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writes:Hi all,I've met a wonderful guy over the net during July of last year, we haven't met yet. Everything was fine and good, then his ex came into the picture saying she's visiting. She says she wants to hook up with him, and doesn't care what position he and I are in. :/ (She originally dumped him over a year ago.) Thing is he's all giddy to meet her again, and he's acting like her opinion matters more than mine and completely disregards what I say or questions it. It's just strange, any advice would be appreicated.Thank-you very much for your time!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (16 March 2009):
 He clearly still has strong feelings for the ex so while she is still in the picture you dont have a chance I'm afraid. If he was serious about you then he would not want to upset you; hence he would not be meeting up with his ex.
I think you may have stronger feelings for him than he does for you I'm afraid, and seen as you have not met yet then I guess he doesnt feel obligated to be faithful to you in any way.
I think you should forget about this guy - anyone that is still involved with an ex is bad news. If they were just friends then fair enough but if they are going to hook up then there is definately more than friendship there.
Leave this guy to his ex - he will soon see she is bad news but you need to leave him alone to realise this! Move on to a guy that feels the same way that you do so you are not wasting your feelings on someone who doesnt reciprocate.
I hope this helps!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 March 2009):
Well if you haven't even met then to be honest, he's just going to see you as an online friend.
She is in real life and may have sex with him. That is something you just can't do online.
I think this has proved that he is not taking this seriously as an "online relationship" if you were hoping he would then you should cut contact before you get hurt.
We can never truly know a person online as they can show exactly which bits of themselves they want to and not the others.
Treat him as a chat buddy and nothing more as that seems to be what he's treating you as.
Good Luck!! xx
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