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writes:hi, this is a silly question.. but im 18.. and lately i've been seeing this guy thats 24 and unlike me he's pretty much a party boy and i dont mind that, dont get me wrong. but he picked me up at night and we went for a drive around and the thing is.. he pumps up music.. and i dont know what to do.. i basically just sat there and looked ahead.. was i supposed to dance? hahha with a seatbelt on it seems a bit wrong. i dont know, any tips how to deal with someone/situations like that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 February 2009):
Oh dear, he's acting like such an immature little boy. He's too scared to talk to you so he makes it so you just sit in silence and then park up and have a snog and a fumble in the back seat.
He wants to drive around with a hot girl in his car as it looks good to everyone else in his mind.
These nights are not about you or your relationship at all. They are about making him feel good and then getting him some action at the end.
Tell him you want to hang out and TALK or go on a date rather than just add a bit of glamour to his pimp mobile. If he can't talk to you or be a real boyfriend then you know all he is after is a girl to use as a fashion accessory and for sex.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): This post made me laugh us girls can be really daft sometimes, but I think sugar sugar gave you the answer you were seeking : ) 10 out of 10 for this answer, lol why do we always feel like we need to act in a certain way to make our men happy, love this guy fell inlove with you aleady the way you are, so just be that he is not expectng you to do anyrhing his is just showing you a side of him, try tapping your feet to the beat, it will help you to relax and not be so concerent about your next move, K, good : )
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 I think you have to take each situation as it comes. For that particular situation I think he's probably just playing it loudly because he likes it, not because he expects you to bust out some car dancing :)If you want any further advice on dealing with the party boy or other situations that arise feel free to send me a message!
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