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writes:I went to my friends house and met his roomate who was really cute. The first time we just kissed and he took me to his room but I said that I should go and left. Then when I went over there again, we kissed again and this time he was trying to do more, feeling me up and stuff but I took his hands off. Anyway, my point is that I really like kissing him, but thats as far as I want to go, unless he wants a relationship but I dont think he does. He is a party boy but my friend tells me I am the prettiest he has ever been with and since I didnt sleep with him, like the other girls have, he will want me more. Also, my friends other roomate has a crush on me and so I flirt with him to get the other guy jealous. Is there any way I could get him to settle down with me? Or is this virtually impossible?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 February 2009):
I doubt it, he's getting sex on a plate from all the other girls so why would he want to settle for just you?
That sounds mean but that is the reality of it.
However, he might see you as a challenge. You already kissed him a lot so he knows that he's in with a chance of sex. Plus you flirt with other guys so he might think you are happy for casual stuff so he can flirt with other girls too.
If you tell him you only sleep with boyfriends and that he'll have to date you for a while and take it slow if he wants to be with you then he might give it a shot, but there is always the chance that he'll sleep with you and then dump you.
I really don't think this is the guy for you. Yes he's cute but is that all you want in a boyfriend? You don't say anything about his personality, just that he was cute and you kissed and now you want to marry him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): stop kissing him... stop everything
tell him straight that what you want is a relationship
he will want you so much then
he will probably want a relationship
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