I'm just not sure what is going on, wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
Q. Well okay, first i thought i might be pregnant but i took a home test and it was negative.... 4 days later my period that was over due by 2 weeks started, that was about saturday midday, by money morning it was gone, there is nothing, it stopped.... ...
A. 8 June 2009: Glad it was nothing serious.
I thought it might have been a cyst or something really bad.
If you have question about your pills then try reading the leaflet that came with it or calling up the doc who prescribed them and ask him to explain i... (read in full...)
There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?
Q. i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some ...
A. 6 June 2009: Sorry if it wasn't what you wanted to hear, but I really think of you give it a go now then it's going to last a week until you get bored of putting up with his mistakes.
If you let him grow up and learn what he's doing then you guys could ha... (read in full...)
Guys, would this scare you?
Q. My boyfriend has a very large penis and intercourse has always been somewhat painful. A few time's i've even bled or had a vaginal tear. I don't think he's ever noticed how painful it is for me and i've never expressed it to him. today was the firs...
A. 6 June 2009: I wasn't meaning to have a go at you.
He's not going to be scared to touch you or be put off sex with you, he's just going to know how to please you better by slowing down a bit and maybe using a bit of lubrication when you start to get a little s... (read in full...)
Been together for 7 years, quit his job 2 years ago and things have never been the same since then
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for more than seven years. We started out as really close friends in college. It's not a perfect relationshp but I'd say we're really both happy. It's near perfect until two years ago, he quit his job. Probably, that's ...
A. 5 June 2009: After 7 years you are going to miss him like hell, not because you love him but because he has been part of your life for so long.
Just because you care deeply for him, doesn't mean you are in love with him.
Do some serious thinking.
It ... (read in full...)
Been together for 7 years, quit his job 2 years ago and things have never been the same since then
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for more than seven years. We started out as really close friends in college. It's not a perfect relationshp but I'd say we're really both happy. It's near perfect until two years ago, he quit his job. Probably, that's ...
A. 5 June 2009: If it's been 2 YEARS of you trying to help him and support him and putting up with him being a rubbish boyfriend... then sweetheart you have done everything you could do and more.
You being there and suffering is obviously not helping him so my ad... (read in full...)
Lots of love but he's unwilling to get hitched
Q. I am in love with a man I have been living with for 2 years. We have been dating for 5 years before that. He is amazing, we never argue or fight, he is kind, loving , sexy and all the things I dreamed of. The only thing that he is not is the ...
A. 5 June 2009: Well it's a tough one. You've been with him a fair old while so he should really have some idea about whether he wants to spend his life with you or not.
This has to be your choice. How important is marriage to you? You don't say there are any ... (read in full...)
Unusual period and I'm wondering what it might mean
Q. I was wondering if someone could help me on the subject of periods. I'm normally regular, and on time every month. My periods aren't heavy and only last three or four days. So anyway i was due to start my period this week. I can always tell whe...
A. 5 June 2009: Your cycle may change from time to time.
We've had some very hot weather this month, so you may have been a bit more dehydrated than usual... all these little things can have an affect.
The fact that you bled on time, and it was just a bit s... (read in full...)
Am I being crazy unfair or just delusional?
Q. I am getting married shortly to a man with 3 children. The children do not live with him and all have different mothers but they visit all the time. I have one child who is at boarding school. I would like another child with my husband to be. I am ...
A. 5 June 2009: Cool, glad you took it in a the way that it was intended and are thinking about it.
Marriage is no longer a business transaction but it's always a good idea to keep your options firmly open in the back of your head.
Both parties have to ... (read in full...)
How can I get to be something my parents can be proud of?
Q. I am 19 years old and really miserable. I have been fat most of my life, and I am just sick and tired of it. people tell me all the time that im stunning, but I dont buy it. I am so self conscious that Im terrified to leave the house because i ...
A. 5 June 2009: Hun, I think you need to worry less about being slim and more about your mental state... you have parents who love you, a boyfriend, and yet you are SCARED TO LEAVE THE HOUSE???
You don't say how much you weigh but I would put money on the fact... (read in full...)
Do I have to take the pill at exactly the same time every day?
Q. I've been on birth control pills for the past 2 months and for the first couple weeks, I was doing good about taking them at the same exact time every day, at 4pm. But, the past few weeks or so, I've taken them around the same time between 4-5 but ...
A. 5 June 2009: Read the instructions that come with them.
Some need to be taken within 3 hours each day, some within 6.
As long as you try your hardest to take it within the same hour every day you should be fine.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I need help making an important decision. Is Scotland better than the US?
Q. I have to make a life altering decision. I have to decide whether or not to stay in my home state and finish my education or start afresh abroad in Scotland. I am an aspiring filmmaker and I think Scotland will offer more artistic outlets...
A. 5 June 2009: Scotland is lovely, I am there next week.
But it's not the film makers paradise that you think it is. Most of the time it's wet and freezing. You will need a job to support yourself and for that you need a degree.
Lock Ness is not going to dry... (read in full...)
Is it normal to expect satisfaction from married sex?
Q. I am getting married soon. My fiancee is divorced and I have always been single. She is also almost 2 years older to me. I have very high desire to have sex. She does let me love her not the way I want. My question is : Is it not my right to seek ...
A. 5 June 2009: This is hard to take in but if you two cannot please each other then don't get married.
Sex IS a big part of married life.
Read all the questions from people who are considering divorce because they cannot get satisfaction.
It is not your ... (read in full...)
Guys, would this scare you?
Q. My boyfriend has a very large penis and intercourse has always been somewhat painful. A few time's i've even bled or had a vaginal tear. I don't think he's ever noticed how painful it is for me and i've never expressed it to him. today was the firs...
A. 5 June 2009: Yes, he'll be horrified that you've been lying and pretending to enjoy it.
He's going to feel awful.
So tell him why you felt you had to put his pleasure over yours. Do you have low self esteem? Do you think sex is the only way to get a man to ... (read in full...)
Ex wife wont leave us alone!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months and we are as happy as can be. Everything is great except for his ex wife. They have a child together and he is a wonderful dad. We get his 7 year old daughter nearly every weekend and he is ...
A. 5 June 2009: Well think of it from her side. He's gone off and left her and got a new girlfriend. She has a job and a child to raise. She's going to be bitter for a fair old while.
He is doing the right thing by just telling her to call about their daughter... (read in full...)
Am I not over my ex yet?
Q. I've been single now for about six months after a pretty bad break-up with a guy who was emotionally abusive. Well, the other day, I was getting into the mood and about to hook-up with a guy I've known for a couple years now. We also only really ...
A. 5 June 2009: Well unfortunately you are never going to be able to wipe him from your mind completely. I still have things that remind me of my ex and we split up years and years ago.
What you can do it not let it get to you so much. I don't think you have qui... (read in full...)
Should I leave him so he can be with his daughter?
Q. Hey just need some advice on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and the problem is his babymother. He has his daughter cause his baby mother had her for 2 yrs and she was out the out state, so she finally brang her to him cause he ...
A. 5 June 2009: Well to be honest it's not your problem. It's his, if you love him and he loves you then you just have to stand and watch him deal with it.
He can go through the courts to get access to the child.
She can't blackmail him into a relationship wit... (read in full...)
There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?
Q. i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some ...
A. 5 June 2009: If you find him pretty to look at then do just that.
Look at him as though he's a piece of art, a cute little puppy or something like that.
Then in a few years when he is older, more mature and ready to date then go for it.
If you get to k... (read in full...)
"I'm sorry I fell for you..."
Q. If a guy left a message on the phone and ended it with: "I'm sorry I fell for you..." how would that make you feel?...
A. 5 June 2009: This is a silly question and will not get you the answers you want with out telling us YOUR specific problem.
But you asked how it would make me feel.
Well I'm married and would have told him that so it's his own bloody stupid fault if he star... (read in full...)
How do I keep a relationship going in order for it to become a success?
Q. My problem is getting girls and keeping them, but i am 43 years old and was once engaged but that was nineteen years ago. my mother died in 90 and 3 months later my fiance finished with me, i went off the rails for a few years but just as things ...
A. 5 June 2009: Well there is no "Way to act in a relationship."
If you think there is then that is where you are going on.
You are just you, she is just her. You are together because you work well and have feelings for eachother. If you "act" in a certain way... (read in full...)
Dating for a year, need ideas for a gift for him?
Q. me and my boyfriend been going out a year in june and hes ciming down to see me i dont know what to get him any ideas?...
A. 5 June 2009: Well do that then.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?
Q. I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using ...
A. 5 June 2009: We understand that you are so weak that you are feeling bad for saying a few mean words here but this is the advice and you seem to not be getting it.
It doesn't matter what you said to him. Because he is not worth your worry. If you are worried ... (read in full...)
Dating for a year, need ideas for a gift for him?
Q. me and my boyfriend been going out a year in june and hes ciming down to see me i dont know what to get him any ideas?...
A. 4 June 2009: A ferarri!
A bar of chocolate!
A ferret!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Would texting a woman be classified as cheating?
Q. My fiance has treated me like crap for 4 months RUDE!!! I caught him texting a girl from work now that he's caught, he's being really nice and things are back to normal, I don't know what to think. In my book Texting another female and hiding it is ...
A. 4 June 2009: Well depends what he was talking about. If they were just friends then they were just friends.
If not then either:
a) forgive him and forget it and move on
or
b) dump him.
Your choice!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My husband shows me no affection or attention, says he has animosity towards me, what do I do?
Q. My Husband told me he has animosity towards me. He hasnt touched me in months. Weve been together for 8yrs with no kids, except from past marriages. i havent been able to find work in 6months and he accusses me of not trying that i want to live off ...
A. 4 June 2009: Well if he's supporting you and you have put on a LOT of weigh then yes, he may not feel very happy to be married to you at this point.
Following him round making him feel guilty is not going to help. Give him some space and tell him you are arou... (read in full...)
Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?
Q. I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using ...
A. 4 June 2009: Well if I am a man, and I have done hurtful things, then I must not give a crap about her anyway.
So she can scream all she wants, it won't bother me.
Then 2 months of begging and making it up to me.... well since I was in the wrong and she is... (read in full...)
Am I being crazy unfair or just delusional?
Q. I am getting married shortly to a man with 3 children. The children do not live with him and all have different mothers but they visit all the time. I have one child who is at boarding school. I would like another child with my husband to be. I am ...
A. 4 June 2009: Well it seems you are willing to pay him for a baby. You can't blame him for not wanting to. He must feel pretty much like a sperm bank at the moment. What else are you going to bribe him for in the future?
Since he has a pretty clear history ... (read in full...)
He reads his e-mails! What does this mean?
Q. I split up with my ex, he dumped me, very ugly terms ( he is a mummy's boy who used to badmouth his mum to me, led me on for years, and I bursted it all out to his mum, to find out from her he was badmouthing me to HER as well!) anyway, long ugly ...
A. 4 June 2009: I think the real question is why are you still cyber stalking him?
Why are you not out getting a life instead of emailing him and then checking up to see what he's up to?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He cheated, we got engaged. Then I cheated but he doesn't know!
Q. I need help, i am 22 years old and i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend/fiance since highschool (6 yrs) he was my first everything. I was so in love with him, I thought we'd be together forever, but the last few months have been rocky for ...
A. 3 June 2009: You have to tell him.
This relationship has hit so many rocks that the last thing you need now is more lies.
Tell him, call off the engagement (It was a stupid idea out of desperation on both sides) and then just talk like adults and start... (read in full...)
Her family doesn't like me. She's avoiding me. Do I break up with her?
Q. Hi,i'm 22 of age i being in the r/ship 2 and half years after 1 and half years we had sex and to find out she was a virgin after talkin about it to have sex in our r/ship we had it ones.After that all changed our r/ship,she came busy with r/ship,no ...
A. 3 June 2009: If she has stopped contacting you then it seems that she wants to break up but is too cowardly to say so.
Stop talking to her and leave her alone.
Once she has grown up and stops being so scared of her family then she may come back to you.
... (read in full...)
I feel inferior to my boyfriend because of his popular social life
Q. this may sound very stupid but i feel inferior to my boyfriend in terms of friends and social life. my boyfriend is the kind of guy everyone likes- he's friendly, funny and confident and can hang out with anyone in our grade. the thing is that i'm ...
A. 3 June 2009: There are some people that I have to admit I know as "Dave's Girlfriend."
You know her, you like her, she is always there... but you haven't quite crossed the line into counting her as a friend.
So you just invite him to things knowing that he ... (read in full...)
Messing eachother about forever - should I tell him I want to be an "us"?
Q. Its been hard for me the past 3 months. i met this guy not too long ago, but we've been chillin every day and every hour of the day. hes soo confusing like, when its us 2 or other people we chill too, hes the nicest person i can think of for that ...
A. 3 June 2009: Wait till you next have a moment and then ask him how he feels about you.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Any tips on masturbation?
Q. I'm an 18-year-old virgin, and I'm bored w/ masterbating, haha. any fun ways to make it more exciting/better feeling?...
A. 3 June 2009: Find a girl/boyfriend?
Then you can have her do some things to you and that's got to be a good thing.
Either that or stop pleasuring yourself in a dark room and get outside and have some fun with your friends instead.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Her vagina smells! What do I do?
Q. Help! I have been dating this girl for 3 months now and we are starting to get sexual. The only problem is her vagina kinda stanks. How do i tell her or what do i do???...
A. 3 June 2009: When you say it smells, do you mean a LOT, or just a bit.
All girls have some natural smell down there, especially when we are turned on. It varies with time of the month so you could have got her on a bad day.
Much as we like to make you thin... (read in full...)
Should I be honest that I don't know how I feel?
Q. He knows I am the One but I don't know if he is. I like him and I want to continue to be with him but is it ok to tell him that when he asks me if he's the one and if I could see myself having children with him? Is it ok to say "I don't know" or ...
A. 3 June 2009: I get the impression that he has fancied you for a fair bit of that 1.5 years. So now he has you, he thinks he's home and dry and is planning the kids names.
As for whether you should be honest... it's a tough one. What ever you say is going to... (read in full...)
I really liked him, thought he likes me - but he's married!!!
Q. hi hope someone can offer their advice. i work with a guy and have only known him since february. since he joined and especially over the last 2 monts i have found myself physically and mentally attracted to him. he chats to me all the time and we ...
A. 3 June 2009: I don't care if he was forced at gun point to marry this other woman... he chose to have un protected sex with her and have a child.
Even if you are cold enough to be able to steal another woman's man.... are you capable of taking a child's ... (read in full...)
She's confused about her ex, and taking time to decide what she wants. But what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend was so much in love with me when we started our relationship that she lost her virginity to me, and we are about 4months into the relationship. her ex bf who she was with for almost 3years and who is presently about 10hours away from ...
A. 3 June 2009: So is she going to pick the guy who says "I love you, come back to me! I'd treat you well and try really hard."
or you. The guy who says "i actually do love and care about her alot, althou i try not to show it too much to her and i also havent t... (read in full...)
He got another woman pregnant, we have no trust, I'm second to his son... do I leave?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years on and off. during our off period of 6 months he got another woman pregnant, he did not tell me until we had been back together for three months, by that time the child was 2wks old. I feel very ...
A. 3 June 2009: I'm not seeing any reason why you are still there.
Are you scared of change? Are you not a big fan of packing?
Neither are good reasons to stay in a relationship that clearly should have finished a good few years ago.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Teen boy wants sex, scared he'll be a virgin forever!
Q. Hi im a 14 year old guy and im scared that i wont lose my viginity! my best mate has already and iv come close and i kind of thought scince the last relationship another one would've revealed itself and nothing has! im wondering if it will for ages...
A. 3 June 2009: Burnt feet has got it right.
Just because you haven't found an underage girl who is willing to have cheap sex, doesn't mean that in a few years time when you have grown up and figured out a few things that you won't find someone.
Life is a rol... (read in full...)
Is it right that american girls do oral sex easily ?
Q. I am french, so please excuse my english which is not very good. I have heard that in USA, american girls do oral sex (blowjobs) easily, it's not a big thing for them. To make love with them may be hard, but to be sucked may be easy. Is that...
A. 3 June 2009: Oh come on... we all know that all French girls are beautiful, wear channel jumpers and little berets and wear red lip stick...
Is that why they don't like giving oral sex? Because it smudges the lipstick?
I think generalisations ... (read in full...)
How to tell kids their mother isn't coming back?
Q. I have bin holding this off but how do you tell a 9 and a 3 year old their mother left them and is not coming back. I realized I should tell them when I was writing my last question...
A. 3 June 2009: If you are 13 to 15 then YOU do not tell them.
You get the adult who is looking after them to tell them. You an be there with them but you are too young to deal with this big an issue.
If you are not 13 to 15 then do what Gina said.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Please help me gain some weight!!
Q. Hello. I want to gain a few pounds about 10 or 15 but I do not know where to buy a powder that I can drink every day and gain weight. I don't want protein shakes such as boost or ensure, I just want a powder you pour into milk or water or whatever ...
A. 3 June 2009: Just go to your local health food shop and ask them!
Of if you don't want to spend all that money you can just buy a big bag of peanuts as they will do exactly the same thing at half the cost.
Or you can eat lots of eggs. Scramble them an... (read in full...)
Comments or opinions on planned teen pregnancy
Q. My bf and I have been together for about 11 months. He is 17, and I'm 16. Ever since my cousin got pregnant at 18 I've wanted to be a young mum. This came up in conversation with my bf and he has said he wants to be a young dad as well, which I ...
A. 3 June 2009: Ok, if you have a baby at 18 you'll be rid of it at 38.
So before you have this child then you need qualifications that mean you can go back to work in a few years time. Money does not grow on trees and kids get VERY expensive as they grow old... (read in full...)
Would this be considered cheating or unfaithfull?
Q. Well over the weekend my husband and his co-workers threw a retirement/55th B-day party for his work friend "Corey" that they threw at the beach. We had games,alcohol,food and all the typical beach party gear.When we were playing volleyball on a few ...
A. 3 June 2009: Well since you were "asleep" it's not really the act of cheating... but you are having some dangerous thoughts there.
Do the smart thing, keep this labelled "silly fantasy" in your mind rather than thinking it's a crush or connection or anything... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure what is going on, wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
Q. Well okay, first i thought i might be pregnant but i took a home test and it was negative.... 4 days later my period that was over due by 2 weeks started, that was about saturday midday, by money morning it was gone, there is nothing, it stopped.... ...
A. 2 June 2009: Look, you have pain and weird bleeding.
Stop asking questions and see a doctor. It could well be not serious, but I am telling you that you are at risk of something that can kill you in the near future so get the hell off the internet and get to t... (read in full...)
I like my mate's girl and she likes me! What do I do?
Q. i really need some advice. i have fallen in love with my friends girlfriend. They have been together 6 years. Ive liked her for a while now, and last week i was out drinking and i saw her out and we had both lost our friends so me and my fr...
A. 1 June 2009: Well if he treats her like crap then go for it!
Tell her to dump him and then get with you!
If he really cared about her then he's treat her better so she needs to dump him.
Then you can give it a bit of time, talk to him and tell him you ... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure what is going on, wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
Q. Well okay, first i thought i might be pregnant but i took a home test and it was negative.... 4 days later my period that was over due by 2 weeks started, that was about saturday midday, by money morning it was gone, there is nothing, it stopped.... ...
A. 1 June 2009: It could be an ectopic pregnancy.
That means you are pregnant but it is growing outside your womb.
This kind of thing can and WILL KILL YOU if left un checked.
See a doctor NOW. It doesn't have to be a gyno, it can be any doctor, it can be... (read in full...)
He reads his e-mails! What does this mean?
Q. I split up with my ex, he dumped me, very ugly terms ( he is a mummy's boy who used to badmouth his mum to me, led me on for years, and I bursted it all out to his mum, to find out from her he was badmouthing me to HER as well!) anyway, long ugly ...
A. 21 May 2009: Well he obviously has found a use for email other than speaking to you.
If he wanted to get in touch he would have done.
He read what you had to say, realised it wasn't really for him and ignored it.
Stop hanging around his inbox like a ... (read in full...)
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