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writes:Ok, so what is behind the whole reason why my boyfriend wanted me to sleep over on Saturday night.. He gave me a tight hug and didn't want to let me go. Jokingly of course but kept insisting it was late and I should just spend the night.. I didn't though. But not sure what a guy thinks of the whole sleeping over thing.Does that bring a couple closer? I know it wasn't sex because I wasn't feeling it..yeah about to start my period 'yuk' Lol.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 March 2009):
Well if he didn't make a move toward sex and just wanted to cuddle you then he sounds like he does actually care about you and wants to be close to you.
Hell yes it brings you closer! You get to cuddle up, be at your most vulnerable with each other, wake up and see all the other stuff: the real you, not the perfect one that comes out on dates. AND you get breakfast together before heading off to work or where ever you need to be.
It's just really nice.
I think we've established that he loves you as a girlfriend and not a potential easy lay, so I really think he'll just see it as you both being closer and nothing negative at all.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Depends what kinda guy he is. I have slept over at so many guys houses and all we did was cuddle and then other times they bugged me the whole time trying to get in my pants. Use your best judgment or flat out ask him if he had any intentions for that night. Honesty and being strait forward is the best way to go.
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Sounds like he wanted to have sex with you! Just because you werent feeling it, doesnt mean he wasnt either!
Also, just sleeping in the same bed with someone, of course that brings you two closer!
It feels really good cuddling and sharing a bed with someone all night.
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