He's moving on after a week, will he realise what he's lost?
Q. Me and my boyfriend split a week sgo. He has already hooked up with 2 girls, and says that their just his rebounds, to try to get over me. He's not in a relationship, just fooling around fun. I'm heartbroken about it. Do you think he will re...
A. 7 February 2009: He'll say anything when he is with you because he obviously doesn't care about what effect it will have on you.
He may have felt like he loved you at that moment but if he has no idea what he wants then he's just going to say what ever is in his h... (read in full...)
He's in the army--how often will he be able to contact me?
Q. my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month. wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hectic but how often will he be able 2 contact me i know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd hel...
A. 4 February 2009: Sounds like he just wants some one to chat to and flirt with.
If you want more than that then you may have to look elsewhere.
To be fair if he is going to Afghan then he may not want a relationship to worry about as well as being shot at an... (read in full...)
Should I accept my male friend (I'm bi) or live a lie with my fiancee?
Q. I am a 26 year old bi male, who has been in love with one of my male friends for 5 years. I was going to tell him a few times but I always thought he was straight. He has now told me that he fancies me and wants us to be together. I would have ...
A. 4 February 2009: She loves you so at the moment is upset and will be thinking that a life of misery with you is better than the pain she is feeling without you.
You must be strong, the pain she is currently feeling is horrible but will go away and then she will... (read in full...)
Why do gay men like to talk about sex in public? Is this in fact true?
Q. Why do gay men make point of talking about sex in public like in a graphic way . I don't know of any of my straight friends that need to fulfill such a urge. Are they just exhibitional, is this part of being gay? I find it kind of degrades them an...
A. 3 February 2009: Up until 40 years ago it was illegal for them to even admit to being gay. Even now, if you just read some of the questions on here, many people say that their lives will be over if they tell people they are gay.
Most people who are militant... (read in full...)
What does "make me feel like a girl mean"?
Q. Dearest, I am engaged to the most beautiful lady I've ever known, after a long 6 years relationship. I can never see myself with any other lady than her. Now the thing is, I am trying to maintain a long distance relationship and appare...
A. 3 February 2009: You really have to learn to just be honest rather than try to look good.
Ask her what she means.
It could be that she doesn't feel like your girlfriend since you only talk about practical things. It could be she feels like she has to be the ma... (read in full...)
Is my Army guy interested in me or not?
Q. I am "seeing" a army guy who has just recently been deployed. I thought we had made a connection before he left and we said that we would here for eachother and talk on msn. However when i emailed him 4 days ago, i did not get a reply which is u...
A. 3 February 2009: I don't know where he is deployed to but let me tell you the MSN connection in the Basra COB is CRAP. Almost none of my messages would get through to my hubbie so we stopped using it in the end.
Write him a bluey and ask him where you stand.
... (read in full...)
A little piece of encouragement
Q. i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...
A. 3 February 2009: Hang on I've just actually read this piece of drivel...
"God did not design your body's for sex"
Firstly, there are so many things wrong with this sentence I can't even begin to start. If you are going to copy some crappy lie out of your pamp... (read in full...)
How to invite female to flat for first time?
Q. how can i invite a female friend to my flat for first time. I need a good excuse, maybe invite her to watch movie and order food? Please give lots of suggestions! Thank you...
A. 3 February 2009: By female friend, do you mean a girl that is your friend, or a girl you've met that you want to get into her pants?
If it's a girl who's your mate then there should be no problem. Just ask her round to watch a film or hang out.
If it's a gir... (read in full...)
A little piece of encouragement
Q. i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...
A. 3 February 2009: This is not a question.... (read in full...)
Should juvenile offenders be tried as adults when committing adult crimes?
Q. ok so i know this has nothing to do with sex, love, dating or relationships but i didnt know where else to ask this. well my question is should juvenile offenders be tried as adults when committing adult crimes such as murder? we're going to have a ...
A. 3 February 2009: Ask Google.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is there any way I could get my party boy to want to settle down with me?
Q. I went to my friends house and met his roomate who was really cute. The first time we just kissed and he took me to his room but I said that I should go and left. Then when I went over there again, we kissed again and this time he was trying to do ...
A. 3 February 2009: I doubt it, he's getting sex on a plate from all the other girls so why would he want to settle for just you?
That sounds mean but that is the reality of it.
However, he might see you as a challenge. You already kissed him a lot so he knows ... (read in full...)
Men making noise during sex
Q. To all the ladies out there, what do you think about men making noice during sex? Turn on or a turn off?...
A. 2 February 2009: I've been with totally silent guys and I never know if they like it or not.
I'm been with guys who make lots of noise and it freaked me out a little bit.
The best for me is when they are quiet until you do something they really like or they are... (read in full...)
Age Disparity?
Q. I am writing a paper about if the law should be changed on what age you can date people and if there should be a consentual age. Please respond with any suggestions or information to help me out. Thanks!!!...
A. 2 February 2009: This is not the site to come to get people to write your papers for you. You can find someone in India to do your assignments for very low cost.
If you want to start a topic in the forums then go for it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I hate porn....hate it!
Q. Ok, so i have been with my bf who i love and who loves me back a lot for a about 1 1/2 years. Things are great btwn us...we live together, have a great sex life, went and constantly go thru the good, the bad, the really bad, etc. but he watches ...
A. 2 February 2009: So why isn't he going to stop?
What is his excuse when he knows how it makes you feel?
You say things are great but he doesn't seem to care about the fact he's making you feel like crap.
Tell him it's you or the porn and if you discover he's... (read in full...)
How can I get his bunny boiling ex to leave us alone?
Q. Ive been with my bf for over 3 months now and were still having problems with his ex. weve both spoke to her to tell her to back off, we were nice about it at first , because i could understand her being upset, but its getting ridiculous now , shes ...
A. 2 February 2009: Tell him that he has to sort her out and get rid of her by the end of this week or you are going to the police.
You can't just ignore her and hope she'll go away if she has threatened violence. Keep a diary of everything she does. Keep texts an... (read in full...)
Can anyone help with getting into a yahoo mail account?
Q. I'm having trouble getting onto my yahoo email account.After i sign in,the screen freezes,and a sign comes up saying " restore your last session " and says that my last session timed out.Then another sign comes up saying " Internet explorer error ...
A. 2 February 2009: It's your computer that has the problem.
Try emptying out your cookies, and doing a full virus check and restart the computer.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why would he say "I love you" one minute then "thanks mate" the next?
Q. Dear cupid, I am a little confused, been meeting up with a guy (who I like) for a while now, we're always flirting and he has told me he like me. We've had sex twice which is fine, we're both single and get what we 'need' The only thing is last time ...
A. 2 February 2009: He was having sex, he's going to say all kinds of crazy stuff.
Perhaps he was imagining someone else who was in love with?
You say this is only to satisfy a need so there is no reason to think he's not pretending it's someone else.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Contact? Of leave him alone?
Q. hi would like some advice was seeing someone and said was too busy with work etc to see me, havent heard from him should i give him some space and leave him alone or should i contact him? would like some advice,...
A. 2 February 2009: You did nothing wrong, his work got in the way and he's putting his career first.
This is not about you, you just got unlucky.
Move on and you'll feel better.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why if there is no regret does my husband cry all the time?
Q. Hi there well my question, I found out that my husband was having an affair a year ago,after 32 years of marriage. But he says there was nothing wrong with the marriage but he fell in love again with his first ...
A. 2 February 2009: He probably feels guilty for ruining the best thing that ever happened to him (you and the kids.)
Also he may be going through a mid life crisis about having to start again alone after all this time of having his lovely wife pick up after him and ... (read in full...)
What can I do to change the taste of the pre-cum or make my wife like it?
Q. well my wife does not like the taste of the pre-cum and stops right there. what do i do to change it/make her like it?...
A. 2 February 2009: Wear a flavoured condom?
Or put some chocolate spread on it so she has something nice to lick off you.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does this mean my mum suspects I'm gay?
Q. Hey eveyone, just so you know right from the begining, I'm 15 and gay. Im still in the closet about the whole thing. Now, my mum always makes the comment of, "you will make your wife very happy" or "you will make your girlfriend really happy" j...
A. 2 February 2009: I think she has picked up on something so she is just trying to make it clear that she will be proud of you either way, and she is open to these things and you don't have to hide it.
If she did find something in your room or overhear a conversa... (read in full...)
Should I give in and have this abortion?
Q. right here goes im 21 years old im pregnant and facing one of the hardest desicions i think il ever have to make......my partner of 5 years and my 2 year old daughters dad has informed me he doesnt want another chid and wants me to have a aborti...
A. 2 February 2009: If you don't think you can live with yourself afterwards then DO NOT do it. I'm all for fathers' rights but you are the one who has to live with it, you are the one who has to open your legs and get some doctor to do things inside you to get rid of ... (read in full...)
I cancelled our anniversary to be there for my sister, how to make it up to the husband?
Q. My husband and me were having our year wedding anniversary. Until my sister came crying to me because her boyfriend was cheating on her with her best friend and she broke up with him on the spot. She was really upset about it so I cancelled had our ...
A. 2 February 2009: Hey hang on, why wasn't he there with you comforting HIS little sister? He may be only her big brother by marriage, but when a family drama like this happens then it is all hands on deck.
He can't just leave you to it and sulk off.
Yes the... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a 'party boy' and I'm not quite sure what to do in some situations
Q. hi, this is a silly question.. but im 18.. and lately i've been seeing this guy thats 24 and unlike me he's pretty much a party boy and i dont mind that, dont get me wrong. but he picked me up at night and we went for a drive around and the thing ...
A. 2 February 2009: Oh dear, he's acting like such an immature little boy. He's too scared to talk to you so he makes it so you just sit in silence and then park up and have a snog and a fumble in the back seat.
He wants to drive around with a hot girl in his car ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend truly believes she doesn't deserve me, what to do?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for a year this February. Whenever she upsets me, she'll follow her apology with, "I'm a horrible girlfriend, you deserve so much better than me," or some variation of that. We sat down and had a talk months ago ...
A. 2 February 2009: She has low self esteem and possibly a touch of depression.
This is horrible and makes you want to hold her tightly and this will help, but it will also get really annoying after a while and drive a wedge between you as you will slowly start to... (read in full...)
He's moving on after a week, will he realise what he's lost?
Q. Me and my boyfriend split a week sgo. He has already hooked up with 2 girls, and says that their just his rebounds, to try to get over me. He's not in a relationship, just fooling around fun. I'm heartbroken about it. Do you think he will re...
A. 2 February 2009: I disagree with the first poster, as I have read your other question. He is having a great time by the sounds of it, and although you let him treat you like a doormat and he may miss wiping his feet all over you when other girls won't stand for his ... (read in full...)
My brother's GF will not let him go anywhere without her.
Q. My brother's gf will not let him go anywhere without her. When he is not with her he has to be on msn with her. She has put 18 pictures of the two of them in his room. She writes him letters that say she cant live without him and that he is the ...
A. 2 February 2009: Wow, she does sound like a girl with problems, but it is not your problem.
You don't need to get involved and cause problems, especially if your brother doesn't have a problem with it.
Next time you see her ask her about her other friends an... (read in full...)
I've asked her out but she keeps changing her answer!
Q. Hello, The question that i have is that a girl that i really like has been sending me strange messages. I asked her out on a date and she said yes......then maybe.....then no altogether. She has repeated this cycle for a while now, and has sai...
A. 2 February 2009: Girls are a bit useless at this age and think that you will just stick around and she can mess you about. They don't actually think about guys getting hurt because up until this age guys have had no real feelings so they are used to being the ones ... (read in full...)
How do I move on from my long distance ex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago as I moved states, and long distance is too hard, I still love him...so this week was spent crying, and talking to my girlfriends..... They sdvise me to stop talking to him.....So the next time he called I...
A. 2 February 2009: Stop taking his calls.
I bet it was lovely hearing about him sleeping with other girls, wasn't it?
Stop talking to him and you will realise that you were stupid to stay with him that long. There are a million better guys out there so staying... (read in full...)
My dad physically abused us but I think my mum will still take him back
Q. Hi, I come from a screwed up family. My father used to physically abuse me and my older siblings and mum. A couple years ago, he was jailed for molesting 2 underage girls. My mum divorced him, and I thought we wouldn't ever see him again. Now he's...
A. 2 February 2009: I very much doubt that he should be around you. If your mum divorced him so she could prove she was a fit mother to the social services then she is hardly keeping her word on that.
Call them if you are worried and tell your mother that you will... (read in full...)
I saw my ex gfs pic on a dating site and it really hurts
Q. Hello I am 25 my ex is 24. She broke up with me a month ago. I got a huge speach about how she does not have time, since she moved down and starting her life. I have not called her or contacted her in any way shape or form. I looked through a site ...
A. 2 February 2009: I feel I have to point out that you were on a dating site and browsing....
But because she has signed up too, she is the bad one?
You guys have split up. I know how horrible that is and that you feel like this is the final insult, but she ... (read in full...)
Keeping relationship secret but I'm worried he's seeing others
Q. Okay so i'm 16 and i've been seeing this older guy. He seems to like me, but we can't let anyone know that we talk, cause he's just above the age limit for my families approval. So he tells me that he wants to be with me when i get older, and we ...
A. 2 February 2009: He does not sound like he's worth waiting for.
He's basically said that he can't be with you till you are older, but that he still wants to chat to you.
That means that you are nothing more than friends right now. He's most likely dating ot... (read in full...)
I'm forced to live at home with my family and it's driving me crazy
Q. hi, i'm a 27 year old woman and i live in my bedroom and its driving me insane, and causing me to be depressed. i live with my mom and two brothers in a family home in a small village. I have had to move here because I am now unemployed and c...
A. 2 February 2009: Aw hun, I have THE most sympathy for you right now. I know EXACTLY what you are going through and it WILL get worse until you end up having to go on happy pills.
Confinement like that is TORTURE. Your parents, try as they might, will never ge... (read in full...)
Long term relationship but like someone else
Q. I am a 21 year old female and have been with my boyfriend, also 21 for 4 years. I love him but recently have developed feelings for somebody else. He is 38.. I really don't know what to do. I know my boyfriend loves me and it would kill him if we br...
A. 2 February 2009: After 3 to 4 years the initial feeling of love can wear off for a lot of couples (Scientists proved this). But by this time a lot of them are just happy with the friendship and companionship so carry on anyway.
If he has done nothing wrong to... (read in full...)
I just want casual sex - but he calls every day!
Q. I'm going through a divorce and it has been a very long time since I have been with a man. Well, my daughter introduced me to her supervisor and I explained that I am just looking for someone to help ease the sexual tension. He calls me almost daily ...
A. 2 February 2009: Sounds like he likes you.
I have had guys who are simply really good mates for me, but that I have slept with every now and then and it's been great but has meant nothing.
Friends with benefits is a fantastic place to be BUT you have to know... (read in full...)
We've had sex twice in six months - any advice?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. Everything was great and we did all the things any couple would do, except she did not want to have sex until about 4-5 months into our relationship. The first time I tried to initiate ...
A. 2 February 2009: It sounds like she's been used before or that she hasn't had many other partners so she's waiting to see if you are right before committing fully and having sex.
However, now that you have had sex, I'm surprised she doesn't want it more.
... (read in full...)
Should I accept my male friend (I'm bi) or live a lie with my fiancee?
Q. I am a 26 year old bi male, who has been in love with one of my male friends for 5 years. I was going to tell him a few times but I always thought he was straight. He has now told me that he fancies me and wants us to be together. I would have ...
A. 2 February 2009: If you are not in love with her then you have to call it off with your girlfriend. You seem to be trying to use her to get over him, and it will not work.
She's been through a lot so why would you put her into a loveless situation where she will... (read in full...)
Contact? Of leave him alone?
Q. hi would like some advice was seeing someone and said was too busy with work etc to see me, havent heard from him should i give him some space and leave him alone or should i contact him? would like some advice,...
A. 1 February 2009: Leave him to it.
Try and move on and if he comes back to you and you've met someone else by then, then it's his loss.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to delete his 'myyearbook' account?
Q. ok so i have this huge problem and i dont know how to solve it. . my boyfriend has a myyearbook i hate the fact he does because there always seems to be a bunch of girls all up on him and he tells me its his friends and i believe him but i do not ...
A. 1 February 2009: You say you trust him and that you trust he won't do anything... But you are not willing to let him prove this to you.
It's not nice for you I know but demanding he deletes the whole thing is a bit drastic and makes it sound very much like the... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks hes a three year old!
Q. Hey all, Well here's the basics im seventeen been with my boyfriend a year, everything has been great until around the end of november. When "the baby voice" came into my relationship. Out of no where my boyfriend started speaking like a baby, it ...
A. 1 February 2009: Great! Glad it all worked out and showing him your post here and the responses was a great idea.
"Will you suck my wiwwi." did make my husband and I laugh our heads off though... I just have a horrible feeling he's going to text me that ALL the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lectured me on my lack of experience with clubs.
Q. Hello. I guess this is probably not a very important queston but it's made me feel uncomfortable and pressured to change. Ok last Friday me and my bf went out clubbing. We had a quiet drink on our own first at a pub then met my mates in the nex...
A. 1 February 2009: How long have you been with this condescending excuse for a little boy for?
I really would not be happy if ANYONE spoke to me like that, let alone the person who is supposed to like me more than anyone else.
"Your bag was too big" What kind o... (read in full...)
He's in the army--how often will he be able to contact me?
Q. my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month. wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hectic but how often will he be able 2 contact me i know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd hel...
A. 1 February 2009: If he's far forward then he may not get to speak to you very much. If he's at the back then he'll probably still get his 30 mins a week.
Just write him lots of blueys.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy's using you for sex?
Q. how do u no when a guy your "together" with is using u for sex ??...
A. 1 February 2009: You don't have sex with him until you are sure he's serious about you.
If he's just after sex then he won't hang around.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't want to do anything physical anymore
Q. Ok, so we have been going out since March 2008, we had a 1 month break in november and we got back together. Our relationship has always been great, but recently she got over the "honeymoon" stage and i havnt. She has told me she doesnt wan...
A. 1 February 2009: If she doesn't want to be physical then she just wants to be friends. You don't have a boyfriend and then not even passionately kiss them.
Tell her that if she doesn't want the physical stuff any more then it might be best if you just go back to ... (read in full...)
He's in the army--how often will he be able to contact me?
Q. my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month. wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hectic but how often will he be able 2 contact me i know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd hel...
A. 1 February 2009: The COB in Basra has brilliant facilities. He'll get 30 mins phone time every week but he can buy more phone cards. He'll have internet access when ever he gets time to get to the computers.
They are pulling out and you don't say what his job is b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks hes a three year old!
Q. Hey all, Well here's the basics im seventeen been with my boyfriend a year, everything has been great until around the end of november. When "the baby voice" came into my relationship. Out of no where my boyfriend started speaking like a baby, it ...
A. 1 February 2009: Urgh, what is it about big men who turn into blubbering wrecks after the first few months???
I hate this and for future boyfriends the trick to cut them off before it starts, they are trying to be cute and it IS cut for 5 minutes. After that jus... (read in full...)
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