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writes:Ok I have a problem which some people might think is a waste of time but im really confused and i dont know how i feel. Theres this guy that i cant stop thinking about, I literally spend every second thinking about him and wishing we could be together..however when I see him i dont feel that attracted to him?However its not that i like his personality more because when i picture him i think hes gorgeous and have alot of sexual fantasies about him.And then when i see him i dont feel anything. What do you think is going on?Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut the thing is I do know him, hes one of my closest friends.
And he likes me too, he hasnt directly told me but he knows I know.
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reader, missindependant +, writes (1 October 2008):
 I think this is an over imagination and that you should forget about it and move on. Leave it alone as at the end of the day this guy finds out you might imbarress yourself. Get a grip! If you like someone else in future then make sure that you know that you feel something there when your around him and you think he likes you to. Then there may-be something. Sorry hun but I think this is a something over nothing.
I used to fancy sum1 and then when I was around him I realised I didn't actually feel anything, all my friends found out and I was so imbarrest I couldn't catch the same bus for two weeks.
Please if I was you - Save yourself the imbarrestment
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 October 2008):
You've created an imaginary boyfriend for yourself. This is exactly the same as when teenagers say they are "in love with" their teacher. They don't know the teacher at all. They only see a tiny part of their life and the professional personality that they project. All the rest is in their heads.
Think hard about why you are choosing to spend time in your head with an imaginary friend rather than thinking about the real world. You are trying to escape from something into fantasy. It just so happens that this fantasy has this guys face.
Figure out what it is about the real world that is so dull or stressful and improve it.
Good Luck!! xx
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