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writes:What do you do about a man who is absolutely perfect in every way; kind, attentive, romantic, intelligent, everything really, but who says he doesn't do relationships because he is selfish and loves himself too much? I get the impression he's had bad experiences possibly with women moving in on him too quickly and taking away his individual space. Is there anything I can do? I really like him. Reply to this Question
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reader, ErinPatterson  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 let it go. If he likes you he will come around. At least he khows how you feel.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 March 2009):
Hahahaha, what a show off.
"I'm a lone wolf baby, it's just me, my motorbike, my dashing good looks and the moon..."
Jesus, does he wear his hair in a 1950's style and wear a leather jacket? I picture him wearing sunglasses at night and chewing on a toothpick.
It's no wonder you fancy him:
He's a massive stereotype
He's a challenge
He probably just needs a couple of cuddles and then he will want to marry you (well, that's how the book would end any way)
Tell him it's a shame because you would have rocked his world, and if he ever gets over himself then he should give you a call.
The disappear from his life.
If you lower your standards by having physical contact with him when he's told you he won't be your boyfriend, then he WILL lose respect for you.
If you call his bluff on it then he may realise that being full of himself is no substitute for all the fun you could have together.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Just keep your distance slightly. If you want a commitment then end it here because you're not going to get one, you cat change a persons mind if they feel strongly on something.x
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