He's in the army--how often will he be able to contact me?
Q. my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month. wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hectic but how often will he be able 2 contact me i know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd hel...
A. 4 February 2009: Sounds like he just wants some one to chat to and flirt with.
If you want more than that then you may have to look elsewhere.
To be fair if he is going to Afghan then he may not want a relationship to worry about as well as being shot at an... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks hes a three year old!
Q. Hey all, Well here's the basics im seventeen been with my boyfriend a year, everything has been great until around the end of november. When "the baby voice" came into my relationship. Out of no where my boyfriend started speaking like a baby, it ...
A. 1 February 2009: Great! Glad it all worked out and showing him your post here and the responses was a great idea.
"Will you suck my wiwwi." did make my husband and I laugh our heads off though... I just have a horrible feeling he's going to text me that ALL the ... (read in full...)
He's in the army--how often will he be able to contact me?
Q. my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month. wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hectic but how often will he be able 2 contact me i know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd hel...
A. 1 February 2009: If he's far forward then he may not get to speak to you very much. If he's at the back then he'll probably still get his 30 mins a week.
Just write him lots of blueys.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't want to do anything physical anymore
Q. Ok, so we have been going out since March 2008, we had a 1 month break in november and we got back together. Our relationship has always been great, but recently she got over the "honeymoon" stage and i havnt. She has told me she doesnt wan...
A. 1 February 2009: If she doesn't want to be physical then she just wants to be friends. You don't have a boyfriend and then not even passionately kiss them.
Tell her that if she doesn't want the physical stuff any more then it might be best if you just go back to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend things it's wrong to have fantasies about me
Q. ok so my girl thinks it is wrong of her to have fantacys about me but i think it is hot so how can i ask her to see it my way idk how it is wrong to think of the one you love the most...
A. 1 February 2009: If she's not comfy with it then leave her to it. Just be there and let her relax gradually.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual but not sure if I could get an erection over a woman
Q. i am a bisexual man of 21 inclined towards men(i dont have much of erotic feelings for women except when i masturbate forcing myself to think of women).But i am attracted towards the female sex..i.e i love flirting with women.now i am seeing this ...
A. 1 February 2009: Why are you forcing the issue here?
If you have to force yourself to think of them when masturbating then it may just be that you are not sexually attracted to women at all and shouldn't try to make yourself.
You can be attracted to wom... (read in full...)
He lost his job and he's homeless... should I let my new man move in with me?
Q. the man who i have been seeing for 5 months has just been made redundant and homeless as his flat is in the place he works. He has to be out by 10 feb. he has no job to go to and no home. i have my own place (where i live with my teenage ...
A. 1 February 2009: You are doing the right thing as you have made it clear that it's only temporary.
It'll only be a week or two till he can find a place with his redundancy cash. Or there are jobs around, just probably not as well paid as he is used to. Anything... (read in full...)
What does a "goer" mean?
Q. My friends the other day at college where on about this girl, who just started in our class, they said she was a bit of a goer, what does a goer mean ive never heard of it?...
A. 1 February 2009: Hot in the bedroom and willing to go there.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He's in the army--how often will he be able to contact me?
Q. my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month. wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hectic but how often will he be able 2 contact me i know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd hel...
A. 1 February 2009: The COB in Basra has brilliant facilities. He'll get 30 mins phone time every week but he can buy more phone cards. He'll have internet access when ever he gets time to get to the computers.
They are pulling out and you don't say what his job is b... (read in full...)
Condom split! Chances of pregnancy?
Q. i had sex last night and condom split i am 5 days into my cycle what is the changes of me becoming pregant. many thanks for help ...
A. 1 February 2009: Go to any chemist in the morning and get the morning after pill. Or if possible find the duty all night chemist that will be open in your area tonight and go NOW.
You have 72 hours from the time when you had sex.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Working from home ideas?
Q. can anyone tell me of any genuine work from home jobs i could do ?.For personal reasons,i dont want to go out to work,and would feel much better working from home as you can do the work at your leisure in the comfort of your own home.I also want to ...
A. 1 February 2009: Big Brother? You get to stay in a house and act....
You've picked a really bad time to start a working from home business. Companies do not have the time / money to farm out to British individuals when they can email it out to India and get it d... (read in full...)
Why is it not happening for me?
Q. Hi, Ok, im 21 years old and iv never had a relationship. i seem to be the only one out of my friends that doesnt have a boyfriend. men just dont seem to be interested in me. i do talk to them but theres nothing worse that being in a night club and...
A. 1 February 2009: Well you don't give us a lot to go on so there is no way to advise you.
Other than night clubs and work, where do you go where you have the chance to meet and get to know men?
If you can't list 3 places that you go each week then there is yo... (read in full...)
My wife to be is planning on marrying someone else?
Q. I live in the United Kingdom,my wife to be lives in Africa, i love so much,she tells me that she misses me and she loves me, few days ago, her friend told me that she is in love with another guy who lives in the States,she has sent pictures to ...
A. 1 February 2009: And surprise surprise, she's asked you for cash.... I KNEW you were going to say she had.
So many men have been conned by women like this. It's an entire industry to meet a guy, bring them over, show them a great time for a week and then they sen... (read in full...)
An unlikely pairing!
Q. Is it possible to fall in love with someone even if you really don't fancy them? I have started a relationship with someone, but can't get over the fact that I don't fancy him and feel uncomfortable about it. We are an excellent match in many ot...
A. 1 February 2009: I think you can get very close to them, and you can have a deep caring for them and respect, but if you don't want to shove them up against a wall and snog their face off then it's going to be a very unhappy relationship.
I have men who I really r... (read in full...)
He says the hugs he gives to other girls are just friendly hugs but I can't help being jealous.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year now but he is always hugging other girls at my school, and when I talk to him about it he say's they're just friendly hugs and don't mean anything, but I can't help feeling jealous? What should I do ?...
A. 1 February 2009: You run the risk of being a controlling girlfriend if you demand he stops. The girls all know he is with you so they probably see him in exactly the same way as a gay man. They hug him because he's safe and it means nothing.
Was he like this whe... (read in full...)
Will my chances of concieving be greater as I've had antibiotics?
Q. Hey there, a quick question. Me and my boyfriend have just decided to try for a baby. Last Friday I started penicillin for tonsilitus, one day after that on the Saturday I finished my pack of contraceptives, I finished my pencillin on Friday and ...
A. 1 February 2009: Antibiotics have nothing to do with conceiving as far as I can see.... however, they can stop your pill from working. (the chemist should have told you about that)
If you have only just come off the pill I would be very surprised if you are preg... (read in full...)
Lack of trust...
Q. If your wife doesn't give you her my space/page address do you think that is wrong or what?...
A. 1 February 2009: I am the first to say that as a wife she should have her own money / friends of both sexes / life / privacy and everything else, but I would never actively hide something from my husband, because I never have anything TO hide. I sometimes don't tell ... (read in full...)
What do the keys and code mean?
Q. I need an unbiased and neutral second opinion… Ok, recently I spent the whole weekend over at my girlfriend’s house alone for the first time in our relationship. We have only been together for a short while now. But, over the weekend, she gave me...
A. 1 February 2009: I think she meant that she is letting you into her life / heart / etc.
She's trusting you with everything her family owns etc.
It's a big deal.
If you are freaked out by it then perhaps you should re-have that talk about taking it slowly. ... (read in full...)
Do I have a high sex drive?
Q. I'm 16, and i have a very high sex drive... for example, if me and my boyfriend have sex, i'm always ready to do it again. Could this be because i don't orgasm, or do i just have a high sex drive? any help appreciated :)...
A. 1 February 2009: Good to hear you know what you are doing!
Stay safe and enjoy it!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Its different tonight and I want her to know I feel that way
Q. I've been seeing this girl a lot and its pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day i asked her if i could take her out on a date on the weekend and ...
A. 1 February 2009: Dress up, go later, go to a quieter posher restaurant, bring her a rose, make it a darker more candle lit affair.
Then it's just a case of being more romantic, telling her that she looks beautiful etc etc.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do I have a high sex drive?
Q. I'm 16, and i have a very high sex drive... for example, if me and my boyfriend have sex, i'm always ready to do it again. Could this be because i don't orgasm, or do i just have a high sex drive? any help appreciated :)...
A. 1 February 2009: Probably both.
You are young and your hormones will still be in overdrive making you feel above what you will do when you are an adult.
Also if you don't orgasm then you may not be satisfied so get your boyfriend to finish you off by hand.
... (read in full...)
Did he have a baby with this fling?
Q. I have been seeing a man for a year now and things are going well. I have a child from a previous relationship but my bf is very loving to her and he is a very nice man. The problem is that he had a brief relationship a few months before we started ...
A. 1 February 2009: Wow, so you are trying to ruin this poor girl's life by contacting her fiance to tell him that the baby may not be his....
The baby does not sound like it is your boyfriends, this really sounds like your paranoia.
However, if you ruin things ... (read in full...)
I really like him but he said he has fantasies about being with boys
Q. Hello aunts and uncles, Sorry, this will be a little long. I'm in a dilemma. I've to tell the whole story to make the situation clear. I'm a 25 years old girl. I met a guy around 30 years of age at my workplace. I soon fell in love with him...
A. 1 February 2009: There's nothing like a hopeless case to make us girls go weak at the knees.
Seeing hidden vulnerabilities in men is very attractive as it appeals to our nature to look after them and fix them. It's very romantic.
However, this is not a good th... (read in full...)
My wife to be is planning on marrying someone else?
Q. I live in the United Kingdom,my wife to be lives in Africa, i love so much,she tells me that she misses me and she loves me, few days ago, her friend told me that she is in love with another guy who lives in the States,she has sent pictures to ...
A. 1 February 2009: I think she has shown her true colours here. She's playing you and this other guy, and she may be playing others too.
Tell her that you know about her other man and see what she says, but if I were you then I would end it no matter what she says... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex? I don't know what to do!
Q. I have two questions: 1: Is it normal for a 13 year old girl to be eager for sex? 2: I just broke up with my boyfriend. He was being a jerk doesnt trust me, cusses and makes fun of me... He always says he will change but he never does and now...
A. 1 February 2009: 1. Yes, your hormones are going into overdrive at your age as they are physically forcing your body to change at a very fast rate. HOWEVER that does not mean you are ready for sex and you should try SO hard to NOT have sex for a good few years yet. ... (read in full...)
Should I move out on my own?
Q. Hello everyone...I havent been on here in a while. Ok. So here is my question. I am currently living with my boyfriend and his mother. For the whole year of 2008 it has been difficult for me financially, emotionally, the whole nine yard. I have b...
A. 1 February 2009: Do it!
Sounds like you have a good plan and you want to get your own place and be independent so you just need to get on it and go for it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I tell a friend that I don't fancy him?
Q. Hi Andrew, I have a question that needs a rapid answer to prevent a good friend getting hurt. How can I tell him I don't fancy him?.... I recently joined a dating agency, which was based on compatability and without pictures. I was abo...
A. 1 February 2009: You are just going to have to be straight and say that you don't want to have sex and just want to be mates.
The reason you can give for this is the clever bit.
Tell him that you fear that you'll slide into a relationship with him if you conti... (read in full...)
Is it worth it to see if he's really changed?
Q. hi guys last time i wrote on here was about a year ago wen i was getting over an ex that broke my heart out of the blue after cheating on me with another girl, and then chose her.he lied alot and then cheated on her with me bt again chose her ...
A. 1 February 2009: I really think you should do yourself a favour and not sleep with him until you have made your mind up one way or the other.
You are hurting yourself and leading him on that there is a chance.
You can either jump in, take a chance, trust hi... (read in full...)
How can I test the waters?
Q. I'm inviting a very close female friend to my flat soon. Plan is she'll stay night here, we'll be drinkin and catchin up on things as i'm at uni far and never see her. I would like to initiate something physical with her that night, i'm not even ...
A. 1 February 2009: If it's going to happen then it will. This is one of those situations where you will either have a great time but not feel the vibe and that she just wants to be mates OR, the moment will just happen and you'll be cuddled up and your eyes will meet ... (read in full...)
He's going to be with his baby mama on Valentine's Day
Q. i aske my x boyfriend of 1 year what he doing for v day and he said he gone to be with his baby mama so how can i tell him i want to be with him for valentines day???...
A. 1 February 2009: If you go out with a guy with a baby, then you have to accept that he is going to have to spend weekends and lots of money on the child and it's mother.
Tell him that you wanted to treat him for Valentines and ask him if you can have a nice nig... (read in full...)
Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 1 February 2009: The key word you really REALLY need to use here is:
"We"
Mention that you stood on the scales this morning and it scared you. (I very much doubt you are in the gym every day and perfect so there will be no harm in this being a joint effort.)
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks hes a three year old!
Q. Hey all, Well here's the basics im seventeen been with my boyfriend a year, everything has been great until around the end of november. When "the baby voice" came into my relationship. Out of no where my boyfriend started speaking like a baby, it ...
A. 1 February 2009: Urgh, what is it about big men who turn into blubbering wrecks after the first few months???
I hate this and for future boyfriends the trick to cut them off before it starts, they are trying to be cute and it IS cut for 5 minutes. After that jus... (read in full...)
Valentine's Day Gift! What to get or do?
Q. Hello everyone! I know that this might be a lame question but... Valentines day! I am a stay at home wife/ mother to be! My husband works and pays bills but I don't have any money. If I need something I ask and I usually get it. Yes I am a little ...
A. 1 February 2009: Why don't you talk to him about him setting up some kind of account for you so you have your own bit of money. Call it housekeeping or pocket money or whatever, but then at least you can go out and get him a nice engraved hip flask / watch / ... (read in full...)
My brother moved in and he's so messy!
Q. My brother (and get let fired from his job) and his girlfriend got booted from they'll apartmant. They have been living with me and my boyfriend. My brother has been driving me insane. He hasn't been picking up after hisself, he leaves dashes and ...
A. 1 February 2009: Go out to work and tell him that if the place isn't clean when you get home then you are going to have to ask them to leave.
Tell him you don't mind him staying but you expect him to put some effort in and that once he gets a job then he can pay ... (read in full...)
Should I ignore his texts or reply to them?
Q. Hello! I am in a stupid quandry. I have asked only a few of my friends what I should do and they both say IGNORE! Back in October a cooworker and I became attracted to each other and he proposed that we start having some fun together. Which ...
A. 1 February 2009: I think rather than sending him a formal letter of resignation, you should just wait till you next see him, and then treat that as his LAST chance.
Do your thing for him and then lie back and say "my turn."
If he still doesn't perform then jus... (read in full...)
His family is still in love with his ex and now he is questioning us
Q. This guy and I started dating over the summer and we really hit it off. I found out later that he broke up with his girlfriend of two years just so he could be with me. Everything was perfect until he was in a motor cycle accident and that is how ...
A. 1 February 2009: His parents obviously really liked his ex, and their first impression of you was that you were the girl that came and broke his heart.
You made their son abandon her and they feel bad about that. They see you as a bad influence, even though i... (read in full...)
She is sending me mixed signals
Q. me n this girl just went on a date sorta thin to da movies and we held hands n stuff durin it but like thru the whle movie she was textin other guys coz and fliritng and i told i dont like it wen u flirt wiv other dudes and she said she wasentr ...
A. 1 February 2009: It really sounds to me like this girl only wants to be friends. She is enjoying having someone to hang out with and hold hands with, but she also likes flirting with other guys too so doesn't want to be tied down.
She is using you for the attentio... (read in full...)
I love physics more than my gifrlfriend.Is it fair to her?
Q. Hello, I am currently engaged in a pleasant long distance relationship with a wonderful lady (we have been together 1 yr). We do not have frequent contact, but I care for her very much and we enjoy the time we spend together. I cannot see mysel...
A. 1 February 2009: You seem to think it's up to you alone.
If you want to put your career first at this point in your life then that is entirely up to you. To be honest I would do exactly the same thing. This just isn't the time to throw it all away for the possibil... (read in full...)
Handling dogs & disease?
Q. HI. I want to know if anybody here knows if having/ handling dogs transmit any kind of diseases that could affect female health and/or pregnancy. I've been having this doubt on my mind for years and have not find an answer. The thing is years a...
A. 1 February 2009: I think Lazyguy has it exactly right.
Your sister doesn't sound that bright so could have got mixed up or was just trying to spite you.
If you have concerns then speak to your doctor.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it too much?
Q. It's always been so hard to decide what I should give for the boy I like on Valentines day. Well here's what I'm planning : - pre-made t-shirt that says "You dance to the beat of my heart" (because we dance together) - a tiny teddy bear hugging ...
A. 1 February 2009: I'd say it really shows your age.
It's such a sweet gift and to be honest, and I am sure that he is going to be really flattered that you put so much effort in. In years to come he'll look back at this and remember fondly.
HOWEVER. He i... (read in full...)
I really want a wedding and kids but sometimes I can't stand him!!
Q. I'm 23 and me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years. The first year he did a lot of bad things and I wished that I had broken up with him but I stayed with him to try to make it work. He is a much better boyfriend now but I have a hard ...
A. 1 February 2009: It's clear that the wedding and kids is the only reason you are staying with this guy and trust me, if you go through with it you will wake up in 5 years time miserable and trapped.
Think about your dream wedding. Do you want to look up and prom... (read in full...)
We're always fighting over the chores!
Q. I'm a young mother of a3 month old baby and my boyfreind and I always fight now over everything but mostly chores. He runs away to his parents house for a couple days and leaves me here to take care of her. Than he says he wants to work things out ...
A. 1 February 2009: He's not coming back hun, he may have the best intentions in the world and when it was just you and him last night like a couple of normal teens, it was amazing for him and very simple and easy to deal with.
But then instead of bringing him a cu... (read in full...)
I cannot take my husband any more. I am trying, but it gets harder every day.
Q. I cannot take my husband any more. I am trying, but it gets harder every day. He works between 50 and 60 hours a week, which I understand and respect. Although I have been unemployed for about 2 months, I have, throughout or 14 year marriage, ...
A. 1 February 2009: I think I agree that you need therapy.
You need a referee to basically point out the failings on both sides here without it descending into a massive row.
He may simply have not noticed what a pain he's being and need a kick up the bum.
Good... (read in full...)
Our first year anniversary and she went back to work! I'm so angry at this.
Q. Hi, my girlfriend and I just had our first year anniversary, before that she was in Japan for three weeks and I had to make the plans for our first year which I did even though I had exams on. 2 days before our first year she got a call to come into ...
A. 1 February 2009: Did she know that you had things planned?
If she didn't think it was anything more than a meal in the evening then going to work for the extra cash might have just made sense.
You don't say what happened when you talked about it. You just hav... (read in full...)
| *milysanswers's friends
These are mutual friends, so *milysanswers has
added them and they have added *milysanswers!
|
