He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?
Q. hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from ...
A. 16 December 2008: I'm sorry sweetie but I think I've given you all the help I can.
If it gets to the point where you can't cope any more then you may need to end the relationship as it's not very good for your mental health.
He'll be home for Christmas surely... (read in full...)
My best friend keeps asking me out, I've rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone.
Q. My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working.I really don't want to hurt his feelings. Any ideas?...
A. 29 September 2008: Being nice and sweet is what any girl would do and it JUST DOESN'T WORK.
You have to tell him that if he doesn't stop asking you out and trying it on with you then you don't want to see him any more as a friend.
You have to be cruel to be kind... (read in full...)
My bf is insisting I give up my chat room friends!
Q. ok.. so here's the problem.. my boyfriend and I fight all the time! one of things that we are constantly arguing about is the fact that i like chat rooms and all that stuff.. he wants me to give up msn and my chat room and leave all the f...
A. 29 September 2008: What does he do in the evening to relax? Does he have an xbox?
Well if he wants you to give up something you do for an hour to relax then make him give up he does.
Fair's Fair!
Either that or tell him to organise something for you to do ... (read in full...)
What dress should I wear for homecoming?
Q. Hi everyone i am 14 and i am a freshman in highschool or homecoming dance is in a few weeks i was wondering what kind of dress to wear i dont know if i should wear like a sundress or a fancy dress or what. (I have a dress from last year from my 8th ...
A. 29 September 2008: This one is english so no good to buy from but ideas aplenty:
asos.com
Purple was huge on the catwalks in Paris London and Milan, as were checks and tartan.
Have a wander round the shops, find the dress you want, then get on ebay and f... (read in full...)
What should I do about my friend's boyfriend?
Q. My friends boyfriend is sexually attracted to me and i dont know what to do? ...
A. 29 September 2008: Ignore him.
It's his problem if he's attracted to you.
If he makes a move on you then tell your friend. If he doesn't then just treat him as normal.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
When's the earliest for me to tell from some sign that I could be pregnant?
Q. Me and my bf have been having unprotective sex once, twice, or more a day, for almost 3 months.. how many days is the earliest for me to tell from some sign that i could be pregnant? -Michelle...
A. 29 September 2008: Missing your period is the best sign.
Or you could just buy pregnancy tests.
You can get tests that tell you when you are at your most fertile, have tonnes of sex then if you are having trouble.
Also take folic acid if you have been on the ... (read in full...)
How do I do the right thing and remain understanding?
Q. Hi, ive been living with my boyfriend for a year and he is seperated but not divorced from his ex wife. He pays her a huge amount of 'child' support every month and we know that she doesnt spend it all on the kids. She kept the house which is real ...
A. 29 September 2008: This is a matter for the family court, not a bunch of people on the internet.
If she is working full time and has not lost anything by marrying her husband career wise then he owes her nothing and she must pay to help support the kids. If she gave... (read in full...)
What would you do if you caught your partner cheating on you?
Q. What would you do if you caught girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on you ...
A. 29 September 2008: If I was 13 to 15 like you then I'd probably cry and scream and go home and be dramatic and then move on in a week and never speak to them again but let every girl in school know that he's scum and should not be trusted.
If it happened to me now I... (read in full...)
Why did he ask me if I would marry him if he does not even want to date me?
Q. Hi, I am just looking for some advice with a guy I am seeing. I met him 4 months ago, I was 17 and he was 23. At first he was concerned about the age difference, but I turned 18 in August and I figured that would ease him a bit. I don't have ...
A. 29 September 2008: I think you have to get tough with him. Let him see what he can lose by acting like a flake and telling you that he "can't" have a girlfriend.
Sorry but that's crap. If he wants to be with you then he has no reason not to.
Tell him that... (read in full...)
She wants the relationship a secret and I don't. What now?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and I knew her for about 7 months before then. We get along really great and we really care about each other. I'm 25 and she's 21. Overall, I'm happy with how our relationship is but there is one thing ...
A. 29 September 2008: Why is it that "conservative" people wouldn't like you?
Do you have anti-bush slogans tattooed across your face?
The fact you have to agree to marry someone before they will be seen out in public with you strikes me as a bit odd.
I honest... (read in full...)
Should I tell him the truth?
Q. My boyfriend wants to be a writer when he finishes high school. He gave me a few pages to read and it was horrible. I let some of my friends read it too (without him knowing) and agree with me. He wants to know what I think, I just don't have the ...
A. 29 September 2008: Refer him to internet sites like livejournal.com where they have review communities.
In the mean time you will have to say something about how you feel about it.
Find one good thing about it. Is there a strong character, original plot li... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't wake me up to join him in bed at night, if I fell asleep somewhere else. I don't see why.
Q. I was just wondering what other peoples view on this is... When I go to bed at night, if my boyfriend has fallen asleep somewhere besides bed, I always wake him up to come join me in bed. Last night, I had kind of fallen asleeep on the couch. I...
A. 29 September 2008: If you are comfy and happy on the sofa, why would he prod you, wake you up, and force you to walk to a place where he can snore and lie on you?
He's leaving you there because you are asleep and comfy on the sofa.
It's very selfish to distu... (read in full...)
What did he mean by this 'spanking' message? Should I ask him about it?
Q. I was talking to a very intimate friend (possibly was a bf pref) early this morning we were casually flirting and sending pictures over msn, and just normal casual stuff, then he sent me a message saying oh yes send me that picture and i'll spank ...
A. 28 September 2008: Then perhaps you aren't the only one he's swapping photos with!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What do these suprise texts from my ex mean?
Q. I split with my ex 6 weeks ago as he went off wiv another girl. We had a big row about it cos I wanted him back and we were quite nasty to each other. Last week, Id had enough of rowing with him and just decided to be nice and friendly to keep the ...
A. 28 September 2008: Who knows what's going on in head.
He left you for someone else so he's going to be the kind of guy who plays mind games and has double standards.
Yes it's fine for him to cheat and go off and be single but when you seem to be happy he doesn't... (read in full...)
Moved to another state with my girlfriend.....now she wants to sleep with other men!!
Q. I came across this site and I hope I can get some help. I am in an open relationship and I don't know if I can handle it anymore. I agreed to this 11 months ago but now the emotion and love I have is much stronger. I moved with my gf to another ...
A. 28 September 2008: If she is accusing you of controlling her then it sounds like you aren't talking in the right way to each other.
Try talking to her about how you are feeling but don't tell her to stop or change, just tell her that you are feeling lonely and unha... (read in full...)
Why Is it that he´s ignoring me after so long?
Q. Well, I being keeping in touch with this military guy for a year and half. I met him in one of his duties before he left to Italy. I emailed him since and stayed in contact even when he was finally moved to the US on November 2007. Right now, he´...
A. 28 September 2008: He's in the military so he will move around a LOT at short notice.
He could be anywhere right now, posted to a place with no internet yet, on a last minute holiday with his mates, or in a ditch in a field somewhere doing training.
Get on with y... (read in full...)
I need legal advice
Q. I have just recently separated from my husband. This was my decision as I caught him being unfaithful for the third time. We have a child together and I remain in our home which we both own. My husband is paying me a sum of money per week towards ...
A. 28 September 2008: Threaten him with divorce. He knows that is going to cost him more as it's going to be his fault the marriage ended.
Once he gets told you have found a solicitor and will only speak to him through them, then he may suddenly come around to the fact... (read in full...)
My psychologist wants me to go out on a date, as I never have had that experience before. The problem is that I have a boyfriend who lives in another state....
Q. When I went to my pshycologist today, she told me that I need to go on a date with someone. She doesn't care if he becomes my boyfriend, she just thinks that the experience of going on a date with someone would help me, because I've never had that ...
A. 28 September 2008: Ask your psychologist why she wants to put you under more stress by forcing you to cheat on your boyfriend?
Sounds like she's just clutching at straws because she's not treating you for anything specific.
Don't do anything you are not comforta... (read in full...)
What did he mean by this 'spanking' message? Should I ask him about it?
Q. I was talking to a very intimate friend (possibly was a bf pref) early this morning we were casually flirting and sending pictures over msn, and just normal casual stuff, then he sent me a message saying oh yes send me that picture and i'll spank ...
A. 28 September 2008: I think he meant that if you send him a picture of you then he's wank over it.
Romantic!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He's dating another girl because his friends want him too, but he wants me to wait for him. Should I?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke up like a week ago. he says it was cuz we argued to much and we did. but now he wants to be back with me but his friends want him to be with another girl and so he's confused an wants me to wait for him and her to break. ...
A. 28 September 2008: If he's so weak that he's willing to risk losing you like this or make stupid demands that you Wait for him to stop sleeping around then he is not worth your time.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He beats me, he cheats on me, he takes my money,but I'm lost in the mist of love..
Q. this guy and I have been dating for almost two years now. Its been a hard relationship I will admit. I gave my all I to this relationship and I feel so foolish at times when I actually take the time to think the "relationship" through. I did ...
A. 28 September 2008: What you did wrong is that you stayed with him when he did these things. You should have left as soon as he showed this behaviour.
How to move on is to carry on as you are. Listen to lots of strong happy music and you will feel better.
Yes you... (read in full...)
He looks at women constantly. Any advice apreciated...
Q. Hi... My husband and I have been together for nearly 3 yrs now.. our children are teenagers so we are not 'young chicks' as such. But he looks at women constantly (particularly blonde ladies as they are his preference) when we are out...so...
A. 28 September 2008: My advice is that you should never mention this again. This is a sub concious thing that he cannot control and he is right when he says that he doesn't even notice he's doing it.
He simply has an association that when he looks at a blonde woman, h... (read in full...)
Can Adult Friend Finder create a profile from information they find on the internet?
Q. I found out my boyfriend has a profile on Adult Friend Finder. When I comfronted him about this he said it was a mistake and that he never made one. He said that the adult friend finder site must have created it, but it has some of his ...
A. 28 September 2008: Websites like that cannot hack into your life and advertise you.
It's not in their interest to do that. Why would they make up profiles about people who you then can't meet for sex?
He lied for whatever reason.
How did you find him?
Goo... (read in full...)
He went too far or maybe comes off too strong? I don't know what to do!
Q. Seriously stuck. There's this guy who's been talking to me alot lately, just like 'hi' and the occasional flirting, i think he fancies me as he always asks if i've got a boyfriend and has commented on me being 'fit' and 'saucy minx'. He's also got ...
A. 27 September 2008: Blank him. Any man who doesn't even respect you enough to not try and molest you in public is someone you do not want to be around. This guy is pushing to see how far he can get, not to try and go out with you. Tell him to piss off. Good ... (read in full...)
I'm female and I've have had it hetrosexual relationships! So now I'm looking for a discreet gay guy who is looking for a 'wife'. Any suggestions?
Q. Hello everybody. I am looking for a discreet gay guy who is looking for a `wife`. Where do I start? I have `been there and done that` in many heterosexual relationships and want a partner who can be more of a great friend, caring, thoughtf...
A. 27 September 2008: Advertise in Gay Times? Or on the internet? Either that or move to America. They are still backward enough in some areas that people feel they have to hide their sexuality. I'm not going to ask why you need a husband rather than a friend or ... (read in full...)
Two girls. One's my ex-girlfriend, the other a girl who likes me, but I don't like her that way. What do I do? what does it mean?
Q. Ok, so here's the deal. About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. About two weeks ago, she was acting like nothing was wrong and was all touchy-feely to the extent that people have been asking if we were going back out. Its hard to just...
A. 27 September 2008: You need to talk to both of them and set them both straight. First the girl that fancies you. Take her to one side and talk to her. Tell her that although she's a lovely girl and you like her as a friend, you don't want a relationship and... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend an internet skank?
Q. My girlfriend and I occasionally chat to eachother when we are at our parent's houses via MSN, now I have about 10-15 girls on my MSN contacts list and when she found out she went nuts at me even tho all of them but her were blocked, she told me ...
A. 27 September 2008: I think it depends how long you have been going out. If it's only a few weeks then you may still be in the dating phase and she's keeping her options open. If it's longer than that or you have agreed that you are serious then yes this is not on. ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined my university life in the first week of freshers or can I recover?
Q. Ok... this isnt really a relationship question I know, but I still need any advice you can give me. I've just started University and I'm far away from home and my friends and everything. And I thought i would be ok, but I've gone a bit off the rail...
A. 27 September 2008: EVERYONE gets drunk and does stupid things at uni. Just take a breath and apologise to the girl who you betrayed. Learn from this mistake and don't drink so much next time and don't mix your drinks. Unis have loads of cheap drinks offers an... (read in full...)
I just wanna be able to live my life but my parents are being mean!
Q. My parents used to be so nice to be but now all they do is be mean and dont let me go out with girls because they do not trust me. Please help i just wanna live a normal 15 year old boys life going to partys and having fun like all my mates. :'( i ...
A. 27 September 2008: We've all been there pal. You just have to live by the rules and build up trust. Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He has a 9 o'clock curfew out on me, and treats me more like a daughter than a girlfriend!
Q. I just want people's opinions on my boyfriend and my relationship. I'm turning 22 and my BF of 3 years is turned 25 this year. We have lived at his Moms house the entire time. I have been helping out, by giving them money for a bill or two. Its to t...
A. 27 September 2008: Yeah this guy has problems and if you stay with him you will be a prisoner for ever. Leave him and have friends and fun. NO ONE should EVER tell you what you can and can't do. A real man wouldn't be so incredibly scared of losing you ... (read in full...)
My father loves my ex more than me!!
Q. I am a 51 year old woman, divorced with two adult children. My father and I have never been close, but the situation grew even more stressed after my divorce. He goes to great lenghts to keep me from coming to visit. He tells my children ...
A. 27 September 2008: I don't think you are crazy. I think your father is being horrible and I don't think he's going to change. For what ever reason, he has decided he doesn't want you. I would ask him straight why he is acting like this and why he seems to hate yo... (read in full...)
Should I move on or hold out?
Q. So my fiancee of five months and I decided that we were going to move in together and get married soon. The thing is, she had to use a ruse to get out of her mother's house (lots of issues between her and her mother) and, once her mom found out the ...
A. 27 September 2008: Hang on, when a 19 yearold woman is violently dragged into a car against her will and then kept prisoner in a house.... Isn't that kidnapping? Why don't you ring the police? Just because it is a blood relative committing the crime, that does... (read in full...)
We are back together, now he is acting like a jerk
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and I've been together for almost two years and we actually broke up for a few months earlier this year and I ended up dating someone else (which naturally creates tension when you go back to the original person). Now my boyfriend's ...
A. 27 September 2008: Unfortunately you are going to have to call his bluff on this. In his head he's got you back and yet he's still punishing you for hurting him. He's forgiven you on paper but he hasn't really and you need to get through to him that he needs to make... (read in full...)
I am smart and attractive but I freeze when I talk to girls, even my friend says I'm hopeless...
Q. i'm 23 and have never known any girls my age. i can't have a conversation with anyone of the opposite sex because i freeze up. i am smart and attractive but that doesn't seem to matter. even my friend said i'm hopeless and now i'm starting to think ...
A. 27 September 2008: Stop trying and get drunk. We girls are not an alien species, just have a drink and talk to a girl with no intentions of getting anywhere. Just talk to her about anything. Once you've done it once then you'll find it easier next time. Fac... (read in full...)
I have not had my period for two months, what could be wrong? I'm 13.
Q. I'm 13 years old, and have had my period since i was 11. I've never had sex before, but i haven't had my period for 2 months! What's wrong with me?...
A. 27 September 2008: It's probably nothing at your age, as they are still settling into a pattern and will be irregular. However, if in doubt it can never hurt to talk to the doctor. You could be underweight or something and it's better to check that nothing is ... (read in full...)
I don't know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around...
Q. I dont know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around. He said that he really likes me a lot. Everything was going fine last week, but now hes acting different. Last week he would call me every night. He even called me at 4am...
A. 27 September 2008: Well if you have only been going out for a couple of weeks and you are already having doubts then I think it may be better to end this sooner rather than later. I could understand if he didn't want to bring up his daughter until the 2nd or 3rd d... (read in full...)
He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?
Q. hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from ...
A. 27 September 2008: Sweetie, with everything you've said I really think you are just going to have to accept that yours is going to a long distance relationship for a while. If this relationship is for real and you really are planning to be in love with him for the... (read in full...)
Can a 37 year old and a 23 year old ever work?
Q. Am I too young for this man? He is 37, I am 23. Any successes or snafus to avoid? Would this deter him from making a move on me? ...
A. 27 September 2008: Avoid using the word snafu and you should be fine.
You're not exactly 13.
Get on with it!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
His left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly! He pushes it back, but I find this really worrying!
Q. Ok, my boyfriend just told me today that his left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly. He says this happened before when he had an erection and he just pushed it down back into his scrotum ,its been happening for the ...
A. 27 September 2008: If it's not causing problems or discomfort then it is probably fine - that's according to my medic husband.
If it does cause pain or problems then get him to see his GP to get it checked out.
But it could be just like some people can pop t... (read in full...)
What kind of message can I send him on Facebook to show him I really like him?
Q. So I met this guy and the youth club who taught us a masterclass in physical theatre, he runs his own theatre company. I really fancied him a lot. And I think he was flirting with me. I never got the chance to get his number or details. However, a ...
A. 27 September 2008: You are listed here as in your 20's therefore you do not need to be playing games on facebook like a 13 yearold.
Send him a message saying you really liked his class and would like to meet up some time.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm 16 years old and when I get an erection my foreskin won't retract.
Q. I'm 16 years old and when I get an erection my foreskin won't retract, although i have read articles i dont want to do the bath method, What else can help. Thanks...
A. 27 September 2008: I've asked the husband who has such things as a penis and he says to go and get checked out by your GP.
if you can't pull your foreskin back you can't clean under there and you could therefore get an infection.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I call and call and my calls aren't returned until days later. Maybe he's not in love with me as he says? How can I talk about this without seeming needy?
Q. Help. I'm not sure what this means. I've been with this guy for a while. Actually we have a very interesting history, we've known each other and have been great friends for many years. We've dated in the past. I love him very much and he has ...
A. 26 September 2008: Well, I have asked a man and he says that if he's ignoring you for a week at a time then he must feel he has more important things to do than phoning you.
It could be that he does want the whole future thing with you but not right now. As you say,... (read in full...)
He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?
Q. hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from ...
A. 26 September 2008: If you join up then you will definitely be separated, for years at a time. The army chooses where you go to. You don't get a choice in the matter. Plus you'll be miserable if you aren't joining the army for yourself.
Imagine 6 months in Afghanis... (read in full...)
He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?
Q. hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from ...
A. 9 September 2008: That's good point. If you don't want to get married straight away then you could find someone to rent a room from.
I'm sure there are other private soldiers who are married and could have a spare room. It might be a bit awkward if you were liv... (read in full...)
He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?
Q. hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from ...
A. 9 September 2008: I think you need parental permission to get married under 18, but that shouldn't be a problem.
When he gets deployed you can always come home and move back in with your parents so you are not alone.
I would just say to be very very careful bef... (read in full...)
He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?
Q. hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from ...
A. 1 September 2008: Marry him. Get a civil partnership and the army will pay for you to move out there and give you a house.
Either that of you need to go out on holiday and start job hunting. The army is banned from one or two resorts due to bars getting smashed ... (read in full...)
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