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*issindependant
writes:Dear cupid,I love my boyfriend very much. But when ever I go to visit him or if I go to his house he only wants to play computer games unless were out. Also he likes to control me whenever he doesn't get something when I don't want him to have it or I want him to wait for it. E.g. One morning just because he couldn't wait for breakfast I wasn't allowed to watch my own tv and I wasn't allowed to go on my computer as he switched over the tv and turned off the router. Please what should I do? I feel if I go to my friends they will judge him and if I go to my parents they will dislike him.Please help me ...
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 I agree with the rest. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't change, leave.
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reader, inadaze08 +, writes (1 October 2008):
ok. im only 18 so i hope my advice can help you out some. well in my opinion if u love him tell him how u feel if he doesnt understand after that and cont's to act up threatn to leave him...my boyfriend gets mad and does stuff like that too but only when i go to the club so dont feel like ur alone bc i understand how ur feelin.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 October 2008):
"I wasn't allowed to watch my own tv."
He's being an idiot and acting like a spoiled little boy.
If you allow him to treat you this way then he's going to treat every girlfriend he ever has like this and they will all leave him and he will die alone and hated.
Tell him if he doesn't change his behaviour then he is dumped. And if he treats you like a naughty child again then dump him.
You are at the age where you have to learn not to take crap like this in a relationship, even if you love him.
Yes your friends would judge him and yes your parents will dislike him if you tell them about this. That is because he is doing things that are wrong and nasty.
if he ever does this again then tell him it's over and walk away or you'll be putting up with abusive boyfriends for the rest of your life.
Good Luck!! xx
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