since I was ...
A. 11 November 2007: Yeah, I can honestly say that I have never been attracted to men, so I am definitely not gay. I'll try to hold off on masturbation and try to focus more on the real thing.
I kinda broke the uncomfortable situation by saying "Well, it looks li... (read in full...)
Tips for getting clear skin?
Q. Does anyone have any good tips for getting really clear skin, anything that works ? ta x...
A. 24 October 2007: Talk to an older female that's pretty experienced with cleansers and such. I think my mom used to use something called apricot scrub or something. As a male, I mostly just used soap to clean myself up, but women generally take that extra step in ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but my mum would kill me!
Q. I want a baby but im only 15. I'm not sure if my bf wants one but i think he does but i no if i get pergent my mum would kill me so what should i do???...
A. 24 October 2007: You're still a baby yourself. A child cannot provide the care a baby needs. In the end, you will only put a burden on your parents. You might think you are ready, but you are not. Do you want to go to college? Do you want to hang out with friends? ... (read in full...)
Underage kids and sex - whatever happened to youth?
Q. I have to say that i am noticing a lot of KIDS aged 12ish asking questions about sex. What on earth is happening? Or are they maybe older and just putting this age? But, what has happened to kids and their youth? They are under age and shouldnt be ...
A. 24 October 2007: I noticed the same thing about the questions on here. I had a friend in high school that lost her virginity at the age of 12 - that's scary. Children should AT LEAST wait until the age of consent, which I think is 16 in the UK and 18 here in the US. ... (read in full...)
Questions I have as I get closer to loosing my virginity.
Q. Simple to the point questions that are worrying me as i get closer to losing my virginity. 1-Does size matter? 2-What do I do?(stupid i know but im not too bright) 3-What if I don't last very long? Those are some pretty stupid things...
A. 23 October 2007: Yeah, I can relate to your problem. A few days ago, I had a great opportunity for oral sex, but I couldn't get it up! I did a great job (or I thought I did) of kissing and touching the right spots, but I couldn't get it up! She basically started ... (read in full...)
How do I let the guy I kissed last week know that I want him?
Q. I kissed a guy last weekend that ive known for about two years, after he made all the moves. i was pleasantly surprised at this because ive always known him to be shy and timid when it comes to girls. however, the communication between us during the ...
A. 7 October 2007: I can tell you from the perspective of a shy guy that I don't mind a girl asking me out. When I turn down a friend that wants to go out with me, I am always excessively nice about it. I also continue the friendship and act like nothing ever ... (read in full...)
I am a kind person, matured early. When people I know die I don't feel sad, when they marry I don't care. I want to care, show affection. How to solve this?
Q. Issues moving forward with relationships and other things... During the past few years, I have had nostalgic feelings and feelings of regret about my life prior to becoming an adult. At the age of 20, I really want to move forward and start accomp...
A. 3 October 2007: Thanks for the reply :). I suppose I should calm down and look at things differently. I have been in quite a stage of boredom in the past few weeks and have started thinking about things I hadn't until now - love, relationships, friendships, etc. I ... (read in full...)
I got called and Elephant and took it to heart. What is the average weight for a 5'3 girl anyway?
Q. Hi! I have had this problem for 3 weeks now and it's making me feel so down, drained, and depressed! To put it in a short version....well....I got called fat (an elephant) and I took it to heart and I starved myself for about 3-4 days....but...
A. 2 October 2007: You're on your way to an eating disorder. Never starve yourself no matter what. Not only are you doing your body serious harm, you are going to gain that weight back. Don't let other kids get to you like they have. If you want to lose weight, start ... (read in full...)
I'm constantly tired. What's wrong with me?
Q. Hello, i have a health problem. I am always tired, constantly tired and i fel like i have no energy at all. I am 18 now and it has been this way since i was about 9. I have had two blood tests since then for being tired, checking for anemia and diab...
A. 2 October 2007: Sounds to me like you are depressed or have some other medical issue. I have dealt with depression for many years and fatigue is definitely a symptom. Going to college and having to work is a rough life and could easily lead to feeling hopeless and ... (read in full...)
My left breast is larger than the right. I get teased and it puts me down. What can I do?
Q. Im 24 years old and my left breast is considerably larger than my right one - about 2 cup sizes larger. I have read on the internet, and from other girls with the same problem, that this is totally normal but it does not look normal and has dented ...
A. 30 September 2007: Everyone has flaws - nobody is perfect. In my case, I have pectus excavatum. I have a minor case, but it still looks kind of creepy sometimes. If someone cares about you, it shouldn't matter. I have several women in my family that have appearance ... (read in full...)
It seems like everyone has a partner except me... What's wrong with me??
Q. What is wrong with me? Or is it this stupid town? It seems like everyone has a partner. Even our cat has a boyfriend next door (granted she's a cat). All my friends are with someone, not just sex buddies, but like someone special. And don't get me...
A. 30 September 2007: Don't worry, you are not alone in this situation. I am 20 and going through the same thing. Heck, I posted something a few days ago quite similar to yours. Most people tell me to just be myself and to go meet people. I would also recommend you ... (read in full...)
I am a kind person, matured early. When people I know die I don't feel sad, when they marry I don't care. I want to care, show affection. How to solve this?
Q. Issues moving forward with relationships and other things... During the past few years, I have had nostalgic feelings and feelings of regret about my life prior to becoming an adult. At the age of 20, I really want to move forward and start accomp...
A. 30 September 2007: Thanks, that is certainly reassuring. My cousin almost had me convinced at one point.
As for your question about my family, although I do not get along with my mother, she certainly had an impact on my emotional expression. She is the epitome ... (read in full...)
Is it worth falling in love with her if she is just going to move away?
Q. Right, well my girlfriend will be going to university next year, and I am the year below her at school so I will be going a year after her. I've been with her for just over 6 months and she means the world to me, but to clarify i do not love her ...
A. 27 September 2007: It all depends on distance. In my case, the college I go to is 10 minutes from my home. Most people associate college with a long distance movement, but many people will stay in their state. It's unlikely that she's moving out of state due to the ... (read in full...)
The (flirting) signs a boy fancies you?
Q. please help, im new to the dating game and i dont know the signs if boys fancy me,im a bit of a tom boy,my mates say there are many flirting signs around but which are the popular with males and females? ...
A. 27 September 2007: I agree with what the previous poster said about guys saying random things to keep the conversation going. As a male, I can say I have done that to extend a conversation with a girl. I have kinda felt like slapping myself after saying some of those ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble getting started with relationships!
Q. Trouble getting started with relationships... I am a 20 year old male. At the age of 20, I have never been involved in a relationship. The farthest I have gone is I kissed a girl (a friend about a month ago), but she's not interested in a ...
A. 25 September 2007: Thanks for the advice! In response to what the first poster said, I agree that I am a little too picky. I would clarify though that I don't mind being around people that drink so long they don't drink all the time. Basically, I have several ... (read in full...)
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