Relationship needing help big time please....
Q. Hi me and my girlfriend split up a little over 1 week ago we moved really fast some people said we were mad the first night we met she never left (moved in) she lived with me for a little over 3 months but I have fallen in love with her so much. ...
A. 15 August 2009: It will push her away, but that is the point, she'll realise what she's lost when she no longer has you to tell her she's pretty and be her free self esteem boost.
The stronger you are about this, the more she will respect it. Don't get into a y... (read in full...)
Naked photos of women on my boyfriends phone and lack of sex are making me think he is just not that into me!
Q. about 6 months ago I found a naked photo of my boyfriends ex wife in his phone. We had been together about 6 years at this stage. He told me it was an old photo from years ago but his phone was only new - so either it was a new photo or he had ...
A. 14 August 2009: Well I don't know how much you value yourself but I wouldn't put up with that.
Why stay with a man who doesn't want you?
If I were you I'd tell him I'm thinking we should break up. If he makes effort to save the relationship then great, if h... (read in full...)
One of my ex-girlfriends keeps trying to get back with me because she thinks I took her virginity, but did I?
Q. One of my ex-girlfriends keeps trying to get back into my life because she keeps claiming that we are destined to be together because I took her virginity. But I really don't think that what I did with her really counted. Sure, we had all sorts of ...
A. 14 August 2009: Your penis went in her vagina.
If you met a girl who said she was a virgin and then said, "oh well, he did stick it in me but he wasn't incredibly in the mood at the time, and it was a bit small so it didn't go in very far...." would you still th... (read in full...)
What are some activities we could do in bed for the weekend?
Q. I have been seeing a great guy. he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away. Is he inviting me to staying in bed all weekend? what are some activities we could do in bed for weekend? ...
A. 14 August 2009: Well do you know where the b and b is?
If so then get online and have a look at what is around!!
Unless you only want him for sex, then arrange some romantic things you can both do. Check out restaurants and local towns to explore.
Why... (read in full...)
Relationship needing help big time please....
Q. Hi me and my girlfriend split up a little over 1 week ago we moved really fast some people said we were mad the first night we met she never left (moved in) she lived with me for a little over 3 months but I have fallen in love with her so much. ...
A. 14 August 2009: I'll give you the same advice I give EVERYONE who wants to be more than sex-friends.
IT WILL NOT WORK.
She wants to go out and have sex with other men. She just wants to keep you around because she likes you and you are a good plan B in case s... (read in full...)
I've seen my crush in a different light!
Q. I am not to sure what to think, I quite like this guy I work with and we flirt a lot and we were on a works night out last night and one of the girls I worked with got with another bloke and they were the talk of the office today. The guy I like ...
A. 14 August 2009: Well we are very different people in the work place to who we are really.
He HAS to act nice and be professional when really he could be a total arse hole.
You now know that he is going to be crude about sex and if you do get with him then he... (read in full...)
How to celerate 2 years of togetherness
Q. me and my boyfriend are goin into 2 yrs in our relationship next friday,any advice on how i could make it special for us ...
A. 14 August 2009: Take him to Paris for the weekend.
You haven't told us anything about you and him or what budget you have so I'll assume money isn't a problem.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing? I thought she wanted a relationship and then got with her friend, so I cut her out of my life!
Q. Hey it's me again guys after alot of months haha. Anyway I need help with something I need to know if I made the right decision. Anyway there was this girl who liked me and we flirted and even kissed! but then soon after she tells me she wasn't ...
A. 14 August 2009: Well if she wants to be with you and you want to be with her, then why are you refusing to talk to her?
You are being very childish.
Either you want to move on because you got hurt by her flirting, or you want to give her a second chance.
... (read in full...)
We arrange to meet, and she always cancels. How can I make this date happen?
Q. thanks for reading! I have meet this really amazing Girl on the internet and she seems to be very shy.We have had some great conversations on the phone for hours at a time and when we talk its natural and nothing is forced and there isnt any odd ...
A. 14 August 2009: Have you asked her why she's scared of meeting you?
Tell her that you REALLY want to meet her but you don't want to keep getting your hopes up and getting hurt when she changes her mind.
Be honest, don't play games, just tell her you are gett... (read in full...)
My husband keeps suggesting that I find a boyfriend to have sex with. Is this normal in a marriage?
Q. I'm not sure if I am in the minority or not but here goes. I am a sexually frustrated wife. I have been married for over 17 yrs. with kids. My husband has suggested to me over many years that I find a boyfriend that can keep up with me. Is there ...
A. 14 August 2009: Sounds like he feels really badly about the fact that he's not satisfying you.
He feels like he's not man enough so he tries to hide his upset by saying macho stupid statements like "go and find someone else, see if I care!"
Do you let him know... (read in full...)
I've lost interest in my FWB but he doesn't want to end it! What do I do?
Q. I am a 24 yr old female and I have been in casual relationship with a guy older than i am for a little more than 3 years now. But during all this time, we never really shared any kind of bond except mindblowing sexual chemistry. Sex has always been ...
A. 13 August 2009: This Freind with benefits doesn't want to have a relationship with you so if you move on then it's his own stupid fault for being scared to call you his "girlfriend."
To be honest, if you do want a proper relationship with him, the BEST thing yo... (read in full...)
What do you do if someone is giving you the silent treatment?
Q. What do you do if someone is giving you the silent treatment? I have told them I will not contact them again as they obviously dont want to speak to me, and I know I must not break my word now that i have said that or i would look stupid. but what ...
A. 13 August 2009: Well you are giving them the silent treatment. You are both not talking.
If they come back and talk to you and you forgive each other for what ever it was that went wrong, then brilliant.
Either that or you can pretend to be 12 for the rest of ... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered that he didn't tell me he was going out?
Q. Ok, so I just talked to my boyfriend..as usual every morning before we both start our work day. He says, "yeah a buddy of mine called me to go out yesterday..(he's dating his sis/living together). Anyways, they went out and it ended up be...
A. 13 August 2009: So why are you bothered that he didn't call you to say he was going out?
You aren't his mum. He doesn't need your permission.
Does he call you to tell you he's having a poo?
He's a man, he has friends, he goes out, he drinks, he goes to th... (read in full...)
I'm single and I hate being alone at night :(
Q. I'm single, and I know I am only 15, but recently I have come to hate being alone at night. When I'm trying to fall asleep, I wish I had a guy or even a girl next to me, with their arms around me, holding me tight. Maybe I'm just idealizing having a ...
A. 13 August 2009: I used to feel exactly the same way.
You dream of being free from being trapped at home and having a wonderful person to hold you and make you happy.
You want to be held because you are lonely and probably quite depressed. Depression is al... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but I have feelings for a male friend!
Q. I have a girlfriend and I love her to bits but I also have feelings for one of my male friends who I think is gay, what should I do...
A. 13 August 2009: You do nothing.
You have a girlfriend. You DO NOT CHEAT.
If your feelings for him are stronger than the feelings you have for your girlfriend, then split up with your girlfriend and chat up your friend.
It's a risk because if he knocks you... (read in full...)
If I'm getting into a serious relationship I don't want cigarretes to be part of it!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have a good relationship, however when we first began dating he mentioned he smoked, i wasn't too happy about it (you might think i'm weird) but i don't like smokers, i hate cigarrets, the smell gets to me real bad that i feel ...
A. 13 August 2009: My husband smoked when I first met him.
I was upfront by saying that he stank and I didn't want him to be around me when he had been smoking.
I said that smoking was his choice and he could do it if he wanted, but he shouldn't expect to kiss m... (read in full...)
Will I still pass as a virgin when I get married even though I've had sex 3 times?
Q. had sex 3 times not planing on having sex for 2-3 years will i still pass off as a virgin when i get married? (all 3 times bled)...
A. 13 August 2009: You are not a virgin and should not lie to your husband about it.
If he loves you then he should not care about this.
If you are trapped by religion and family expectation then you should look into your options. There is lots of help out ther... (read in full...)
Our lack of sex is making me want an open relationship!
Q. Question 1: its been almost 20 months now and my boyfriend has followed a partern of only have sex with me every one to three months what does this mean and why Question 2: if my boyfriend is not having sex with me should i ask to have an open rel...
A. 13 August 2009: It probably means he does not have a high sex drive.
What does he say when you have spoken to him about it?
As for an open relationship, it is unlikely he would be happy with him.
You say you don't want to "ruin things" but if he doesn'... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't know that I found out about his cheating, what should I do?
Q. My husband tells me he loves me but he has been texting this lady since 2008 up until now. I see the number on the phone bill but he doesn't know I know. What should I do?...
A. 13 August 2009: So have you confronted him, told him you are not happy?
If so and he hasn't changed then you may have to consider leaving.
Sometimes, happiness is worth more than staying with a man you once loved.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Has anyone gotten pregnant by having sex 4 days before ovulation?
Q. Has anyone gotten pregnant by having sex 4 days before ovulation? My periods are regular 28 day cycle. I had unprotected sex with my husband August 2, and late night on the 3rd. I tested for ovulation on August 6th but I was not ovulatiing. August ...
A. 9 August 2009: Well it takes 3 days for the sperm to get up there so it might have worked and it might not. You have a good chance but it's impossible to say for sure and you really shouldn't torture yourself with "well the internet said I will be pregnant!!!" and ... (read in full...)
He still hasn't phoned. Is there something wrong with us?
Q. Hey My boyfriend texted me last night saying "Do you think were working x" i was in tears , Later that night he phoned me up and said im sorry i took it out on you my friend from collage has died . I was abit happy to hear this news but i also fel...
A. 9 August 2009: Bloody hell woman, he's just lost a friend, and you are here moaning because he hasn't phoned you in 24 hours.
Give the poor guy a break. Let him have a his space and stop thinking that this must automatically be about you.
Let him do his thing... (read in full...)
I fear he may leave me for someone younger, should I marry him anyway?
Q. I am with a man who is 17 years my senior. This has no so far been a problem for us but as the relationship gets more serious (we are going to get married next year) I keep thinking that he will leave me for a younger woman when I get a little ...
A. 9 August 2009: No one can tell the future. He may cheat on you in 10 years time.... but then you might run off with the 97 year old milk man when he wins the euro millions.
This guy has said he wants to stand up in front of friends, family, the law, and God (if ... (read in full...)
How long should you wait before dating a friends ex?
Q. how long is it until it is ok to go out with a friends ex, if ever? we are in love and both want2 know how long we should leave it before getting together....
A. 9 August 2009: Depends how he felt about her.
Your best bet is to talk to him, man to man, tell him you've been chatting to her and you really like her but you've not done anything because of him.
See what he says.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
A man 20 years my junior is interested, what to do?
Q. i am 40 and a guy of 21 is interested in me, what should i do...
A. 9 August 2009: If you like him and wants the same thing that he wants (just sex or a relationship) then go for it.
If you don't like him then let him down gently.
If you like him but he just wants sex and you want a boyfriend then tell him to bugger off.
I... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a hard time opening up to me... how do I approach this subject with him?
Q. So I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. I like him and he seems to really like me but a few things concern me. He is very quiet and seems to have trouble opening up. I have tried to get him to open up but he doesn't say much. I ...
A. 9 August 2009: What do you need him to open up about?
Just ask him questions about that issue.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I know my guy friend still likes me, so how can I make him jealous?
Q. My guy friend and I haven’t been talking. I texted him the other day saying that I heard he was going out with someone and he texted me back twice asking who I heard it from. I never answered him. I know that he’s not in a relationship! When I go to ...
A. 9 August 2009: I read this and all I could think of was WHYYYYYY?
Why would you go to this much planning and effort just to try and cause issues?
If you are pissed off with him and he's an ex boyfriend then move on.
If he's just a friend then either sort ... (read in full...)
I'm confused...would this be an incestuous relationship or not?
Q. Please help, im am seriously confused. My half brother has a half sister who i really like and who really likes me. my half brother and her have the same mother and i have the same father as him but not her. me and the girl do not have the same ...
A. 9 August 2009: I don't think it's actually illegal.
But just because you won't get arrested for it, doesn't mean it's a good idea.
It still going to cause issues in the family, and if it all goes horribly wrong then you're going to have to see her a LOT af... (read in full...)
Boyfriend trying to change me too much?
Q. Hi, I just wanted to share some concerns I have about my 3 year relationship. About a year and a half into our relationship my boyfriend started trying to change little things about me. For instance, he decided he really didn't like my reddish/b...
A. 9 August 2009: Why are you so scared of losing him?
You have to ask yourself this. Yes you love him but that doesn't mean that you will stop breathing and / or be hit by lightning if you can't be with him.
I know the thought of giving him up after all this t... (read in full...)
Two cultures...one wedding! How do we do this?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for six years and five months today. We're actually getting married in exactly seven months but we STILL have not compromised on a theme to the wedding. He's Mexican-American and I'm Irish-American and we want to ...
A. 9 August 2009: Well you are both American, so it can't be that hard.
As far as I know, Irish weddings are just pretty much bog standard church affairs and then a MASSIVE piss up afterwards. Like a Scottish wedding but without the dancing.
Why not have a very ... (read in full...)
Girls: WHAT are the signs that a girl wants a guy to approach her?
Q. girls: WHAT are the signs that a girl wants a guy to approach her? help me out here! is there a general sign or does it depend on the person? and do girls want guys that they've just seen to approach them?...
A. 9 August 2009: Eye contact, or a smile is the main one.
If you have the confidence to go up to a girl and start chatting then do it, but keep it casual. Give them your number and ask them to give you a text some time.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend wants advice on his current girlfriend...
Q. Ex boyfriend is now confiding in me things with his current beau aren't going well. they have been together four months she is nice quiet and kind of cold (his words) Apparently she isn't affectionate and he is wondering whether he needs to stay ...
A. 9 August 2009: Sounds like he just wants a female friend's opinion.
Tell him that as his ex, you really don't want to be involved and suggest someone else he could speak to.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does he not find me attractive enough?
Q. Hi. I have been with my husband for over three years, married to him for just over six months, and in this time he has only been able to get to the over excited point of orgasm maybe three times in total..all of those times its been through oral ...
A. 9 August 2009: Why on earth did you marry this man???
You aren't his wife, you are his maid.
I think you need to wake up and get some self respect. Is this really all you think you are worth? Is this how you really want the rest of your life to be?
If you... (read in full...)
Saw my friend kissing the girl I wanted to date! I feel betrayed..what can I do?
Q. There's this girl that i really really like right and my mate said he'd help me with her because I'm quite shy when it comes to relationships. But all of a sudden, he doesn't want anything to do with it and told me shes seeing someone. Then I saw ...
A. 9 August 2009: Wow, that was pretty low of your mate.
But what this shows you is that being shy and hiding behind your fears just doesn't work.
You need to shape up mentally and start talking to people and learn how to act confidently.
It's not rocket... (read in full...)
I have feelings for him that go deeper then friendship..should I tell him?
Q. I have been seeing an amazing guy for a couple months now but it’s become more of a friend with benefits relationship then anything else. We are both totally comfortable with each other and could just sit and talk for hours but at the same time ...
A. 9 August 2009: You shouldn't be worried about you losing him... it's him that's messing you about so you need to make him see that he is going to lose YOU.
He's being useless and indecisive so you have to take control of the situation and make him see how he's... (read in full...)
Could this be an STD?
Q. Hi Well i last my only sexual experience in may... and till now everything is fine... But now there is a small buldge near my scrotum and im scared what to do... i mean i used a condom and everything and even went to the doctor in May and ev...
A. 9 August 2009: Well if you've been to your doctor then why should you be ashamed of going to another doctor?
The GUM clinics are nothing to be worried about. It's just like any other doctors surgery.
If your doc says it's fine then it's probably fine bu... (read in full...)
I need help?! My dad stares at my breasts and down there, is this normal?
Q. ok hi my parents are divorced and my dad likes looks at me at lot 2 times i saw him looking at mt breasts and he always hugs me and if he sees that i have make up on he tells me im beautiful without it and i also saw him stare at me a lot and once ...
A. 9 August 2009: Unfortunately all dads are also men.
He's probably just noticing how much you are growing up and turning into a woman now.
As for hugging you and tell you that you are beautiful... well that is just normal. You are his little princess and he ... (read in full...)
Will puberty ever happen for me?
Q. i am 17 years old short, hair no where except my head i do not see no sign of puberty ...am i ever going to go through it?...
A. 9 August 2009: Talk to your Dad about it. It's all genetic so if he tells you that he grew a foot when he was 19 and suddenly had more hair than he knew what to do with, then you're fine.
If he had already been through it all by your age then you might want to ... (read in full...)
I feel like I've got nothing to show for my teen years! How can I change this?
Q. In a few months i'm going to be 17, and i just can't shake the feeling that i have wasted the prime of my teen years. I've only ever had a gf for like 2 months, only kissed one girl, have barely been to any parties or stuff like that. I go out like ...
A. 9 August 2009: Yeah, films and games will often make it seem like 13 is the new 21.
Why do you think we have so many underage pregnancies now?
The fact is that being a teen is when you WANT to do al this stuff but can't.
Life gets interesting in your 20's... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is infertile... is there away for us to have a child together?
Q. my botfriend is sterile. hes 24, im 39. weve been together for 4 and a half yrs. how can he go about having a child? he doesnt want me to be artificialed inceminated. is there any way to get his sperm cell count back? i dont know why hes ...
A. 9 August 2009: These are questions that only a doctor can answer.
Go and see one and get your boyfriend checked out.
If you want a child though, you are facing your biological clock.
You may have to decide which is more important to you: Having a child, ... (read in full...)
The girl I slept with is pregnant but the condom didn't split. How else could she be pregnant?
Q. i have had protected sex but the girl has become pregnant and i dont think the condom split are there anny other ways she became pregnant?...
A. 8 August 2009: It didn't need to split WIDE open.
It only needs a tiny tiny hole in it for a few sperm to slip through.
If she keeps the baby then ask for a DNA test to make sure it is yours. You will have to pay for it but it will be worth it.
Once you ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?
Q. I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...
A. 8 August 2009: Wow, you really want to give your first time to a guy who just wants you for a casual shag every now and then?
Classy!
Why can't you wait until you have a boyfriend, have someone who actually cares about your feelings and will put some romance... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom I went through a phase where I watched porn, just incase she finds out?
Q. Right big problem! im 17, 18 at the start of next year. I used to watch porn ALOT! i went threw a big phase , was totally addicted. I fele so dirty about it now, becuase i feel liek its a man thing, even though i know other women do it. Iv...
A. 8 August 2009: If you have computer problems a lot it's because you don't know how to do basic maintainance.
Find out how to:
Do a scan disk, defragment, delete your history, delete your cookies, delete your saved searches, empty your recycle bin, delete your... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't know that I found out about his cheating, what should I do?
Q. My husband tells me he loves me but he has been texting this lady since 2008 up until now. I see the number on the phone bill but he doesn't know I know. What should I do?...
A. 29 July 2009: Ask him who the number is on the bill.
If he comes clean then tell him you don't like it and want it to stop.
If he lies then call the number and ask her what their relationship is.
Take action!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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