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writes:I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me.I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, without any strings attached? I am very shy and have never approached a woman. I want to experience sex with an older woman and am not sure how to do so.Do all women get emotionally attached and how can I keep them from doing so.Thank you in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Emily and PM for the answers! I passed the information on, however; now it's like there is a little more of an issue with his culture... so I'll see what I can do to help him with this. Again, thank you very much!
Take care and Have a wonderful night!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 September 2008):
Oh well thanks.
You're welcome.
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reader, PM  +, writes (30 September 2008):
 It's a pretty big topic to cover.
I would suggest against going to escorts and the like because it is not good for a man's psyche.
If all your friend is looking for is a woman who will have sex with him, then he needs to settle. Tell him to find women who are already attracted to him and go out with them. If they are already attracted to him, then it's fairly hard for him to mess things up assuming that he's a fairly normal guy.
As for what to say when he's asking for a date, a general guideline is to not to ask permission and to err slightly on the side of giving commands. Instead of saying "Would you like to go out to dinner with me?" say something like "I'd love it if we could go to dinner together." He should say it with some strength, the same way he would if he were a professor lecturing on something he was passionate about.
There is so much that could be said about this that it's difficult to say anything unless there is a specific situation to cater to.
Hope that helps though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMaybe this should be a question for men. I KNOW there are tons of guys out there that don't want a commitment/long term relationship and are in it just for the sex.
He knows he can't just walk up and ask someone to sleep with him and knows that there will have to be some dating and such. Sorry I left that out. He wants to know how to go about approaching the women for a date, what should he say? Or how should he act?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008): Yeah, I agree with EmilyAnswers. Check out Adult Friend Finder, Fling, Craigslist, and Plenty of Fish.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 September 2008):
Advertise on Adult Finder or some other sex finding website.
Either that or hire an escort.
If you want a one night stand then go out and get drunk and flirt and go for it, but if you want a longer term fling then you are going to have to advertise somewhere.
There is not really any way to go out expressly looking for a sex friend. He's going to get slapped in the face many times before he finds one and it's not worth it.
Good Luck!! xx
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