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female
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writes:Hi I'm a straight female in a relationship with a guy, but I have a crush on a another girl. But the problem is I have a close relative who I call my sis but she really isn't. We'll call her Jen. Ok now Jen's sister is the girl I'm crushing on. We'll call her April. April is gay and she has a girlfriend. One night we all went out to the movies. I couldn't keep my eyes off of April. So anyways one day me and Jen are talking and I told her that I like April. She didn't object to it. She just couldn't believe it. Then she went back and told April what I said. April didn't believe it because she thought I was straight. And I am straight but I wouldn't mind trying something new with her. But long story short April told Jen to tell me that me and her should go to the movies. Of course I'm with it. So I tell Jen to tell her yea. But she won't. Now she's saying she don't want to have nothing to do with it. I guess she thinks that something sexual is going to happen. But that's the last thing on my mind. I just want to spend a little time with April and see if this is something I could see myself doing. And as far as my boyfriend goes. I have no idea. Plz any help is appreciated.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 March 2009):
It's no wonder she doesn't want to go out on a date with you. I wouldn't want to be someone's science experiment either.
Also, SHE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, why would she want to go out with you on what will be a date, no matter how you label it, when that is just going to hurt her girlfriend.
If you are having feelings for someone else then you have to figure out if you want to be with your boyfriend or not. You have to talk about it with him and see if he's the kind of guy who would really get off on the idea of you kissing a girl, or if he would count it as cheating no matter what the sex.
When you are next single then you can go out and meet some girls and see what happens. But don't try and ruin 2 relationships just because you are a bit bi-curious.
Good Luck!! xx
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