Mom Caught me with sisters hubby!
Q. my mom saw me with my sisters hubby this happened by surprising me 4 brunch. she saw me with a mouthful. she said she wouldn't tell but expects he and i to do the right thing. he wants 2 tell her but we only did it once and only head. so?...
A. 14 January 2007: so ... how could you do that to youre sister. OMG you should tell her be honest with her atleast since u did something with her man, whats to say other woman havent aswell..least since you did it the only good thing you could do is tell her ... (read in full...)
Like A Virgin?
Q. will my bf know im a virgin? i told him i had a one night stand a few months ago, thas how i lost my viginity however i was lieing...
A. 14 January 2007: it really depends, if you have broken youre hymen, ie horse riding , tampons so forth then i wouldnt have thought he would notice.. to be honest theirs no need to lie to youre partner just because you havent had sex.. best relationships are best ... (read in full...)
We broke up and I'm finding it hard to cope! Any advice?
Q. To cut a long story short: I broke up with my boyfriend because he was always with his friends, never rang etc, then we met up to see where wanted to from here. Satuday:I told him i didnt come to get with him, just came to sort things out, so ...
A. 14 January 2007: he seems sorry for hurting you, and that hes feeling remorse over it and just wants to tell you that hes sorry and wanting to know if youre all right, he still probaly loves you and still cares but it seems that he now doesnt see a future hence ... (read in full...)
She's a bit wilder than me-I have traditional relationship values. Is it wrong of me to expect more from her?
Q. Im a 20 yr old guy and im in a relationships.i give my GF(also 20) a lot of advice/"maybe nagging" about things that i don't like...This sounds a weird Q to ask but am i acting like a 'nagging old loser'? for example when my GF went out for her...
A. 13 January 2007: one thing i would never do is try to change someone they are who they are and if you cant accept them then maybes its time to look at youreself.. my ex constantly wanted to change me, oh i dont want you going out with youre friends unless youre with ... (read in full...)
He's not exactly the best looking guy but I really like him! What should I do?
Q. hello i know this might not be as big of an issue as some of the letters you get, but im really stressing about this. you see i like this boy, and i know every girl says the same, but he's my best friend, another thing is he's not exactly the best...
A. 13 January 2007: its hard when their youre friend. if it was me ide ask him if he wanted to take our friendship to another level but if he didnt want to then it would be fine. when asking him reassure him that no matter what happens things will be fine, its just ... (read in full...)
My parents won't let me have a bf! Are they being too over protective?
Q. hi im 14 an my parents won't let me hav a boyfriend, i don't want one jus for the sake of it but i think they r bein a bit over protective. i've had 2 but they caught me n made me break it off. wateva im doin im always wary of wat they think i no ...
A. 13 January 2007: it seems to me their just worried and trying to protect you.. best thing to do is to assure them you wont do anthing unlawful and that you feel youre mature enough to have a boyfriend..if theirs someone you like take him to youre home talk awhile, ... (read in full...)
I was snuggling and kissing this guy I like-the next day I had a red rash on my face! What is it?
Q. hi this boy asked me out yesterday and i said yes. after school we were hugging for about an hour outside the school (it was quite cold). then we kissed (just a normal kiss). then today when i woke up i have really red cheaks and they feel quite ...
A. 13 January 2007: to me i think you have a rash( maybe sensitive skin) of some sort caused by a product that he may of been wearing go to youre doctor and they will be able to do test if nescesary to see what ure alergic to.. dont be embaressed to see the doc after ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he get an erection when he kissed me? Don't all guys do this?
Q. hi i was hugging my new bf for the first time today and then we kissed (just a normal kiss but for quite a long time. anyway i heard ages ago that normally when boys are hugging and kissing their gf's they get an erection. well why do you think ...
A. 13 January 2007: no not all guys get erections from hugging and kisses, all men are different. some get excited so easily that they get an erection whilst others can with hold it..dont be worried just have fun hugging an kissing :d xxx a
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It's a long story... but I think I'm ready to move on from my crush! Should I?
Q. K umm this is like a really long story...but here it goes and im like so confused on what to do.... K well I broke up with my boyfriend in the summer cuz I started to like this guy that I work with. He works for my family so they all know him. So...
A. 13 January 2007: it seems that you should of said things out to him in the begining that you liked him, just so things wouldnt have gotten complicated..sometimes its good to ask friends to help out but in my advice youre best doing it youreself or things can get ... (read in full...)
Things are going to far and I'm not sure what to do!
Q. -x- Hello, I'm only 13 and i use to like this guy, he's 17, my mates told him, and he got the idea i really liked him, i've met up with him a few times, i mean i loved him so much at first! But there are a few bad things about him 1. hes dating o...
A. 9 January 2007: youre only 13 hunnie sex is a massive no no..you dont owe him anything yes he helped you through youre hard time but that doesnt mean he has the right to anything..stop this relationship now..for youre sake he shouldnt be asking such things off of ... (read in full...)
I still love her and having problems accepting her current boyfriend...
Q. I was originally not a member and I posted a question, now I have joined and my problem is still here and I need some help. My problem is this http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-her-more-than-she-knows-what.html Now I have told her the nex...
A. 9 January 2007: she has rejected you, and now ure angry that she let you down..youre still young and plenty more fish in the sea hun, i think you would be best walking away from this and think about youre happiness without her in youre life..she obviously doesnt ... (read in full...)
My sister is gay but she can't accept the fact I'm with a man 23 years older than me!
Q. hi everyone:) from last november onwards i had been speaking to a man online (not a dating site - just a footie forum!) - i was 17 at the time and he was 40, and at first it was just friendly stuff, and we got on really well:) and then we both ...
A. 9 January 2007: i think its odd, obviously shes maybe feeling hurt that you ddnt tell her but i dont think that is the cause for the way she is behaving now..it seems that it must be something to do with what has happened, but why has she refused to see youre ... (read in full...)
Are most romantic relationships lop-sided? They are with me!
Q. Are most romantic relationships lop-sided? Meaning, one person is more in love, more attracted to the other. This seems to be the case to me. When I was married, my husband was way more attracted to me than I was to him. He was always wanti...
A. 9 January 2007: yeah come to think of it all my ex's were like pawing at me, but now with my currant one its the opposite way around im wanting my bloke it feels like more than he wants me and yes i do wander if it means bad signs but i guess with time well find ... (read in full...)
Feel upset that he took mine, but I didn't take his!
Q. I have been dating this guy for a little more than 1.5 years. I love him a lot and it's obvious he loves me a lot too. A month before our relationship established, he broke off his relationship wit his ex that went for a little more than 1.5 years ...
A. 9 January 2007: in youre mind you feel that loosing youre virginity was so special and that you felt that it would of been returned but it hasnt he had previously had done it with another person, so now you feel let down..dissapointed, that you gave it away youre ... (read in full...)
If I could change him, things would be great...
Q. My ex moved in w/ me 5 mos. ago so I could pay for school/living expenses. We don't have sex, but have fooled around twice since then. I know he loves me, but he's almost 20 yrs. older and acts like a kid. If I could change him things would be ...
A. 9 January 2007: one thing is you should never try and change a person they are who they are and if you cant except them for who they are then walk away..ive had to many ppl try and change me i am who i am take it or leave it..i would say yes it doesnt sound as if ... (read in full...)
Husband is behaving secretively...is he having an affair?
Q. my husband has been very secretive lately, i am really worried he is having an affair, he is 50 and i am 38, we have been together for 19 yrs and have 3 kids, i admit i have not been easy to live with but neither has he. but things that he tells me...
A. 9 January 2007: i dont think ure being paranoid i think your sensing things are out of order. I got a bit like that with my ex when he kept txting lots and was late home from work and things so i checked his phone once just to prove what i was thinking and he was ... (read in full...)
I'm down! Is it because I don't know what to do with my future, career-wise?
Q. I keep getting negative thoughts and feeling slightly emotional, allthough I don't cry. It gets worse usually when it gets dark, and i feel no hope and have nothing too look forward too. I am happy around my girlfriend but not so much my family and ...
A. 9 January 2007: it could be because of it being winter being darker and loosing the supplements from the sun, you can get special lamps for this some vitamin tablets to can help..with me im feeling the same around family and friends only my bf makes me happy (when ... (read in full...)
Family member in a very controlling relationship. We are all worried about him. What do we do? Please help!
Q. I am writing this problem because i want to help my cousin out with a big problem he is having. He is a 2nd cousin, and although we aren't exactly close, i feel very sorry for him at this moment in time. The story goes like this. He met ...
A. 9 January 2007: im not sure how to reply to this as such as i have only seen something slightly similiar.. my friend was with her ex fiance for 5 yrs and she loved him and thought he was her soul mate ( he got her in a lot of debt but she was oblivious to it) we ... (read in full...)
He's casually dating both me and his ex. I don't want to be jealous, any advice?
Q. What's the proper way to act when your one of two people seriously dating someone? In my previous relationships I've always jumped right from casual dating into a relationship and have never been one of numerous people dating 1 person. But in my...
A. 9 January 2007: i wouldnt of gotten involved to be honest as most of the time it causes heart ache or relationship problems...tell him how you feel about it that you dont want to push him but you dont like the fact that hes still dating her when he says he loves ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's addiction to porn is ruining our relationship
Q. Iv been with my bf for 3 years, im 20 and his 25, the problem is I work all day and when I come home I often find evidence that he has been getting off to porn, it really bothers me because he says that his sex drive is low do to some medications he ...
A. 9 January 2007: it seems that he is being very selfish and un understanding towards youre feelings, i had a friend who liked ot watch porn whilst his gf ddnt..so she tried to watch it with him.tho she hated it she tried and told him that she ddnt like it but uf he ... (read in full...)
I gave her my love and my all, then she throws it all away again. Am I right to be mad at her?
Q. Recently a very strong (so I thought) relationship was ended that I was in. My girlfriend broke up with me. What happened is that, well, on Monday (Jan.1) she broke up with me because this guy she met for one night and "was told alot about" she ...
A. 9 January 2007: okay i wont say it but u are young, everyone has their first love and believe everything they are told.. i remember my first love and i believed him when he said i was his world we were ment for each other and so on..i was a dedicated partner to him ... (read in full...)
Are we a bit too young for this type of relationship? Any advice really appreciated.
Q. I have been going out with my bf for about a year and a half and i love him very much, he really is the person i want to settle down with. But i am starting to wonder if we are still a bit young and a bit immature? recently we have been arguing ...
A. 9 January 2007: some people find their love at all ages, try to sort things out in a calm fashion i know sometimes we want to scream and shout but thats no way to comunicate.. ask him to sit down with you and talk about things calmly as you dont like arguing with ... (read in full...)
She dumped me and I'm a living wreck. Please help!
Q. My girl friend broke up with me about the begining of november and i am a living wreck. i feel empty in side i just need her back and i dont know how to let her see that what really matters to her is right in front of her. We was once together for ...
A. 8 January 2007: your very young sweetheart, it was youre first love hun. its always the hardest to get over..sometimes you have to let go and put the past where it belongs i know it seems hard and easy to say.. but sometimes the things we most dont want to do are ... (read in full...)
His gf cheated on him twice and I like her bf. I'm friends with them both, so should I say something to him?
Q. I've been friends with this guy and we hang out every single day. He has a girlfriend that lives in austin and I know things about her bc she tells me. She ended up cheating on him twice. And I feel stuck in the middle bc I don't know whether to ...
A. 8 January 2007: youre going to have to put youre feelings on hold for him as he will proberly be least wanting another relatioship right now so best to give him some room and say that ure their for him if he needs someone to talk to xxx... (read in full...)
She's special to me and she's dealing with the grief of losing someone close...how can I further help her with this?
Q. about a month ago i met a really special woman! She is the one i have been waiting for, and it just feels realy perfect when we are together! We both feel the same way, but about a year ago her boyfriend died in a accident, and she is still battling ...
A. 7 January 2007: just be their for her and try to be understanding loving and caring, dont smother her let her know youre their and that you want to help her through it.. its always hard when someone has died, i had a friend that died not even a month ago, i still ... (read in full...)
Broke it off with this great guy due to distance...did I do the right thing?
Q. Hi im louise. Well were do I start, im 16 years old, was going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. I broke up with him because he lives a good bit away from me, you have to know one thing about him tho, he sooo quiet, but i liked that as he wasnt...
A. 6 January 2007: you are young , but in the same sense if you feel you that way about him then distance shouldnt matter much as long as you get to see each other and are both willing to commit to it, it is a serious thing as it mean more hard work on both parts, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents constantly belittle and bully him!
Q. Is it healthy for a relattionship when your boyfriends parents put him down in front of his girlfriend all the time by publicly insulting him even infront of a large family gathering? Example 1: His parents asking his girlfriend You want to go o...
A. 6 January 2007: i dont think their insulting you but they are putting him down, and if that was me i wouldnt put up with it, he need to grow a spine and stand up for himself..yes family is a big thing but during ure life they cannot hold ure hand as you go to work ... (read in full...)
After our messy relationship ended, I just feel numb. Why?
Q. OKAY! Here is the deal....my ex and I went out for 6 months....during our relationship he cheated on me with some girl that I know. He begged me not to leave him and I gave him a second chance...bc I loved the man. During our relatipnship we shared ...
A. 5 January 2007: i think youre still in shock over it all you feel used and abused by him and you still havent had time to let it digest, try getting out their doing things that make you happy have fun and try and put him in ure past, ure young and many more fish in ... (read in full...)
His gf cheated on him twice and I like her bf. I'm friends with them both, so should I say something to him?
Q. I've been friends with this guy and we hang out every single day. He has a girlfriend that lives in austin and I know things about her bc she tells me. She ended up cheating on him twice. And I feel stuck in the middle bc I don't know whether to ...
A. 5 January 2007: well some people would say not to get involved with it...but my friend cheated with my sisters fiance, i ddnt know to tell her or not, i ddnt but it was eating me up inside..the main reason i ddnt tell her was i had been drinking for 3 days at this ... (read in full...)
My bf broke up with me out of the blue! What should I do?
Q. my boyfriend borke up with me on new years eve via sms, one minute he sends me I love you, the next we should break up, we havent spoken face to face yet, I dont understand why he broke up with me, there was no signs nor fights! What shall I do?...
A. 5 January 2007: sometimes ppl can ponder over that thought they dont want to hurt the other so they keep sayingi love you too then they drop it like a bombshell, my ex he said he loved me then 5 hrs later after a few beers cheated on me and ddnt tell me for 3 ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong? Please help me.
Q. Ok so theres this guy(18) and he said he liked me and was interested in me. We've been talking for about two months now and everything was great but on Christmas he seemed kind of mad and then he stopped talking to me.He hasnt said one word to me ...
A. 3 January 2007: your very young so i wouldnt worry too much about it hun..obviously he must be immature before he hasnt told you what you have done wrong or just not told you why hes mad .. if i where you i would move on and have fun ,....hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 18, she's 23. Would it work?
Q. Okay so im an 18 year old guy who is very interested in a 23 year old girl. We get along really well and theres never a dull moment when we are around each other. Being that there is a 5 year age difference, would it work ? ...
A. 3 January 2007: yes its more than possible hun . my sister is dating a guy who is more than 7yrs younger and they get on great with each other they seem the perfect couple..age now adays isnt a big meaning.. more to the point are you happy and is she happy are you ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him or give him a chance?
Q. I asked a question on here before. But it changed. Ok the boy i liked who i thought liked someone else is now my boyfriend. One problem. - I'm free next sunday but he's out, and he's free on saturday but i'm out. - I like him alot, very m...
A. 3 January 2007: your young and free so try and not worry too much about relationships at this stage..ide say if you really like him give it a chance.. if you feel the same in a while then ask him if you can spend a little more time with each other..and be honest ... (read in full...)
I can't stay wet, no matter how much lube we use. Any advice on how to fix this?
Q. i have a sex problem with me.For like over a year i havent been able to stay wet..like at all we have to use so much lube and even then we have to use more..i try to let my bf know that its me not him but its hard for him to believe me.is it cause ...
A. 3 January 2007: try having more foreplay that could help greatly the more excited and more fun you have the more excited and wet you can become. i think alot of women can be the same try stimulating ureself and try to relax have some fun games xxx hope this helps ... (read in full...)
My wife sends dirty text messages to guys on her phone..and she won't stop! What can I do?
Q. I found 5 dirty text messages on my wife's work phone from another man she meets now and again on her job as a delivery person, 1 message read: "Man marries deaf girl. He says we must work out a code if I want sex I will stroke your left breast. ...
A. 3 January 2007: to me the txt are rude jokes = "Man marries deaf girl. He says we must work out a code if I want sex I will stroke your left breast. u reply by pulling my penis once for yes or 50 times for no". nothing with a bit of a laugh some folk dont like rude ... (read in full...)
When I masurbate, I always fantasize that I am the man-is this normal?
Q. Hi guys and girls!! Well I am a bit embarassed to be putting this on here as it is a very personal thing, and hope that some people can give some constructive advice. Or reassure me that I am relatively normal...if there is such a thing!!! Thin...
A. 3 January 2007: i think alot of people think i wonder what its like to be in the oposite shoes..we all have different fantasie and turn ons i dont think its wrong ure just curious in my opinion and get turned on by different things hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)
We got back together after he split w/ me - then I cheated on him. Is one more try at our relationship even worth it at this point?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years back in August. We split b4, last October 2005, as he wanted a break and liked someone else. I found someone else he came running back, I then didn't want him! 3 mths later and I started thinking ...
A. 3 January 2007: to me it seems that the two of you have been trying to score points on one and another for the cheating = which is never a good thing. i think the reason why the spark has gone is because their may still be love but their isnt trust no more you both ... (read in full...)
I really, really hate seeing my ex around anywhere. Is this typical?
Q. Hi! I had a question with my break-up. It happened a month ago and I'm pretty sure I'm over it... but not completely sure. I still see her in the school hallways somtimes and I hate it. I NEVER ever want to see her again. Is this typical? I wasn't ...
A. 3 January 2007: sometimes when we split up we get emotional and sad , but with some split ups we can get angry and mad. Sometimes this can be because of how we were treated or just because how it ended. i split up with my ex because of how he treated me and i ... (read in full...)
Does he still love. So many mixed signals, I don't know where to turn!
Q. I have asked this questions before, but I am still struggling and still crying myself to sleep....My ex and I split after a year in MAy 2006. I did not take it well as it was so unexpected and we had only spoken about marriage 7 days before. We ...
A. 3 January 2007: to be honest hun its difficult to tell, some people after a split can still have love for a person and want to do nice things for them but dont realise their giving off signals and dont want anything more than friendship, tho on the other hand some ... (read in full...)
I want to support him by moving with him but I don't want to lose the closeness I have with my parents. How do I deal with this?
Q. I've been married for about a year now. I have a great marriage. I'm an only child and my parents live quite close to us. We're amazingly close. I talk to them arounnd 2-3 times a week and see them around twice a week. Now here comes a dilemma....
A. 3 January 2007: i have only been in a small situation compare, i moved 500 miles away from my folks and they cant visit me so i have to visit them ( i lived with them and saw my sisters all the time who lived next door and me and one of my sisters is very close ). ... (read in full...)
What special thing can I do for my man... that doesn't cost $$?
Q. I am 19 and a stay at home Mom I have 2 kids.. On x-mas day my b/f asked me to marry him and i said yes... well he has gotten me a lot for x-mas. But I hadn't gotten him anything due to the fact that I am a stay @ home mom and recieve No money. So i ...
A. 31 December 2006: well i dont know his tastes tho my bloke he likes the country so ide take him for a walk somewhere nice then have a picnic then lay back and watch the stars, hehehe and the next bits ex rated give him some massages and so forth. xxx... (read in full...)
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