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36-40,
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writes:I'm having the time of my life romancing an older woman. I'm 26 and she's 46. You have to see her to believe her. She's gorgeous and got a great personality. We met at a party, she's a friend's friend's friend's friend's Mum or something like that. She kept commenting on my bum and said that she wanted to pinch it. She'd had a few drinks but in the end I let her take a photo of it (with trousers on) so she could look at it anytime she liked, just for fun. I ran in to her a few times on different occasions. I'm a joiner by trade and when she found this out she asked me to do some work on her flooring. Far be it from me to turn down a paying job! While I was round at her house doing the work, we flirted at bit. She was blushing a bit and in the end she disappeared. I thought I had scared her off. I was carrying on with the work when she suddenly appeared wearing a very revealing nightie. She asked me if I'd like to go to her bedroom. I could see she was very nervous, bless her, but I obligied. She said it had been about seven years since she had "had any" and it didn't last long as we were both very excited. She was a bit of a prude at first but she seems to have come out of her shell and she now like's doing allsorts of stuff! I used the 'pull out' method the first time and for the past two months I have used condoms. The other day, we ran out of condoms so I was going to pull out. Just as I was going to, she thrusted her self on to me and I came inside her. She said that I shouldn't worry as she's sterilised and can't get pregnant. Why has she left it this long to tell me that? Could she be lying? I've asked her and she said that she just didn't tell me and that now the sex will be more fun. What do you think?
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (26 March 2009):
"Could she be lying?" YES! YES she could!!! People lie all the time dude.The most important reason to keep using condoms is STD's. Studies/reports show growing percentage of women in their late 30's-40's are contracting STI's/ STD'sShe hasn't had sex in years(7) now she's started having it with you. If she's anything like the middle aged women I've met she is probably a lot more confident and assured of her sexuality know that she has gotten older. She's going to realize she's missed out on cock for the last 7 years and there is a high possibility that she's not only getting her floor worked on by you but also the pool and lawn by whomever else.(sorry)Middle aged people often feel as if they are passed the time when they can get STD's or simply missed out on a lot of the education that younger generations are exposed to regarding STI's/ STD'sGood luck stay safe.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 March 2009):
She could have not told you that because it's a lot less rude than saying "well you were hardly hard to get into bed, young man, so you are probably swimming with disease."
She was being sensible and also building up the trust so you wouldn't think she was dirty for not using them, and also you wouldn't think she was a crazy broody lady after sperm.
I'd continue to use condoms to be fair.
It's safer for both of you, and the durex ones are just as fun as anything else.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 March 2009):
 I would continue to wear condoms! She could be lying however at her age it wouldn't be unusual to be sterilised! Stay safe and keep a condom on, even if she is sterelised she could still have sti's! X
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