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writes: My girl friend broke up with me about the begining of november and i am a living wreck. i feel empty in side i just need her back and i dont know how to let her see that what really matters to her is right in front of her. We was once together for like 5 months not very long i know but i was waiting for the right person and i though so much it was her and i still do.I need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): Finishing is so hard but you are so young and you will experience a lot of things in life and learn to cope with them. It's best at your age not to settle for just one person. Have fun and enjoy life. Enjoy your youth, get out there with your mates and eventually you will meet someone else. But don't keep dwelling on this.
Take care
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reader, LISAG +, writes (8 January 2007):
 Yes heartache really does sort of, well, ache badly! We have all obsessed and hurt over our lost loves too. You will never force someone to feel feelings for you that just aren't there, you can't make her see, she would need to see for herself and she's already gone Im afaid. It is horrible to hear that you must move on and try to forget her (as if you'll ever forget!) but there will be a time when you will meet another lovely girl, she will probably be more lovely than the first - they usually are trust me !
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reader, Darlene  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 it sounds like you were more into her than she was into you.she may regret her choice someday but you can't wait for that to happen.get on with your life find someone who deserves you.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 When you in love with someone and they choose to end it, it is normal to feel the way you do I think most of us have been there. I don't think though that this girl wants you back, try to move on by going out for a drink with your mates, and having fun. I'm not saying meet someone else, although it could happen, just spend some time on self, doing what you want to do, time is a healer, just that sometimes it takes longer than you think.
Don't shut yourself off thinking about her all the time do what makes you happy. You can't make someone want to be with you, you can only put it down to experience and move on. Please don't let this woman hardern your heart someone out there would love to have you.
Take it slowly and keep smiling.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (8 January 2007):
 your very young sweetheart, it was youre first love hun. its always the hardest to get over..sometimes you have to let go and put the past where it belongs i know it seems hard and easy to say.. but sometimes the things we most dont want to do are the things we should do..youve got a long way to go in life and im sure you will find the girl of youre dreams some day.. try and put her out of youre mind and move forward she has so should you.. hope this helps xxx
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reader, kenny +, writes (8 January 2007):
 I know its hard when a relationship finishes, and i know the hurt you are feeling inside.
The same happened to me when i was your age, i thought this girl was the one for me, and i was absolutely devastated when we split up, it felt like the end of the world, and was crying for days.
But i can tell you now from my experience that you will get over this, you don't think you are going to, but you will. Before you know it you will have another girl in your sights and your ex will be a distant memory.
Believe me it true, chin up buddy, get out and enjoy your life, and enjoy the freedom of being young.
Hope this helps you.
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