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writes:I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made dinner and brought it over to him. He looked like he was home alone. (I di not know his family was visiting) He ran out of the house and said this was a real violation of the "boundaries" so I just through the plate back in the car and drove off. I was holding bak the tears. Now he won't talk about it and now says everything is over between us. What did I do????? He turned a surprise into a major problem!! I want to cry and scream!!! I am angry!!!! What gives with him? AHHH! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 October 2008):
If you go out with a mental bloke then you will have to deal with his mental issues.
He's a nut job.
You did nothing wrong.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (1 October 2008):
 Boundaries are fine, but since when did coming to his house mean you were violating his boundaries? Did he tell you not to come to his house? You were trying to be nice to him, and he was mean to you. I suggest that you find someone else, who deserves you. I have boundaries with my husband, but I would never do anything like that to him. Boundaries deal with things like personal space, etc. For example, it's a known boundary that you are not supposed to grab someone's ass in public that you don't know. That is violating one of that person's boundaries. Just move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): Honey..Boy oh boy...I dont know if you're anything like me but if you are a strong woman then move on. Come on now, I cant even express to you how you should move on. Some people that go to prison needs "extra" time to re-adjust to being in the free world. I would've cussed his azz out and showed him the dueces and went home with a smile on my face. Girl please, you deserve better and you should feel that way too. When my guy tried that crap with me the first time I just let him know how what type of high class woman he's dealing with and these other men out here are just waiting on him to mess up. So let the idiot act a fool because when you dont pay him any attention he's going to come running.
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