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30-35,
*aydeeOfSorrows
writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago as I moved states, and long distance is too hard, I still love him...so this week was spent crying, and talking to my girlfriends.....They sdvise me to stop talking to him.....So the next time he called I told him I still love him, and I need to move on etc....But he wont stop calling me (on private, he says he loves me and misses me...but that he loves Flirting and slutting around with all the girls...he also said in the last week he has hooked up with 2 girls, as an attepmt to get over me, in other words rebounds.He doesnt know what he wants, to be with me, or to have sex with multiple chicks...and I just want to run.when we were together he treated me with no respect...But since he was my first, I still love him, he's perfect to me...How can I get over him and move on!??
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reader, laureneli  +, writes (2 February 2009):
it seems that moving was a blessing in disguise. if you dont want to be with him, just erase his phone number, dont pick up his calls, ignore him on the internet. and you wont have to worry about seeing him since youve moved. youre in the perfect place to move on. i know its hard to do, but there are plenty of guys out there. if he treated you with no respect, yet he is still perfect to you, then i suggest re-evaluating what you associate with 'perfect'. you deserve respect, and you deserve a guy who wont have sex with 2 girls a week after you broke up.trust me, just cut him loose, there will be plenty more guys(even if it doesnt seem like it now).
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 February 2009):
Stop taking his calls.
I bet it was lovely hearing about him sleeping with other girls, wasn't it?
Stop talking to him and you will realise that you were stupid to stay with him that long. There are a million better guys out there so staying with one who is messing you around and treating you badly just because he was your first makes NO sense.
Good Luck!! xx
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