Do we have to wait 2 more weeks before we find out if she is pregnant?
Q. My gf and I had sex a couple of times without protection in the last couple of days.. i didnt cum in her ...i withdrew and cummed outside...that im sure off... but i know i should have used a condom but now im kinda scared! she is gona take the ...
A. 9 April 2009: I got that statistic from Wiki - and I followed it up on the source with is a US government study so I am happy to take that as being pretty much a fact.
In answer to how soon can you have an abortion:
The sooner the better.
If it's just a ... (read in full...)
Would this be too clingy?
Q. This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I ...
A. 6 April 2009: Well if you are just "seeing each other" every now and then then not talking a lot is going to be part of that.
It sounds like you want more, but to be honest, I think if he wanted more then he would be making more effort because he would WANT to ... (read in full...)
My bf is making me feel like crap sexually :-(
Q. My boyfriend of just over one year has been telling me for months that he thinks I am cheating on him because my "p*ssy feels different and stretched out like I have been f*cking n***ers". He has also then become upset with me when I become more ...
A. 6 April 2009: You are not over sensitive, your boyfriend is treating you like crap.
I would not be with a guy who spoke to me like that and was so paranoid and insulting to me.
Is this kind of treatment all you really think you deserve?
Any man who tre... (read in full...)
Texting while Sexing?
Q. Yesterday when my friend and I were having sex, he got a text message. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one while I was giving him head. I stopped. He got it, and was answering it, and look...
A. 6 April 2009: This isn't over thinking. This is you being upset by something. Plain and simple.
Don't text him back. Don't talk to him for a while and let him know that you are not going to stay with a man who upsets you and then won't make it up to you.
... (read in full...)
Texting while Sexing?
Q. Yesterday when my friend and I were having sex, he got a text message. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one while I was giving him head. I stopped. He got it, and was answering it, and look...
A. 6 April 2009: Well you don't have to dump him, just let him know in no uncertain terms that if he wants his penis to remain attached to the rest of them then he will NEVER disrespect you in that way again.
Just start the conversation in a calm voice saying "... (read in full...)
Texting while Sexing?
Q. Yesterday when my friend and I were having sex, he got a text message. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one while I was giving him head. I stopped. He got it, and was answering it, and look...
A. 6 April 2009: Next time he wants to have sex with you just tell him to turn his phone off, it's only an hour for god's sake.
Personally I agree with your girlfriend.
I would have walked out the minute he stopped having sex to answer his first message.
... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my mother again after all this time?
Q. I am 27 years old and have not spoken to my mother since I was 16. She married my step father when I was 10 and he began molesting me shortly there after. After 6 years of molestation and rape I finally found the nerve to tell my mother what was ...
A. 6 April 2009: I am so glad you went and even though I feared this is what would happen I am glad you kept your cool.
It sounds like you have some kind of closure on this now, even if it's not the happy ending you may have hoped for.
You have found that blood... (read in full...)
How can I lose weight fast without losing my boobs?
Q. Help! How can I lose weight fast without losing my boobs? Hi I'm 13 and a size 10 dress size, I'm 8.4 stone im a 36DD and I'm happy with my boobs so I don't want to make them any smaller. I feel self-conscious about my weight, im not massivly ...
A. 5 April 2009: If you are a size 10 then you are not fat, and also... how the hell do you get 36DD's into a size 10?
I'm that size and I'm a 12 on a good day.
If you want to tone up then do some yoga, but to be honest, if you have boobs that are THAT big at ... (read in full...)
He only came to watch telly!!!!!
Q. I've been out with a few dates with an old flame and on the third date we ended up kissing and we ended up sleeping together. A couple of days after this I went on holiday for a week. When I got back he came round for the evening and we watched tele ...
A. 5 April 2009: I think he just wants to be friends.
Possibly friends that have lots of no commitment sex but friends none the less.
If you want him back then tell him.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does her grabbing me mean that she wants sex from me???
Q. Me and my girlfreind were in the basement on the couch snuggled under a blanket watching a movie... later on she started making out with - I really liked it... but five minutes into the tongue action, she grabbed and felt on my penis.. I kinda ...
A. 5 April 2009: No it does not mean sex at all.
She just wanted to do something to please you and thought that you may be ready to start working towards your first hand job.
Talk to her about it and tell her that you really like her and you weren't rejectin... (read in full...)
Foreign girls verses the local girls.
Q. Where I live the guys mostly like foreign girls and not the local girls. Where does that leave the local girls? If guys only want the foreign girls....
A. 5 April 2009: Move abroad - then you'll be the hot foreign girl!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Any suggestion on tattoos and poems?
Q. Hi, im looking to get a tattoo in memory of my brother and sister who were stillborn. i want a poem but cant seem to find any.. does anyone know of any good ones?! x x x x x x thank you...
A. 5 April 2009:
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the ... (read in full...)
My ex b/f lost his virginity just after we broke up
Q. Okay, I Broke up with my Boyfriend a few months ago. I'm not sure if i still have feelings for him. But he lost his virginity right after we broke up. So does that mean he's lying or he had no feelings for me. I don't know whether im hurt he done it ...
A. 5 April 2009: It's called rebound. He went out and wanted to prove that he could have a girl if he wanted. You dumped him and hurt him so he did this to make himself feel better.
You split up with him so he can do anything he wants unfortunately and you aren... (read in full...)
What do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay???
Q. Oh man!!- im still in shock!! what do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay??? Well that's what happened do me, i knew "D" since kindergarten, so it's been 8 years-we're really close friends and ...
A. 5 April 2009: Well it's not like he's been lying about this and has known since you two were in the sand box at playschool.
The poor kid has probably only just started having these feelings and he's scared to death that everyone is going to hate him and his ... (read in full...)
What should we do to let my bf's mother to agree for him to come over without her getting mad at him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other every single weekend since the end of January. He lives about 45 minutes away. Anyway, Well, he was supposed to come over today, I asked my parents and they said yes and we could go pick him up and take...
A. 5 April 2009: He could ask WHY he's not allowed to go.
She doesn't just pull yes and no answers out of the air, so he should sit her down and talk to her like an adult about why she isn't happy about this.
As for you, I know you are young and a week feels... (read in full...)
He is not ready for engagement!!!
Q. i met my boyfriend through a friend nearly two years ago. he had been in a carnival in America a yr prior to me meeting him and had married an American girl with a 2 yr old son. they married in court and he then moved in with her he knew her 3 mont...
A. 5 April 2009: Well you can't blame the guy for being scared of marriage after rushing into last time.
You've only been together for about a year from what I can see so give it time.
After you've been together for a bit longer and he knows this feeling of ... (read in full...)
I found my soul mate. Should I tell him or just leave it at that for now?
Q. I found my soul mate, but he is leaving my program for good. I won't see him anymore. I was thinking of telling him, but I'm afraid it will change things. Oh by the way, I'm 26 years old and he is 20 years old. Tomorrow will be the last time I w...
A. 5 April 2009: Well I wouldn't go up to him and tell him that you are his soulmate and want to get married and have children RIGHT NOW!!!
That's a bit scary.
I think you should just go up and say you'd really like to keep seeing him and give him your number ... (read in full...)
We are "together" without the titles!
Q. I was set up with a guy (by my dad of all people) and we hit it off immediately. Now, 8 months later we are still "together without the titles" and he always says he is not looking for anything serious. However, we have sex. I feel like we're just ...
A. 5 April 2009: Tell him you are too close and you don't want to go back to how it was.
If he's not willing to give you more then you should call it quits.
From the sounds of it, he doesn't want a girlfriend, just someone to hang out with and have sex with an... (read in full...)
We are considering a structured open relationship. Good or bad idea?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years and I just broke up because I can't see him sexually and have no sexual attraction to him. After a few days of being miserable, we talked and he said he was willing to consider a structured open relationship, which is what I ...
A. 5 April 2009: I actually think that open relationships can work to a certain extent...
But I don't really think it will work in your case.
He is going to feel like his heart has been ripped out the first time he even thinks you've had sex with someone els... (read in full...)
Do we have to wait 2 more weeks before we find out if she is pregnant?
Q. My gf and I had sex a couple of times without protection in the last couple of days.. i didnt cum in her ...i withdrew and cummed outside...that im sure off... but i know i should have used a condom but now im kinda scared! she is gona take the ...
A. 5 April 2009: Well get the morning after pill and you should be ok.
After that then yes you may have to wait a couple of weeks to find out.
If she is more than a few days late then you can take a test.
The withdrawal method of contraception (what's wh... (read in full...)
One night stand problems!
Q. This is going to sound really really bad, but I really need some advice. I go to college and the other week Ii had a one night stand with this guy. I always thought he was good looking, but never really liked him, but I was really really drunk an...
A. 5 April 2009: Glad to hear about the condoms and that you are going to stop drinking.
When you see him just act as though he's someone you know.
Smile if he makes eye contact and keep walking.
You are going to get over him since you know he's an idiot s... (read in full...)
One night stand problems!
Q. This is going to sound really really bad, but I really need some advice. I go to college and the other week Ii had a one night stand with this guy. I always thought he was good looking, but never really liked him, but I was really really drunk an...
A. 5 April 2009: Hun, you have to be pretty strong in your own mind to have one night stands and from what you say, I don't think you are there yet.
The first thing you need to do is STOP DRINKING! I know it's rubbish but just give it up for a few weeks till thi... (read in full...)
Career choices..not sure what to do but need money!
Q. I guess I need career decision help. Ok here it goes.. back in September I fell ill and was hospitalized for a week and went thru numerous tests and such..turned to try and find out what happended to me. I became unemployed due to they amount of ...
A. 5 April 2009: The nursing course is definitely a priority if you know that nursing is the job for you and there is work out there for nurses.
So until then, you have to hope that the unemployment comes through but expect it not to.
Go out tomorrow and fin... (read in full...)
Questions about eating and diet.
Q. I have recently been doing a health promotion campaign on body image, which focuses on anorexia, bulimia and obesity. I have mainly focused on bulimia and have researched a lot about it. I have been on a diet since the end of xmas and have lost 2 s...
A. 5 April 2009: Really, I've been reading a lot on setting fire to things and fund how INCREDIBLY DANGEROUS IT IS, so I decided to take it up.
Are you actually serious that your campaign on how bad eating disorders are inspired you to start throwing up? If so th... (read in full...)
We are "together" without the titles!
Q. I was set up with a guy (by my dad of all people) and we hit it off immediately. Now, 8 months later we are still "together without the titles" and he always says he is not looking for anything serious. However, we have sex. I feel like we're just ...
A. 5 April 2009: Yep and as long as you keep having sex with him then you will NEVER get him to be a proper boyfriend.
The longer you let this go on for the less and less respect he will have for you.
If you want a boyfriend then stop having sex with this gu... (read in full...)
Sleeping with someone else even though you still care for another?
Q. Do you think and it is totally in people's right to sleep with someone else when you've broken up from someone after 6 months and they've tried and tried contacting you to sort things out but you've ignored them cos you had to sort yourself out. And ...
A. 5 April 2009: Hang on.... so you were broken up and you slept with someone else and then got back with him.... Or the other way round?
What you did when you were both apart is really none of the other one's business.
If you were in love or not it doesn't r... (read in full...)
No one seems to take an interest in my studies and it upsets me!
Q. I am doing a degree in social sciences, all my family and my partner have all taken medical related degrees. None of my partner or my family show any interest in my studies at all, or what i want to do with it. in fact a lot of the time I get the ...
A. 5 April 2009: Have you thought that they may be trying to talk about the only thing they have in common with your partner for YOUR sake?
Just start telling them about something else in your life or change the subject and tell them that it's boring.
Just te... (read in full...)
Have we all met "the one" yet?
Q. hi people. i just want to know and i really need to know for sure. in life each and everyone of us meets ¨the one¨. the one is who were to be with and love forever. how do we know if we have met the one or not? because if we miss our chance at the ...
A. 5 April 2009: Wow you are overdramatic.
You can always find someone new to be happy with.
No one person is your "last chance at happiness" or the human race would have died out.
If you have doubts about someone you can stick it out or go for something ... (read in full...)
$30.00 too much?
Q. just a quick question. its one of my friends birthdays in a couple of days, i don't see him very often but speak to him every day so i'm going to send him his present. i've got him a book and some silly things for his car and was going to send him ...
A. 5 April 2009: The only people who should send cash in the post are ancient grannys who don't understand your taste.
Send him the gifts and leave it at that.
Money as a gift always looks bad unless you KNOW the person sending it would have messed up and bo... (read in full...)
Will they still operate?
Q. I'm having an operation tomorrow, and i'm feeling really ill. my temperature is 39 degrees celcius, i'm feverish and achy, will i still be able to go ahead with it or will the doctors refuse to operate, how can i make myself better...
A. 5 April 2009: You have to speak to your doctors on the day.
But if you have a fever and the operation is one where you will be one where you are prone to infection then yes they may refuse the operate.
If it's an ingrowing toenail then you are probably ok.... (read in full...)
Does he want to break up with me but doesn't know how?
Q. ok...so im 17 about to turn 18 and i have been seeing this same guy on and off for two years. the thing is we have never met. i met him in a chat room and we instantly hit it off. we haven't broken up in over a year so im thinking things are goin...
A. 5 April 2009: But you still have no idea what's going on in 98% of his life.
This will happen again.
Are you sure you can cope with a relationship when you get so worried you come on problem page sites just because he hasn't called you for a week?
I still... (read in full...)
Am I right to dump my long term partner?
Q. do you think i am right for dumping my long term partner over this? i hardly get to speak to friends as this guy is very paranoid and constantly thinks im up to something so i did everything to make him happy. once i done this we lived together ...
A. 5 April 2009: The often say that it's the people who cheat who are the most paranoid.
I really think this guy is not right in the head if he hardly lets you out of his sight and then when you do get to go out he can only last a matter of hours before finding ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend denies having a girlfriend to other girls. But always tells me he loves me. why?
Q. Hey! I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. This is our first ever serious relationship and didn't expect to turn out to be one either! We told each other we loved each other a couple of months ago and have recently just moved in together temporarily until ...
A. 5 April 2009: He thinks that by saying "ok I won't go on bebo again" will just shut you up and fix the problem.
I don't think he's quite understood that you weren't bothered that he was talking to girls you were bothered that he said you were "doing his tits... (read in full...)
How do I find a partner with similar sexual interests?
Q. Here is a description of my current situation. I am 25 year old male with an almost insatiable sex drive and am very experimental/adventurous (for example, I am into BDSM, fetishes, etc). In my past relationships I felt connected to my partner in ...
A. 5 April 2009: They do exist, they just don't come on the internet very much to talk about their problems because they are busy out having fun.
I would advise you to keep dating, and just flirt a lot more earlier on and drop some clues.
Talk about how you di... (read in full...)
Boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A""
Q. One morning(7:30), my boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A". I had a major HUGE test (3 hours) that day and it will determine if I'd graduate from high school that day. It totally threw me off. Anyways, I didn't know what to do....
A. 5 April 2009: I'm not going to tell you to break up with him but I am going to tell you to stop being so awkward about everything and actually say "What are you on about?"
Your boyfriend should not be going through your phone and he should not be telling ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not exciting enough for my boyfriend!!
Q. We are both in college and have been seeing each other for a month now but I feel like he thinks I am boring because I don't really party and smoke like he does. I like to party once in a while but not every weekend like he does. He has a lot of f...
A. 4 April 2009: Not everyone likes partying.
He can have his life and you can have yours. If he called you it was just because he missed you and wanted you to be with him.
He's not going to think you are boring.
I mean I bet you wake him up at 8am to co... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him, give him space or try to talk it out?
Q. Aunts! I'm in desperate need of help, I don't know what to do and I'm making myself sick about it. I got in a huuuuuuge fight with my boyfriend last night. We were out at a club watching a friends band play, and he was acting like an asshole to me. ...
A. 4 April 2009: Well if you are determined that it's all your fault then just apologise and carry on the same.
Try not to get so hysterical in future.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex and find another boyfriend?
Q. I'm nineteen and my ex is eighteen. Four months ago, he and I broke up after a terrible two-year relationship. He physically and mentally abused me and then decided to cheat on me (with a chick he has become friends with benefits with). Anyway, just...
A. 4 April 2009: Well we can't tell you anything here if you keep going back to him.
You can't quit anything if you keep doing it.
Until you take control of this situation and stop having sex with him then you won't be able to get over him.
As for getting ... (read in full...)
What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me
Q. What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me and a guy I really like, and I don't know what I should do in this situation? I am in love with a male pal for the past 1-2 years and he knows this since I had told him at Chri...
A. 4 April 2009: Right, he liked her, she likes him.
Just because you want him to be with you, doesn't mean this is any of your business.
Neither of them seem to know what they want. They are both denying everything about eachother and can you really blame the... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him, give him space or try to talk it out?
Q. Aunts! I'm in desperate need of help, I don't know what to do and I'm making myself sick about it. I got in a huuuuuuge fight with my boyfriend last night. We were out at a club watching a friends band play, and he was acting like an asshole to me. ...
A. 4 April 2009: No, I'm sorry, he does not have an argument here.
You were upset because he was an arse. He can't just say "well it's pointless" and turn over and ignore you.
When he gets home say that you are sorry if you were not able to talk last night ... (read in full...)
Out of town students put down my home town
Q. i am 20 years old,i was put to this very prestigious school where everywhere comes from a different city and i was the only local,and since its a small town the students used to put this city down and i wasn't ready to accept that i am from here and ...
A. 4 April 2009: Well just carry on lying then.
You will get found out at some point and you'll look even worse but that's the risk you take.
Travel in the holidays and find out where you WANT to live in the world and then you can talk about that instead.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend denies having a girlfriend to other girls. But always tells me he loves me. why?
Q. Hey! I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. This is our first ever serious relationship and didn't expect to turn out to be one either! We told each other we loved each other a couple of months ago and have recently just moved in together temporarily until ...
A. 4 April 2009: I think it's very sad but you have found that he doesn't actually respect you and will never be the man he claimed to be.
Dump him.
Tell him that you logged onto bebo and it went onto his mailbox. I don't think you'll need to say any more tha... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him, give him space or try to talk it out?
Q. Aunts! I'm in desperate need of help, I don't know what to do and I'm making myself sick about it. I got in a huuuuuuge fight with my boyfriend last night. We were out at a club watching a friends band play, and he was acting like an asshole to me. ...
A. 4 April 2009: So you were crying and having anxiety attacks and he was more worried about his sleep.
Wow he obviously REALLY cares about you!
Dump him.
If he gave stuff about you then he would have stayed up all night to work things out, not just tho... (read in full...)
Does he want to break up with me but doesn't know how?
Q. ok...so im 17 about to turn 18 and i have been seeing this same guy on and off for two years. the thing is we have never met. i met him in a chat room and we instantly hit it off. we haven't broken up in over a year so im thinking things are goin...
A. 4 April 2009: Sorry hun, but if you have never met then there is a good chance that he could be up to anything.
He could be in Disneyland with his wife and 3 kids.
I think you need to ask yourself if a guy on the internet is all you really want in a boyfri... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my mother again after all this time?
Q. I am 27 years old and have not spoken to my mother since I was 16. She married my step father when I was 10 and he began molesting me shortly there after. After 6 years of molestation and rape I finally found the nerve to tell my mother what was ...
A. 1 April 2009: I think if you don't see her and she dies then you will always wonder about whether it would have helped you to talk to her.
I would go, meet up with her. But do not expect ANYTHING from her.
She may still not be sorry, she may still think she ... (read in full...)
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