Calls me babe& hun whats it mean?
Q. if a guy calls you babe and hun does that mean that he likes you ...
A. 25 January 2009: Nope it means he just does that.
Cab drivers call me that.
With no other information I can't give any other advice.
Sorry hun!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Are there any nice guys who are good looking?
Q. I have been with a good looking guy who treated me like crap and I have been with a nice guy who I felt absolutely nothing for. Are there any guys that have both qualities? I dont mean to sound shallow but the physical attraction always has to be ...
A. 25 January 2009: They are there. I have one.
You've just been unlucky so far hun.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does masturbation lower your sperm count?
Q. well I'm woundeing howany times can a normal man master bate? And does it lower your sperm count? Will it here if you do it more than 2 times? I'm sorry I'm just really curious...
A. 25 January 2009: It won't lower your sperm count, 2 times a day is pretty normal if you are young and single.
If you do it too much you could have friction burns.
Just don't let it take over your life.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why does my professor tolerate me if he doesn't like me back?
Q. I've had him for 3 classes so far. I write love notes to him on my course evaluations. The most recent one I even signed my name to and gave him really melodramatic details about my life. I'm not even in any of his classes now, and he's helping me ...
A. 25 January 2009: He is flattered by your attentions and he obviously thinks you have talent.
Also, he is PAID to put up with you and get the best of your work out of you.
As you say, you are 21 so he can be a little more liberal with you than if you were a te... (read in full...)
Do most women shave their vulvas?
Q. What do men prefer shaved or unshaved? I never know what to do for the best. When i man is giving oral sex to a women do he like it smooth? Do most women out there shave their vaginas?...
A. 25 January 2009: If you shave then it itches like HELL as it comes back and you risk rashes and it feeling like sandpaper. Not to mention shaving cuts!!!
I tweeze / wax the area at the top (just enough so you can't see any bits outside of my pants) and then use... (read in full...)
What are the pros and cons of breast-feeding?
Q. hi im due to have my second child on the 14th feb im a lil nrvous again even though ive done it be4 which i gguess is only natural i was just wondering what are the pros and cons about breastfeeding i brestfeed my first one but i really dont know...
A. 25 January 2009: http://www.breastfeeding.nhs.uk/
This website tells you everything.
It's far better than the bottle and it burns SO many calories that by doing it, you are losing the baby weight far far quicker than you otherwise would. Lets face it, that is... (read in full...)
How can I find a bf who wont just use me for sex??
Q. All I want is a boyfriend that will stick around and not just use me for sex. It always happens to me, I don't know whether its the people I choose or whether its me. I know I could be a good girlfriend and I would treat someone so well, but I ...
A. 25 January 2009: You don't have to "starve" yourself of sex.
Waiting and building up the tension is half the fun.
It also says your age is 13 - 15. If you are having illegal and underage sex then it is no wonder that they are just using you - they are little ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know if he will carry on relationship or not
Q. Recently my boyfriend is acting so strange. He did not asking to meet me for more than months. We see each other at school everyday; we work together in same school. When I asked him what’s wrong first time he said I am the type of man who runs ...
A. 25 January 2009: Some men will want a woman who is loving and wonderful to them, and others will want a little sheep to do what they say and act how they want.
I think you should find a man who will love a real loving woman such as yourself.
I am sorry that th... (read in full...)
I don't understand what this guy is about?
Q. I once met this guy in a nightclub,he is three years younger than me.He made it clear to me that he liked me,i gave him my number,but he never contacted me. A few months later,we bumped into each other again,and he still acting like he liked me...
A. 24 January 2009: Sounds like he is a forgetful drunk.
You give him his number he wakes up the next day with no idea what your name was so he can't find your number in his phone.
You text him and he doesn't text back as he's not quite sure if you are you or t... (read in full...)
Dreams of sex with another man
Q. Hello, My wife says she sometimes will dream of having sex with another man, is this normal? She says she enjoys it while in the dream, but afterwards feels guilty and sad for having dreamed that....
A. 24 January 2009: Gosh, will you email my husband and let him know to pull his finger out?
Haha no.
If everything between you is great then her dreams are probably just dreams and nothing to do with you or your relationship.
I had a dream where I could cont... (read in full...)
Not ready for a commitment
Q. What should I do when my heart isn't into a relationship?Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 3 years. And I've been laid off from jobs three times in the last two years.Sometimes I just don't have the emotional strength to get ...
A. 24 January 2009: You have to be honest with her about it. She could be hanging on with you forever hoping you'll change your mind and get down on one knee.
If you just talk to her about how you don't think you ever want kids or marriage or any of that stuff th... (read in full...)
Dreams of sex with another man
Q. Hello, My wife says she sometimes will dream of having sex with another man, is this normal? She says she enjoys it while in the dream, but afterwards feels guilty and sad for having dreamed that....
A. 24 January 2009: Yep it's normal. You can't control what you dream and it doesn't mean anything as simple as wanting to have sex in real life. It's all strange and subconscious.
What you can do it is make sure that you are rocking her world and being romantic... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never has time for me, it's either her friends, or she is out of town, I am beginning to distance myself, how do I tell her how I feel? he
Q. Hey, I have an issue with my girlfriend. She's been out of town almost every other week during the summer and when she gets back she wants to of course catch up with her friends and stuff (which I totally understand) but she can never hangout ...
A. 24 January 2009: Just tell her that you really miss her and really want to see her so if she could let you know when she has a couple of hours spare then you would really like that.
It could be that she really likes you but that she just doesn't have time for a bo... (read in full...)
Help, I need ideas for a gift for my boyfriend, for our three month anniversary, please give me a few ideas?
Q. Hey its mine and my boyfriends 3 month anniveersary next week and we've said we would buy presents and make it a special day..as you do. However I'm stuck! I know hes well into music and aftershave...but there just basic things that anyone coul...
A. 24 January 2009: Get him an iPod and get it engraved on the back.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me but now he's sniffing round this other girl, even though she has a boyfriend!
Q. im really confused. There was this boy at my theatre and i really liked him and we got on together and we kept on lokng at each other nd messing around and all that stuff, but then he started hanging around with this kinda snobby but very pretty ...
A. 24 January 2009: He's a teenage boy. He's immature and will just go for one girl one day and another the next.
Ignore him and move on. If he can't see how good you are then then he's an idiot.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He said he loves me, but doesn't want to go back with me, and has sex with another woman!
Q. Hi, I don't know what to do. I was going out with a man for 1 year...it wasn't easy....we fought a lot....so from time to time we decided to take a break....but everytime we went back together because our love is too strong. Recently, we decided to ...
A. 24 January 2009: Forget about him.
Words are easy to say. Judge him on his actions.
He lied to you and slept with another girl.
Move on.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How to get rid of hickee fast
Q. The other night me and my fiance were makeing out when she decided to bite my neck, which really drove me wild. the problem is that it left a hikee (im not sure if thats how you spell that) Im a manager at my work so i cant have marks on my neck, ...
A. 24 January 2009: It's a bruise and there is no way of getting rid of it, sorry. You could bother some of her cover up or wear a scarf.
As for the future she'll just have to stick to not biting as hard on your neck and saving that for other places like shoulder... (read in full...)
In FWB with Ex, now he wants a relationship again?
Q. I'm 17 years old and in a fwb relationship with my ex, who has now become one of my best friends. he calls me almost every night and we see each other as often as we can, and most of the time its just to hang out and talk, not to have sex. in the ...
A. 24 January 2009: This is make or break for you and your ex.
You can't stay FWB if he wants more as it's not fair on him. You can't be his best mate for the same reason. he will want more and you have to let him go away and get over you.
You have to decide w... (read in full...)
Young love in trouble! I changed my whole life around to be with him and he does this CRAP!
Q. My husband is in the navy so he's in Virginia at the moment I am in California. I am expecting his child, about a month ago I was looking through our phone bill an there was this one Virginia number that kept coming up at first I pushed it away and ...
A. 24 January 2009: To be honest: He lied and he continued to lie to you. You had to find out that he had conned this poor girl so he could use her for sex.
Do you really think you can ever forgive him for that?
If you can then you should get some counselling toge... (read in full...)
This boy and I kissed and my friend spread the gossip so he is now upset with me, what can I do?
Q. hi, meand this guy at my school kissed but he is 3 years older then me. i told my friend and she told every one and now all his friends are making fun of him and he tinks that i told them, i have tried to tell his it wasnt me but hes just not taking ...
A. 24 January 2009: If he is being made "an outcast" because people found out he kissed a girl then clearly he is not old enough to be kissing. The fact he calls you such childish names says to me that he's a scared little boy.
Leave him to it and find some new frie... (read in full...)
I've been patiently waiting for her and now she wants to cool things?
Q. My question is about my girlfriend with whom I have been for about 7 months. The story is that we met through a mutual friend - her best friend is a work colleague of mine and he invited me out. After a month or two it became apparent that we liked ...
A. 24 January 2009: There is no way of figuring out what is in her head or what she wants right now... it literally could be a million things that has made her act this way.
So what you need to do is protect yourself.
Tell her that you really like her and think th... (read in full...)
I'm very hurt as my boyfriend doesn't trust me...
Q. I'm very hurt. My boyfriend doesn't trust me. Well he's always been jealous and when we first started dating he kind of "warned" me about this trait. He even asked me not to talk about my past when I let some details accidentally slip. He's my first ...
A. 24 January 2009: You can either wait for him to end it and he will, or you can do it yourself.
You said he likes to do things to hurt you and sooner or later he's going to realise that dumping you will hurt you and do you down further.
Dump him and cut contact.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. So, it'll be a year next friday since I fell in love with my teacher, she's a girl and so am I, and she's approximately 15 years older than me. I'm 15 and I leave school just before my 18th birthday in about 2 and a half years time. I know it'...
A. 24 January 2009: Don't even think about telling her till you are no longer a pupil. She will have to report it to her boss (the head teacher) and imagine how embarrassing that could be.
If when you leave school you still feel the same then go for it, you will be ... (read in full...)
Sexual issues--how much of a problem is this? Is it valid enough to leave?
Q. I am in absolute tears as I wrote this. I am married to a wonderful man who I have been with since I was 17. If this is a bit long please bear with me. The only problem we have ever had is the lack of sex in our relationship. He has pretty much ...
A. 24 January 2009: I completely understand where you are coming from here. You take stock at 25 and 30 and make your big plans of what to do next.
You say you have tried everything and I believe you. You cannot make a blind man see because you want him to, and you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know if he will carry on relationship or not
Q. Recently my boyfriend is acting so strange. He did not asking to meet me for more than months. We see each other at school everyday; we work together in same school. When I asked him what’s wrong first time he said I am the type of man who runs ...
A. 24 January 2009: So he won't see you until he decides you are "calm" but he won't explain what he means or give any examples.
How dare he expect you to change your personality and the way you act around your boyfriends just to fit in with what he expects.... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with the computer, and I'm neglected!
Q. 23 January 2009: Im in a relationship and seem to be unable to get my mans attention. He is always on the computer and messing around and I feel neglected in many areas.I am at my ropes end and dont know what to do.........All I want is to feel ...
A. 24 January 2009: Well if he just sees you as a maid then stop going round. Tell him it's over and find someone else.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I just turned 30, but I look very much younger, so people think I am a "kid", I am attracted to an older man, maybe in his 40's, trouble is, I don't know how to approach him, what would be your advice?
Q. So I just reached the dreadful age of 30. I feel real weird because I know technically I have reached the age where I am supposed to be an adult. And granted I have the whole house/car/business thing so I am responsible in that end. But maturity ...
A. 24 January 2009: Urgh, small towns, I am so glad I left.
I live on an army base so I can really understand what you mean about the "mom pack."
I am the only one without a kid where I live so I get either pitied or looked at as though I'm a freak.
I thin... (read in full...)
My ex kissed me twice, though he has a long distance girlfriend. Do I continue hanging out with him and see what happens?
Q. I have not seen my ex-boyfriend in nearly 6 years. During that six years, I have had two very serious relationships and he was engaged (and broke it off) and then living with a girlfriend (and then moved away from her.) He currently moved ...
A. 24 January 2009: This is a difficult one.
I think you have to do the right thing here and back off and not hang out with him.
The problem is that he needs to decide between the 2 or you. He won't do that if he has her at home and you next to him. He'll have ... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend living with me and refusing to leave the house! He's only cosigned on the house loan. Legal ways to get him out?
Q. Hey I got this ex boyfriend who's living with me and won't get out of my house. I've tried everything, but nothing's worked. He only pays one bill in the house and I don't even need him to. He only is cosigned on the house loan so I was wondering if ...
A. 24 January 2009: If he's co-signed on the loan then doesn't that mean half the house is his?
If he's paying for it then it's half his.
See a lawyer and take him to court. You need to get an order to settle this kind of thing. You can't kick him out of his home ... (read in full...)
What can I do to know if she truely loves me or she is after my money as I use to give her money?
Q. i have a girl friend i loved her so much but she hasnt show me that she loves me though any time we are together its allways lovely and she always act good and that makes me feel good but immedaitly she went out of my side she dont use to call...
A. 24 January 2009: The first girl does not act like she loves you. I think you should split up with her.
However, you should not date the second girl because you are in love with the first girl.
Be single for a few weeks and clear your head of all thoughts of ... (read in full...)
Why won't she give me a straight answer?
Q. Dear Cupid, I Have Been In This Relationship for almost 5 years, We Have A Little Girl That Is 3 Me And Her mother Have Split several times Like 5 In The Last 4 years, i Will admit i am very insecure person because of past relation...
A. 24 January 2009: I don't this relationship sounds like a good one. There is a chance she is cheating on you and since you've split up a lot in the past there is a good chance it will happen again.
Tell her that you need to get visitation / custody sorted for your... (read in full...)
His parents blame me for his running away! He's back home now and still wants to date me!
Q. Well I Have A Boyfriend And Were Bout to Be A Year That We Been Dating..Well @ 3 months going out he ran away and his parents blamed me 4 it..well just 3 days ago we had a big argument and he called his parents and now hes @ home? well see while he ...
A. 24 January 2009: So you can't cope with the fact that he's not living with you?
Well that has nothing to do with the running away or his parents or anything. That is just called life.
You are with him. The fact that he no longer spends 24 hours a day with you s... (read in full...)
We may both have fertility problems, and the pressure is threatening our new relationship.
Q. my dilema is, I fell inlove with a girl 7 months ago, at the moment it is a long distance relationship, she lives in england, i live in scotland, we visit eachother quite alot, the problem is however, she has a history of fertility problems, and ...
A. 24 January 2009: Well you were willing to be a dad without actually wanting the child. You were willing to bring an unwanted kid into the world.... and you say you will do this to make her happy... so why does it matter if the child she has is yours?
She wants to... (read in full...)
What can I do to make this man stand up to his kids?
Q. what actions do i need to take? because I have been dating an older man that has grown married kids that have rotten marriages, have never grown up, can't get past the past and always wants their dad to be with them and he always has to sugar co...
A. 24 January 2009: I don't think you can make him stand up to him.
You tried it once before and he chose them over you and broke up with you.
It really does not sound like he is going to change. It's stupid and he's a weak man, and one day he'll realise what he ... (read in full...)
I have a thing for the bridesmaid but I don't know what to do in this situation!
Q. My best friend is getting married in 4 weeks. I have a bit of a crush on bridesmaid. She is brides cousin. Not sure how she feels about me. Been around her a couple times, but the last time is the 1st that I felt something back. I wanted to say ...
A. 24 January 2009: Weddings are a great time to make a move.
Get chatting to her at the wedding and tell her how gorgeous she looks.
If she is off limits then your friend's new wife will come and have a word or get your mate to have a word. I really don't get... (read in full...)
We were good until he travelled....now I think it isn't working out.
Q. I have a bf we are with each other for 8 months we were good and everything until he traveled he stopped asking about me and every time i send him a message he answer me back after 6 hours and maybe more, NEVER bothered to call me and when i call ...
A. 24 January 2009: I'm sorry hun but there is only is much you can do.
What did you agree when he went away? That you would stay faithful to each other? Or that you would just see how things went?
I think you have to prepare for the worst and when you next sp... (read in full...)
Should I move on with my life?
Q. I've previously posted a question in January (15/01) of this year. I guess this can be called an update.... For a clearer picturs, I am going to post my previous question here as well. What tolerance or threshold limit one should have on his/h...
A. 24 January 2009: You say that he is just after sex, but at the time so was she. She found a guy she got on with and slept with him. And that means that at the end of it all, she is still going to get on with him and it can lead to friendship.
You have told her... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop my friend getting hurt but without disrupting the friendly atmosphere inthe flat?
Q. I recently moved to university hall - about 4 weeks ago to be precise and Im having a bit of a complicated problem. I've been really lucky in the sense that I've got 3 fantastic flatmates - one of which is a girl who I've become best mates with. ...
A. 24 January 2009: You can't do anything I'm afraid. It's none of your business.
Your male friend has to face up to this. All he has to do is to text her and mention that he could really use her advice as he has a crush on a girl. He just has to drop a load of hints... (read in full...)
My friend's having a bit of a crisis. Can anyone help him?
Q. My friend's having a bit of a crisis. Can anyone help him? He used to go out with a girl. But he finished with her. He still likes her but doesn't want a relationship and he gets jealous when she is with other lads. He kissed her earlier on and i...
A. 24 January 2009: He needs to sort his head out.
He can't not want to be with her but then throw a hissy fit when she moves on.
Tell him to go away and decide what he wants from this girl. He can either be with her or he can be single. He can't mess her around ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him alone or make my case?
Q. Theres this xmas party coming up and I wanted my boyfriend to come with me but he's never liked dancing in public, he won't like the music that's at the party, and I have a feeling that he won't feel like going. I forsaw this and I have a back up...
A. 24 January 2009: Let him calm down and then send him an email or a letter. So he can read it and you can explain but he doesn't have to respond straight away.
It was very insensitive of you to ask another guy to be your date for the party without asking your boy... (read in full...)
Why do I feel awkward around female co-worker?
Q. Hello. I've been quite contented in a relationship which has lasted so far for 2 years. However, I feel rather awkward when I'm talking to a particular woman at work. When other guys talk to her I feel a little knot in my stomach. So what does this ...
A. 24 January 2009: You feel protective over her.
This means you see her as either a girlfriend who you want for yourself, or you are so close that you see her like a little sister who must be protected from these guys.
I can't tell you if you like her as a si... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with the computer, and I'm neglected!
Q. 23 January 2009: Im in a relationship and seem to be unable to get my mans attention. He is always on the computer and messing around and I feel neglected in many areas.I am at my ropes end and dont know what to do.........All I want is to feel ...
A. 24 January 2009: You don't say anything about having actually spoken to him about any of this.
As one of the other aunts says, he is not psychic, if you keep acting loving and bringing him his meals and looking after him then how is he supposed to know you are ... (read in full...)
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