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writes:Dear cupid, I am a little confused, been meeting up with a guy (who I like) for a while now, we're always flirting and he has told me he like me. We've had sex twice which is fine, we're both single and get what we 'need' The only thing is last time it happened I clearly heard him say 'I love you'. The next min he's saying thanks mate?! He's clearly admitted he's in no situation to be in a 'relationship', which again is fine by me I just can't get my head round it, why would he come out with something, what I would say, that serious.Any advice would be gratefully recieved
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 February 2009):
He was having sex, he's going to say all kinds of crazy stuff.
Perhaps he was imagining someone else who was in love with?
You say this is only to satisfy a need so there is no reason to think he's not pretending it's someone else.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): The words "I love you" get thrown around alot. Did he want you to say it back? If so tell him "Dont take it to heart when I say I love you, Its when I say Im IN love with you it means something big" And just save that as your "serious" talk. =]But like I said people say I love you to friends, family ect......But when your IN love with someone its.... different I guess.All the best xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (2 February 2009):
 men say the weirdest things!!! i'm baffled myself but trying to help...maybe he's confused, you both need to talk about this with each other, this conversation nedds to take place on mutual ground which doesnt include the bed! you need to be sure of what you want out of this before the conversation takes place. let me know how it goes. x good luck.x
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