I'm just not sure what is going on, wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
Q. Well okay, first i thought i might be pregnant but i took a home test and it was negative.... 4 days later my period that was over due by 2 weeks started, that was about saturday midday, by money morning it was gone, there is nothing, it stopped.... ...
A. 8 June 2009: Glad it was nothing serious.
I thought it might have been a cyst or something really bad.
If you have question about your pills then try reading the leaflet that came with it or calling up the doc who prescribed them and ask him to explain i... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure what is going on, wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
Q. Well okay, first i thought i might be pregnant but i took a home test and it was negative.... 4 days later my period that was over due by 2 weeks started, that was about saturday midday, by money morning it was gone, there is nothing, it stopped.... ...
A. 2 June 2009: Look, you have pain and weird bleeding.
Stop asking questions and see a doctor. It could well be not serious, but I am telling you that you are at risk of something that can kill you in the near future so get the hell off the internet and get to t... (read in full...)
I like my mate's girl and she likes me! What do I do?
Q. i really need some advice. i have fallen in love with my friends girlfriend. They have been together 6 years. Ive liked her for a while now, and last week i was out drinking and i saw her out and we had both lost our friends so me and my fr...
A. 1 June 2009: Well if he treats her like crap then go for it!
Tell her to dump him and then get with you!
If he really cared about her then he's treat her better so she needs to dump him.
Then you can give it a bit of time, talk to him and tell him you ... (read in full...)
Views of success
Q. This isn't much of a relationship question, but I'm asking it more along the lines of what people's opinions are about it. If your daughter's dreams were to: -Graduate from High school early -Marry the man of her dreams (who supports and loves ...
A. 1 June 2009: I would support the graduating early and the marriage and definitely college but not the baby.
Baby and career do not mix. They make everything SO MUCH harder.
Go and read the recent question about a girl complaining at being sacked because s... (read in full...)
Pill, period and pregnancy?
Q. I had unprotected sex with my ex on saturday night, i have been taking the pill but went away and forgot to take it on thursday or friday and saturday morning. I took it again when i got home sunday morning. I woke up this morning and had my perio...
A. 1 June 2009: When you came off the pill for those 3 days, your body thought that it was time for your period and got your cycle all messed up.
If you have had a period then you should be ok.
However, you should make a habit of keeping an emergency pack o... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure what is going on, wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
Q. Well okay, first i thought i might be pregnant but i took a home test and it was negative.... 4 days later my period that was over due by 2 weeks started, that was about saturday midday, by money morning it was gone, there is nothing, it stopped.... ...
A. 1 June 2009: It could be an ectopic pregnancy.
That means you are pregnant but it is growing outside your womb.
This kind of thing can and WILL KILL YOU if left un checked.
See a doctor NOW. It doesn't have to be a gyno, it can be any doctor, it can be... (read in full...)
Every time I ask a girl out I just freeze!
Q. i'm 18 and single because every time i ask a girl out i just freeze, she then asks if i'm ok, so i lie to her and say "i'm fine, just forget it" and walk off, i feel like such a failure and it's tearing me apart on the inside, how can i be more ...
A. 1 June 2009: You've just got to do it once and then you'll be fine.
Do you have any female friends? If you could talk to them about this and get a girl's perspective on it all this could help you a lot.
You've just got to take a deep breath and say the word... (read in full...)
I am a guy, little blonde hairs on my belly make me uncomfortable at the pool, what should I do?
Q. Okay so im 15 and i have little blonde hairs on my belly. Like where guys have there happy trails and i use to not care but they are becoming to where you can see them bad (well to me) So does anyone else have this problem or know what to do. Please ...
A. 1 June 2009: Ok, some people have clearly read your question wrong and think you are a guy. Bless em.
I'm a girl and I have that too, but let me tell you something... so does every other woman in the world.
It's normal to get worried about this stuff and I... (read in full...)
I am female but very attracted to my best girlfriend, am I bi-sexual?
Q. so this is kinda hard to talk about but i kind of think im bi? im turnin 14 and i guess yu can say im kinda having feelings for my best friend,like i tend to stare at her constinly,and she kinda gets me horny. what should i do?...
A. 1 June 2009: Niki is wrong.
At your age your hormones are going crazy. They are making your body physically change and making you grow 2 foot taller. They are going to have some affect on your brain.
It's perfectly normal to be curious and get crushes on g... (read in full...)
What can I take/drink to put on weight in 2 months?
Q. okay so summers coming and im on to high school and i want to change. hears how i am now: im VERY shy, skinny and bony, unconfident, selfconscious, NOT very popular, and i fall for guys too easily. i know that the only wayt o fix all of that is by ...
A. 1 June 2009: You say you don't want muscle just fat - you are wrong.
I know you don't want to be a body builder - no girl does.
But you should understand that muscle is what gives us girls our shape. Fat is not a good thing.
So what I suggest is buildi... (read in full...)
Why do some people get over a family death quickly and others take years?
Q. Hoping people will have insight here and thank all who answer. My friend and I are about the same age. I am a little older. I lost my dad when I was in my twenties. It was horrible, awful but I had to carry on. I grieved but had to get on with life, ...
A. 31 May 2009: Why do some people like brocoli and some don't? Why do some people get alergies and some don't?
Every one is different.
It's just life.
We all die some day.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What are the early signs of pregnancy?
Q. what are the very early i.e.1st or second week symptoms of pregnancy. ...
A. 31 May 2009: The main one is that your periods stop.
If you want to know if you are pregnant then take a test.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for your boyfriend to stay at another girl's house with his "brother"?
Q. Is it wrong for your boyfriend to stay at another girls house with his "brother" after a night out on the town?...
A. 31 May 2009: If it's on the sofa then yeah that's fine.
Get some trust in your relationship!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is admitting you are "scared" unattractive?
Q. Would most women think less of a man they were in a relationship with if he admitted he was truly scared or fearful of something that maybe the woman didn't find fearful? ...
A. 29 May 2009: No.
My husband does not like heights. I like to dance on cliff tops.
If there is a spider you won't see me for dust, where as he can just deal with it.
We all have our own fears and we all know they are stupid. It's just being human. If she... (read in full...)
Overwhelming sexual chemistry...should I do something about it?
Q. Is it strange to get in contact with someone you met at work a few months ago and found out they were interested in you but couldn't reciprocate because i was in a relationship at the time? A girl was doing some surveying at my company a couple...
A. 27 May 2009: Well the first thing to do is get single!!
Split up with your girlfriend, deal with the aftermath, get your head straight, get your ex completely fine and out of the picture and THEN and ONLY THEN call up this girl and tell her that you have bee... (read in full...)
Grilfriend physically cannot give head. Move on, wait, or accept it?
Q. Hey I have posted this question before but didn't explain enough so the advice I received wasn't particularly relevant. The problem I seem to have is that I am in a 5 month ongoing relationship- we are both 21 and I have never received head to...
A. 27 May 2009: Well if she is 21 then what does her mum have to do with whether she has the operation or not?
She could go through the whole thing without even telling her mum?
But ignoring that for now... (since surgery is a pretty risky thing to do ju... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want sex anymore!
Q. How can I get my husband sexual attention? He never wants sex. Should I keep trying to turn him on,or it just wasted time? What is the best thing to do,just dropp it,or keep innitiating? I feel,it is very strange, he wanted it before. What is going...
A. 27 May 2009: The most common cause of loss of sex drive is stress and or depression.
What is going on in his life at the moment?
I think you best bet is to talk to him about it and see how he feels. Then find out if there is anything to boost him up or ... (read in full...)
She knows something that has to do with me but she's hiding it!
Q. I babysat this girl when she was a toddler, I'm in my mid 20s and she's 18, we're going to the same college and she doesn't like the idea that guys around her age are interested in me...so there's this guy that I like and she kinda knows him, I ...
A. 27 May 2009: Well you can't blame her if all the boys only talk to her because they want to know about you. That's not a very nice feeling for her and you can't blame her for getting a little jealous.
I think you best bet is to do something nice for her and ... (read in full...)
I scared and there's something not "normal" in my room
Q. okay so this is very akward for me to ask help on. So lately i've been feeling weird things.(i do not have any disorders nor am i on drugs) it only happens when im in my room. I feel like im being watched i feel eyes on me..I get scared like i feel ...
A. 27 May 2009: It has been proven that a really low frequency noise can make people feel scared and see ghosts.
There was a scientist who was working in a lab, and none of the assistants would work in there at night because it was "haunted" and people swore th... (read in full...)
I told him the truth did he want me to lie?
Q. Good Morning all. well here it goes last night i met up with a guy we'd been texting and talking to eachother alot recently and i ended up really liking him and he did me. so we met up last night and went for a drive the thing was i am quite s...
A. 27 May 2009: Yes you hurt him because he obviously wanted more, but by you saying you have nothing in common and that you wouldn't be able to bring yourself to kiss him.... well that is a pretty clear rejection.
If you don't click then you don't click. S... (read in full...)
Is there a relationship here?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about six almost seven years now. My problem is he has a job that requires him to be out of town for weeks at a time and then only gets 3 or 4 days home before he has to leave again. My problem is I don't know if I ...
A. 27 May 2009: Is he always going to be in this job?
If he is and you can't handle it then it's bad for him and you but fair enough. I am an army wife and I have days where I consider throwing in the towel because as you say, it's all the bad bits of being si... (read in full...)
He says I'm a cheat and I will cheat on him
Q. Im 22 and Ive been seeing this guy for a month now, even though i have a boyfriend, even though we both know its wrong, im willing to end it with my boyfriend for him, i know this has to be done as its not fair on him, then the new bloke went weird ...
A. 27 May 2009: Yep, looks like he was just enjoying the fact he'd found a girl to hang out with and have a bit of fun with.
The fact you are a cheat made him think you were just in it for fun too. He didn't expect you to want to get all serious with him.
... (read in full...)
Should I take another pill after having unprotected sex?
Q. hellpp! last night i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend..however, im on the pill, and tuesday (yesterday) i took my last pill. so today i stopped for the 7 day break (if your familiar with how the pill works.) should take an extra pill today...
A. 27 May 2009: No, you are fine, as long as you are taking the pill correctly then you should be protected.
If you have been on it for more than a month then you'll see it works by stopping you from producing eggs AS WELL AS making it impossible for them to ... (read in full...)
Like me? Or just toying with me?
Q. ok these this girl i met on face book and we started to txt each other and about 2 weeks of talking everyday i told her that i really like her and she said that she really likes me to and about a day or two later she said she was dreaming of me and ...
A. 27 May 2009: If you are never going to be able to meet her then what is the point of trying to have any kind of relationship with her online?
Just be her friend. Chat to her and then find a girlfriend in the real world.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Like me? Or just toying with me?
Q. ok these this girl i met on face book and we started to txt each other and about 2 weeks of talking everyday i told her that i really like her and she said that she really likes me to and about a day or two later she said she was dreaming of me and ...
A. 26 May 2009: Well ask her to meet you.
If it's only on facebook then she is only a pen pal. Don't let her mess with your head.
Meet her and if she is genuine then you will soon find out.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He's far away and on dating websites as single... what do I do?
Q. I have been married to a great guy for two years. He is in the military and is overseas right now.I have a trust issue, and I am very concerned about several things;He is addicted to pornsites,has posted on singles sites as available,has sexual ...
A. 26 May 2009: The dreams are not an issue. He can't control them.
The porn is something you can overlook as long as it's not affecting your sex life when you get back. While he is away, just let him get on with it.
Not being able to talk to you is something he... (read in full...)
She's harming herself after the breakup of her relationship! Help!!
Q. A friend of mine's boyfriend just broke up with her. She's been very depressed since. I've been trying to help her(talking to her, trying to make her laugh), but nothing seems to be working. She's started to cut herself and I feel it's my fault ...
A. 26 May 2009: If she is harming herself then she has gone beyond break up blues. She is clinically depressed and needs medical help.
Get her to see her doctor.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He's sweet and lovely and caring... and cheating on his girlfriend with me.
Q. I'm in a bit of a mess... I met a man through one of my male friends. He has a girlfriend of 2months. He has text me day and night for the past week and a half and even when she is there with him he does it, he seems so caring and nice espcially i...
A. 26 May 2009: Sorry hun, texting, talking, kissing and offering to drive an hour is really really not that much work if it means hot sex.
It's costing him a lot less to do it this way than pay a prostitute, plus he gets the thrill of the chase and lots of flirt... (read in full...)
Possible miscarriage? Brown slimey stuff!
Q. please help! i finished my period last week. A couple days later i started to discharge dark brown slimy stuff. I dont know what it is. I just keeps coming out and i dont know if it is a possible miscarriage or what?? someone please help MOD NO...
A. 26 May 2009: Listen to Army Medic and go to the doctor.
He knows his stuff!
Don't wait!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Hurt, my husband has left. Was it the porn or his family?
Q. I feel so hurt because my husband stopped loving me. And what hurts the most is that we have children together. I told him it was his porn or us meaning his family. And I want to know was I wrong to make him decide porn or us?he is using me and I ...
A. 26 May 2009: You seem very quick to make this his fault.
You gave him an ultimatum and he chose.
Leave him to get his head together and then he will get in touch with you in time. In the mean time think practically about how you are going to live as a sin... (read in full...)
Was she controlling, acting like my mum, or just a bit of a bully?
Q. My ex girlfriend and I dated for 4 months. She ended things, and now I am wondering if she was a control freak ? And if I am better off without her? The relationship started off all good and fun, but by the end of the second month when I was taking ...
A. 26 May 2009: She was just acting the way she obviously thought a girlfriend should act.
Her mum probably looked after her dad a bit like that so she thought it was her job to look after you.
She thought it was her role to make sure you ate neatly and your ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he take pictures of me?
Q. Does anyone have a spouse or lover who will not photograph them? My husband has never took my picture unless I mention it to him. I know he took pictures of girlfriends he had before me because I've seen them. He still has them. Yet, unless I ...
A. 26 May 2009: Not everyone thinks of photos as a way to document their life.
They just see them at photos!
If you are taking it personally then TELL HIM. He obviously doesn't know it's hurting you he's just being dim.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Was I molested or raped?
Q. When i was a little kid around 7 or so my brother (around 10) would force me and my younger cousin to engage in sexual activity with him. i knew it was wrong but i was young and didnt know what to do. so i would tell him no and after a while he ...
A. 26 May 2009: What you suffered as a child was indeed abuse. it is up to you whether you tell anyone about this but you may find it really helps you to get help.
Check out local helplines or survivors groups.
Your boyfriend was just coming on to you... wak... (read in full...)
It's been 2 days and no text! What do I do next?
Q. So I met a guy, had an amazing first date, ended with a kiss and a promise to see each other again. Before I'd even got home, had a message saying how the enjoyed themselves etc etc. Had a text every morning and throughout the day for the next few ...
A. 26 May 2009: Give it a few days. You don't want to come across as all "WHY HAVEN'T YOU TEXTED ME TO DISCUSS NAMING THE CHILDREN!!!!!!"
You could text him just at random to remind him that you exist though.
Something like "Hey bored and mass texting. Talk to... (read in full...)
Does a towel work as a contraceptive?
Q. Me and this guy hooked up wich was a total mistake, but i was wondering if you can get pregnant if he pulls out and cums and then after uses a towel continue having sex....
A. 26 May 2009: Yes you could well be pregnant. You are at risk from the precum and all the sperm he failed to wipe off with the towel.
Get the morning after pill if it was within 72 hours. While you are there get some condoms and next time USE THEM!
Good Lu... (read in full...)
My mum thinks my boyfriend is abusive but I want to move closer to him
Q. okay my family LOVED my boyfriend up until we had a massive argument and I told my mum everything that he's done (he's not done anything abusive, but he does small things like reads my texts, hacks my email, reads my msn history, doesn't let me talk ...
A. 26 May 2009: Sorry but normal people do not hack your emails and forbid you from speaking to people.
Normal guys do not tell you that you cannot do anything.
Your boyfriend is a bad one. If he cared about you then he wouldn't do these things because i... (read in full...)
Dating more than one person at a time? Bad?
Q. I would like some opinions from you guys on how you feel about dating more than one person at the same time... I know there may be cultural differences here - I think in the US it is pretty normal for people to date a few people until one become...
A. 26 May 2009: Well as you say, you are British and we don't do things that way.
Basically if you want to date lots of people at the same you have to be open and honest with those guys.
Tell them up front that you are not looking for an exclusive thing ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?
Q. is it possible to fall in love with someone u have never met but just spoken on the phone constantly probably a year ...
A. 26 May 2009: No.
We had a question from a girl on here a little while ago.
She'd been talking online and then by text and then by phone for ever and ever to this guy.
They FINALLY met up. She felt absolutely NOTHING for him more than friendship although... (read in full...)
Handsome boyfriend and lustfull female colleagues!
Q. Hi guys, this happened at the weekend and I just want your thoughts. My bf and I went to his works do at the weekend and there were five women there that he works with. One of the lady managers had gotten quite drunk and every time she talked with ...
A. 26 May 2009: Just leave it.
Yes your boyfriend is gorgeous. But you could be going out with Brad Pitt and the only think that should matter is trust.
He doesn't want them. He wants you.
If you bring it up then what is he supposed to do? Quit his job? Sen... (read in full...)
How do I get over my boyfriend, he is all I've ever known
Q. Hi all. Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of 1 year. To put it simply, im devastated. In hindsight, the relationship was going downhill since christmas. I think maybe we got two comfortable with eachother, the spark was gone, we were more or less ...
A. 26 May 2009: The first thing you need to do is WANT to get over him.
You say you've been with him since you were 12 so you are in the habit now of feeling all bad and then you'll get back with him.
This time you have to put effort in to get over him and the... (read in full...)
Is there any hope for this marriage?
Q. Dear all i need your advice please 15 months have past since i found out about what my h/b had been up to in the 21 years of marriage(cheating,lying,)he has told me some details of the things he has done and i cant get over it.Things are ok for a...
A. 26 May 2009: I would leave.
If he had cheated etc and then was trying to make it work etc then maybe.
But the fact he's still lying and still treating you like crap and is VIOLENT....
Leave.
Get out into a place of your own and have a good think a... (read in full...)
Clueless when it comes to girls!
Q. hi everyone. this is a question about my friend when i was 16. she always liked talking to me, we always talked almost everyday, she got jealous when i talked to her cousin and we played this game where we love the other person than stuff we really ...
A. 26 May 2009: Well if she never met you then it is impossible to say. Girls sometimes think they have fallen in love with a guy on line and then meet him and feel nothing.
If you were such close friends why did you never ask her to meet you in the real world?
... (read in full...)
I need help to get this man out of my life!
Q. hi all, i posted a question on the 13th sex while i sleep. it is a long story and there is much more to it than that, but i tried again to end the relationship i was focused and 100% sure i was doing the right thing, but he asked me for sex one last ...
A. 26 May 2009: He knows how to manipulate you clearly.
So get some friends round and then tell him while they are in the room. He will know he cannot get away with anything with witnesses.
You can help him pack his stuff with your friends there the WHOLE ... (read in full...)
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