Girlfriend's new friend! (Yawwwwwn)
Q. Little stuff with my gf is pissing me off, she met a new friend at work and blew me off, I played it cool cause I love her and she doesn't have many friends. I love her to death, we will probably meet tonight and get a little intimate if you know ...
A. 7 February 2009: She has to let you have friends, if she is that posessive then tell her she needs to sort out her insecurities or it will never work.
If this day was planed for ages then tell her that you are upset at being stood up. Let her make it up to you. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's new friend! (Yawwwwwn)
Q. Little stuff with my gf is pissing me off, she met a new friend at work and blew me off, I played it cool cause I love her and she doesn't have many friends. I love her to death, we will probably meet tonight and get a little intimate if you know ...
A. 6 February 2009: So she went out with new friend and you are glad that she has this but don't actually care enough to listen to her as you want her to shut up and have sex with you?
You're great.
Listening is a big part of being a boyfriend. If you can't cope w... (read in full...)
Do boys find a girl swearing attractive?
Q. Like in a tomboyish way. Girls who act like boys not in a lesbian way like the way they act and everything (you know what I mean) OR ANOTHER TYPE OF girly girls like sluts who think ther're all "IT".. They also swear alot and dab on makeup so muc...
A. 6 February 2009: Different boys like different things.
When you grow up then you will realise that everyone is different and that is great.
Right now you are still in the young phase where you want to act like a sheep and blend in as much as possible.
Go... (read in full...)
Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm?
Q. Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm? I'm in between relationships and started a FWB situation with a male friend of mine. While we were having sex, he pulled out and ejaculated on my stomach. Then he went back in and kept going. He ...
A. 6 February 2009: Sounds like you are a lucky girl. Some guys can just carry on, some need a 5 minute break, some just can't manage a second time.
However, it sounds like you are not using condoms. That is not cool, especially when you are in a FWB situatio... (read in full...)
Why is he contacting me when he asked for space?
Q. So my ex and I got into an fight where the conclusion was that space was needed. It has been a lil over 2 weeks now and I have not initiated any form of contact, but he has (texts, random e-mails, twitter messages). I reply to those in a very short ...
A. 6 February 2009: He sounds like he still doesn't know what he wants. So rather than do the decent thing and get his head straight, he is just getting in touch with you whenever he misses you and then ignoring you when ever he's thinking about someone else.
He's ... (read in full...)
Would a guy be happy with just a kiss and cuddle?
Q. There is a guy I have fallen head over heals with and he seems to like me, he stares at me kinda funny, anyway we always chat when we are alone but never when anyone else is around. We have arranged to go out together and he wants to book a hotel ...
A. 6 February 2009: Logically I would say you have to be clear up front. But that would be horribly presumptuous.
You could ask a question in that direction and see if he is reassuring about it. So just say something like "You know that we are sharing a hotel ro... (read in full...)
He can't deal with the fact I know he's gay, I wish I never said it, what do I do?
Q. I've been answering questions on this site for some time now. I always do it annonymously, maybe I should set up and account, we'll see. Well, now I'm going to ask for some advice. There is this guy who used to work for me, he's only 25, but we ...
A. 6 February 2009: He obviously has some deep deep issues with the fact he is gay. There will be a reason he's in the closet and it may be that although you are ok with him being gay, he may not be.
It's sad but you have to let him deal with the fact of his sexualit... (read in full...)
Is it wierd to like a guy but not be physically attracted to him?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering is it weird to like a guy but not be physically attracted to him? Theres this guy n we have a lot in common, we have similar jobs like the same places and we get along rely well but the thing is i dont feel attracted t...
A. 6 February 2009: It is possible to be really close to someone and just not be attracted to them... but I wouldn't recommend getting into a relationship with someone like that.
All that will happen is that you will be really close and it might work for a year, ma... (read in full...)
I feel like such an outsider. How can I get past this?
Q. Ive been feeling very down lately. Ive come to realise that in my life in every aspect of it I am an outsider. And Ive lived this way for years and now I dont like it. I will start with work. I work in an office of 6 other women of all different...
A. 6 February 2009: I get the impression that although you are shy, you come across as unapproachable.
You say you are not close enough to chat to your work mates so you don't go out...... This makes no sense. GO OUT and you will find things to chat about, it's eas... (read in full...)
Do you let him taste his own semen after oral sex?
Q. I'd like to hear from the ladies on this one. As a finale to oral sex, do you ever let him taste your man his own semen? Does he willingly eat when you offer it to him?...
A. 6 February 2009: I would assume that he wouldn't want to, my first boyfriend would want oral sex but then would refuse to kiss me till I brushed my teeth. He was nice like that.
My hubbie is better and will kiss me afterwards, but for his sake and my own I usuall... (read in full...)
Partner divorced 2 years ex wife still on his computer!
Q. I have been with my partner 2 years and have recently given birth to a son. My partner got Divorced 2 years ago but fails to delete all of his ex wife's photos holidays, wedding etc from his PC and company Home Server. I finally moved in x-mas a...
A. 5 February 2009: Are you saying that you would never keep a photo of a happy time in your life just because it contained a picture of your ex?
They are his past, they are his memories, they made him into the man that you fell in love with and who loves you.
... (read in full...)
Pretending to be the ex during sex?
Q. What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?...
A. 5 February 2009: I think the husband probably has a big red hand print on his face by now, and if he doesn't then it's never too late to give him one.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I get back b/f after being apart 4 a year?
Q. How do i get my ex bf back we hav been apart 4 a year now?should i go and tell him i stil luv him? I need help please! Thank you...
A. 5 February 2009: Find out why you broke up and fix that.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He accused me of cheating and then broke up??
Q. i was seeing this guy for 3months and we got into an argument and he accused me of cheating when i haven't.. i guess he wanted to break up.. and since then ive not heard from him so i guess this is his way of breaking up with me..any advice please.. ...
A. 5 February 2009: What went wrong was that he was an immature idiot.
What man has to resort to making crazy accusations rather than just saying that it's not working and he wants to call it a day?
He was an idiot and he did you a favour by setting you free... (read in full...)
Why am I not getting a g/f?
Q. Wot s wrong wid me? Um 19, shy type, everyone says i m handsome, i do body building, i am trendy, um not that ugly. Then why not i am getting a gf? Naturally nothing came in me that how to pick a girl or ask her out. Um only single in my frenz ...
A. 5 February 2009: When was the last time you met a girl, liked her and asked her out?
If you are not doing that very often then you won't get a girlfriend.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do I have reason to be worried, or do guys say things like this all the time?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months now. we love each other and i believe as a couple we are very strong. however i came across a comment on a networking site that he'd made 5months ago to a girl he was seeing about 10 months...
A. 5 February 2009: The other day I was chatting to my male friend. (I am married.) I was saying about how stressed I was about my complete failure to find something to wear to my sister's wedding. My hubbie is an usher so I'll be alone most of the day and don't want ... (read in full...)
Is it wise to get back in touch with an ex?
Q. I just wanted people's opinions on something. My ex and I have been split up for over a year now and I would dearly love to talk to him. Is it advisable to send him a text? If so, what do I say? Thanks...
A. 5 February 2009: "Hi, it's been ages! How's life treating you? x"... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but fancy my teacher, I'm confused, can you help?
Q. I'm 18 and in my second year of A levels and finish in June then i'm off to University. I know this is going to sound like a teenage crush but i think i fancy my head of sixth form. He is 30 and we get along well. As part of one of my Alevel sub...
A. 5 February 2009: Your crush on your teacher is probably just a symptom of the fact your life is changing.
You have a boyfriend but you obviously don't love him in a strong, passionate, only eyes for him kind of way... and you are going off to uni soon.
Your te... (read in full...)
We moved in with another couple and I don't trust the other woman, help!
Q. Will he cheat? I just moved in with another couple only a week ago and I already feel uncomfortable. We are all in our late thirties to forties except one and she is 27, that's not an issue. The issue is I think she is flirting with my boyfrien...
A. 5 February 2009: The fact you say you don't trust ANY girls makes me think that you may be a bit over sensitive to this girl.
She may just be a flirty person, she may just think of your guy as a friend.
Considering you live with her why don't YOU spend a bit ... (read in full...)
I was hurt when I found out she liked someone else, any advice?
Q. Hi there. I still dont think im over this girl. Shes funny and a great mate and i had my first real experience of love with her. She said no but i had butterflies in my stomach for weeks before i asked her and i couldnt stop thinking about her. She ...
A. 5 February 2009: You just have to carry on as you are and you'll get over her eventually. These things are always hard when you have to carry on seeing the person.
Just keep thinking positive and trying hard to get over her. Take some time away from her if that ... (read in full...)
In love and want to take the step to forever!
Q. i have been with the same guy for almost a year now. we get along great. this is the same guy i almost married years ago. i have come to the conclusion that he will never stop drinking on a daily basis. i accept it. i dont approve of it but ...
A. 5 February 2009: You don't want to end up alone?
Unless you are dying of cancer in the near future then that is NO excuse.
You have a minimum of 35 years left on this planet, why tie yourself to the first halfway decent guy that comes along?
If you were tru... (read in full...)
How can I get my Mom to see how awful she's being?
Q. Lately me and my mum just haven't been getting on. There is only the three of us, me, mum and dad and the dog lol. Of course, since there is only me and my parents (and the dog) its not surprising that we keep butting heads every other day. Bu...
A. 5 February 2009: It could be the change, or it could be the large amount that she is drinking.
Just try to give her a bit of space for a while, or research some herbal remedies and dose her with them!
Why not just ask her if she is ok, tell her she hasn't been ... (read in full...)
I cant tell if he's asking to be nice or friendly or what?
Q. Hi there. I work with a guy who is forever asking me what I am doing after work. I cannot tell if he is asking to be friendly or if he is interested. I have noticed that he seems kind and compassionate but wonder if his question is based on his k...
A. 5 February 2009: Wait for him to ask you again, tell him nothing and ask if he wants to go for a drink.
Then if you get on like a house on fire all night and he walks you home and tries to kiss you then he's interested.
If you have a great time and he shows no ... (read in full...)
Jealous? Or thinking badly of me?
Q. I met this group of guys the other day and we partied at their house together. I kissed one of them two nights in a row and he wanted to do more, started touching me all over but I took his hands off and left. I really like him but he seems to be a ...
A. 4 February 2009: I think you are thinking about this too much.
He saw you, tried to get into your pants, saw you chatting to his friend, wondered if his friend was going to get into your pants, wondered if his friend got shot down would he get to have another ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting to this man threatening me in a parking lot?
Q. Just wanting some advice. I am a mobile carer and this afternoon i arrived at one of my ladies and there was no where to park outside her house. So i parked two doors up knowing i would only be twenty minutes and i hoped to be out of the way by the ...
A. 4 February 2009: You should definitely warn your employers. They will need to warn anyone else who is going there that there is a psycho 3 doors away.
Also, they have a duty to protect you.
Think of it this way. You don't get paid enough to have to worry ab... (read in full...)
I think I might be sick next time..
Q. My boyfriend has a smelly cock and he keeps wanting me to go down on him, what do I do? I keep wretching - think i may be sick the next time- help!...
A. 4 February 2009: It's smelly for a reason, there is something really wrong with him down there.
Tell him to get checked out at the clinic, and if you are going to do ANYTHING with it make him wear a condom and wash your hands afterwards.
Personally I'... (read in full...)
I want to go for it but don't wish to make a fool of myself
Q. I need some help, to cut a long story short I lead a very "sheltered" life, I have never had a boyfriend never had any physical contact with a guy and i didn't bother me until I started my new job. A guy there wants a bit of fun and he is gorgeous ...
A. 4 February 2009: Are you really sure you want your first time to be with a guy who wants "a bit of fun?" Is this really what you wanted for your first time?
I'm not that sentimental to believe that all girls dream of being in a loving relationship and on a giant ... (read in full...)
Should I take things slow or get out now?
Q. I need help. I've been seeing this man for 5 mths now and everything is great when we are together. He says he doesnt want a girlfriend, but it seems as if i am. He wants to take things slow and not get too serious. He calls us friends lovers and ...
A. 4 February 2009: Well he's basically in a relationship but is refusing to call him that.
My advice is to force him to make his mind up.
Tell him that you feelings have grown too strong and that you can't continue to see him just as a companion etc. You want hi... (read in full...)
Odds of pregnancy when on pill and withdrawal?
Q. Last weekend I had unprotected sex (no condom) with my girlfriend. She is on the pill, and I pulled out before I came, but the possibility of pregnancy is still a little worry. I was just wondering if anyone knows the odds of pregnancy if the girl ...
A. 4 February 2009: They are from Wikipedia but I read it as percentage failure rate in the FIRST YEAR of use.
So pretty much the odds of it failing on you.
It's a percentage so it's not the number of failures a year so much as the amount of times it fails.
As ... (read in full...)
In love and want to take the step to forever!
Q. i have been with the same guy for almost a year now. we get along great. this is the same guy i almost married years ago. i have come to the conclusion that he will never stop drinking on a daily basis. i accept it. i dont approve of it but ...
A. 4 February 2009: So your relationship is still one sided, still negatively affecting your life and you are really happy about this?
If you are that desperate for a white dress then just go and buy one! You don't need to settle for anything less than someone ... (read in full...)
Can he love me if he isn't attracted to me anymore?
Q. My husband and I decided to go to therapy to deal with out communication issues and when we discussed our non-existent sex life it came out that he is no longer attracted to me. When we met I was about 15 pounds lighter but that was seven years ago ...
A. 4 February 2009: Well did you say that he is hardly a gym freak either? Or was this another failure to communicate?
Why not get fit together? Take up something like cycling, dancing, fencing, something that will tone you both up and get you out together doing st... (read in full...)
Such a young age to lose his libido?
Q. My boyfriend is 21 and in the last two months he has seemed to lost his libido completely. And I was wondering what I can do to help him. And is it normal for him to lose his sex drive at such a young age? ...
A. 4 February 2009: No it is not normal.
It is most likely to be stress related, or a symptom of mild depression.
he may have fallen out of love with you, or it could be a symptom of serious illness. Has your demand for sex become routine? Have you stopped both... (read in full...)
Can you get addicted from smoking just once?
Q. well i am 19 years old..and i have never smoked a cigarette all my life..all my friends do..i want to try smoking 2 just once..is there anything wrong in smoking once..or would i get addicted???...
A. 4 February 2009: It takes 2 to 3 cigarettes to get enough nicotine in your body to be truly addicted. However, you may still feel a bit of a pull towards them from one.
However, tobacco is the most expensive pointless drug in the world. It's highly addictiv... (read in full...)
Odds of pregnancy when on pill and withdrawal?
Q. Last weekend I had unprotected sex (no condom) with my girlfriend. She is on the pill, and I pulled out before I came, but the possibility of pregnancy is still a little worry. I was just wondering if anyone knows the odds of pregnancy if the girl ...
A. 4 February 2009: The contraceptive pill has a failure rate of 0.3% when you take it perfectly and 8% if she takes it wrong.
The Pulling out method has a failure rate of 27%.
She should be ok if she was taking the pill correctly and not missing any, but you sho... (read in full...)
I kissed another guy, how can I get my boyfriend to trust me again?
Q. I have made the biggest mistake of my life! I have a bf who i admit we have had our problems but yesterday i cheated on him and kissed another guy! It didnt even feel right. I confessed to him today and he is completely beside himself. He says he ...
A. 4 February 2009: You can't MAKE him trust you. You just have to give him time and let it slowly build back up.
Why did you do it? You say that you had problems so was it just the feeling of being wanted? The lean in for the kiss is the biggest thing in that sit... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my brothers about their fight?
Q. K my question is how can i talk about what happened with my two brothers with out causing too much conflict? But a bit of background will also help so here goes, L and D both got engaged L to R and D to A, well they both have kids now but weddings ...
A. 4 February 2009: Well there are several problems here, I'll try and work through them all.
1. Mortgage: He had a child with her so he needs to pay something. Is the house in his name? If so then they are just living rent free. Get L to get something sorted, ... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me, should I spend Valentine's day with him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, he doesn't love me (told me a couple of months ago - after I told him I loved him) He said it was too early for him (which is fair enough, I've accepted that and have not mentioned it again). But ...
A. 4 February 2009: Does he want to spend it with you?
You are choosing to stick with a man who says he does not love you, and after 9 months, probably never will. If Valentines is making you realise that this is a waste of time then great!
Spend it with friends ... (read in full...)
Is it OK to sleep with another man's wife?
Q. Is it o.k to sleep with another mans wife. I have a married wowan friend at work who has expressed a wish to sleep with me, she has given me details of her marriage woe's etc. I admit she is very attractive. My ex wife cheated on me with my best ...
A. 4 February 2009: I'm a Darwin-follower and yet some how, even though I don't believe there is a big bearded man staring at me, I manage to tell right from wrong.
DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER YOU IDIOT!
Up until now, evolution has followed the pattern of survival of t... (read in full...)
Why are people so hostile when they hear the truth?
Q. why are there so many people in society and especially on here that get so hostile? everyone asks for advice, but when some of them are given answers they turn nasty and don't want to know. or you just get plain rudeness. if you don't want to h...
A. 4 February 2009: Their friends tell them to dump the guy so they come on here hoping we will say "Follow your heart! He'll change! You just need to be a bit nicer to him and then he'll realise how great you are and stop all the bad behaviour."
Or they say "Oh ... (read in full...)
After 5 years, my girlfriend wants to see what else there is! Please HELP.
Q. Hey everyone...So I have posted a few question regarding my situation with my girlfriend. We have been dating for almost 5 years and its has been amazing. I am 23 and she is 21. We have transitioned through highschool, proms, and life. We have dealt ...
A. 4 February 2009: She was your first of everything and she is all you've ever known.
No wonder it feels like the world has come to an end. I bet you feel you don't know how to function without her and in some way she will be feeling that too.
HOWEVER, that... (read in full...)
What's the difference between teenager love and adult love?
Q. Well i'd love to know the difference. i know adult love is more complicated but teenager love is also complicated and emotional too. but it's about ages and i don't know what's really the difference ? can anyone explain it to me please ?...
A. 4 February 2009: You do love strongly when you are a teenager. No one is saying that love at that age isn't real or intense or anything like that.
What they mean is that when you are an adult you can handle and control the feelings a bit better. You have had prev... (read in full...)
If he doesn't care why would he text so much?
Q. hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...
A. 4 February 2009: Sounds like the kind of jokey text I would send "Are you ok? Or do you just not love me any more!? x" if someone had gone off quietly at the end of the day.
He's joking because you are his mate.
I really think you need to work on your self est... (read in full...)
If he doesn't care why would he text so much?
Q. hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...
A. 4 February 2009: He is your friend. Do you not have friends that you text a lot?
Go out with the other guy who asked you out. This boy doesn't want a girlfriend or he would have said so by now.
Don't assume that if a boy is nice to you, you should fall for ... (read in full...)
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