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writes:I met a girl on Xbox right before valentines day. We started talking as friends then started getting more serious after we found out we were almost the same person now what I'm gunna say will make her sound like a psycho bitch but I love her so much, she told me she likes camping, fishing, dirtbikes and those are all my hobbies she told me her problems and again we had the same problems like fights and teachers and stuff which I had to drop out b/c of it was stupid considering I'm 17 but I think god wants me to help her... I was planning on moving to Kentucky with my friend until she came along, she is from Alabama and I'm literaly 1000 miles away.One night she told me her stepdad beats her, another she told me her ex boyfriend beat her and tried to rape her then one night someone told me she asked them how big there cock was and I just questioned her, one night told her that I don't care because I love her and as long as she loves me it's ok if she did then I didn't delete the guy off my friends list because she didn't and she got upset and quit talking by the way we met on xbox I know what she looks like and she knows what I look like but later that night she went on a walk and she seen her ex and he asked what's wrong, she told him where fighting and he threw her to the ground and beat my girl. When she was dating him she started cutting herself and she stopped until he beat her the other night and she started again b/c of him. I found out because her sister text me and told me and asked me to make her stop so we disscused it and she also told me she was bisexual as well and I told her about a girl who I liked that dumped me and when she did I got depressed so I cut a heart into my leg and also burned it, she thought of was cool but I dread that brand, I hate it and later she was avoiding me and her friends told me she doesn't want to talk to me right now, and this morning I got deleted along with all of her other friends and blocked all communications I know I should never had said that and I was about ready to do it but I said no if you love her you won't do that and said I gotta be strong for both of us. I still have her phone number should I give it a couple days and call her or what I love her so much and I just got a job and started working this weekend so I could move down in roughly six months oh yeah she is 15 I'm 17 I wish I could take back what I said and I'd give anything and everything to take it back.I feel like a worthless piece of shit now but I love her so much I would die for this girl, so what should I do? Should I give her some time before I call? What do I do to apologize what should I say? How do I make it right she's like my cocaine I guess every time we talk I love her a little bit more and my life has been shit until she came along. What do I need to do please help me out, I love her so much and I don't want that to be the last thing I said to her and thanks for looking.I really need you guyzs help bad, I love this girl and I never let the problems get in the way she's the right one for me and I can't lose her.
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reader, tux +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Reading this question reminded me a lot about one of my previous relationships.. It didn't end well at all. I would say that she needs to get some help and you are not going to be able to provide that. I thought I could do that with my ex, but well it only ended in more tears and pain.
I would be cautious if you really think she is the right one for you. If you think that and wish to continue, you have a long hard path to follow and it's not going to be a smooth ride.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 March 2009):
This problem can't be solved by talking.
If she got beaten up then she should report it to the police. Get the guy who did it locked up.
If you or her are self harming then you need medical help. It is dangerous and not normal.
Tell her to get help and do the same your self. She is not the kind of girl you can help by talking. She needs adult medical attention and help.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): this sounds like a massive mess that will only end in tears....dont call her in a couple of days, dont call at all. back the hell away from this. youl find someone else that doesnt cause you so many problems and grief. she sounds like a drama queen attention whore and people like that are best avoided before they drag everyone else down with them.
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