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writes: I have been going out with my bf for about a year and a half and i love him very much, he really is the person i want to settle down with. But i am starting to wonder if we are still a bit young and a bit immature? recently we have been arguing about everything and im starting to wonder if it is ever going to stop.I am now beginning to wonder if i am just to young and should not be in this kind of relationship at this age. But firstly i want the fighting to stop as he is my first love and a cant imagine being without him.. Please help!!
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reader, Anonymousloll +, writes (9 January 2007):
Hi there! Me and my boyfriend are both young but i believe he is the love of my life like you with your boyfriend, i agree with aphexinfinite, love comes at all ages, if he is the one for you then he is. simple. but the fighting does have to stop, try and work out what the issues are? are u jealous or insecure? all couples fight but sometimes its just a rough patch, it doesnt always mean things arent working out. Try and TALK about things, not rowing, if you do you may find that what you are arguing about really isnt worth it. If he is the love of your life then enjoy it! Not everyone is so lucky, have fun while you're still young and make the most of your time together. Hope i helped! xxxx
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 some people find their love at all ages, try to sort things out in a calm fashion i know sometimes we want to scream and shout but thats no way to comunicate.. ask him to sit down with you and talk about things calmly as you dont like arguing with him..it would be easier if i knew what the fights were.. all couples aregue at some point over stupid or major things, most important part his how we deal with the situations..asses the problem then discuss how to disolve it, if you feel that he is worth it and he feels the same then he should be able to sit down with you and try and sort the problems out,,in a relationship its all about give and take so try to be both fair..youre doubting youre age as a sign of things going wrong in youre relationship, try sorting things out first and see if that changes ure mind.. hope this helps xxx
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