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What does it mean if I'm unable to function?

Q.   I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...

A.   24 December 2010: I'd like to thank everyone for writing comments, and wish a merry Christmas to everyone. I have some family around, so can't talk at length for a few days. As a quick note to the long answer below, I did meet a girl who I REALLY liked earlier ... (read in full...)

She's totally ignoring the fact that I sent her three messages!

Q.   I'd like some advice please regarding a potential new relationship. A new girl started at work a few months ago. We get on really well, and have been getting to know each other. I recently suggested going out and we arranged it for the day afte...

A.   21 December 2010: She was probably just sleeping. Injuries mess up your sleep routine. It is possible that she didn't get them if she was moving mobile networks, or if she'd lost her phone and was getting the number switched to a new one. The mobile firms of... (read in full...)

What does it mean if I'm unable to function?

Q.   I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...

A.   21 December 2010: I think that anonymous may be right. The experience has demoralised me somewhat. I'm glad to have had the experience: I know the truth and not the myth about prostitution now. Also, I've got it out of my system. It's very difficult being this ... (read in full...)

What does it mean if I'm unable to function?

Q.   I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...

A.   20 December 2010: Thank you for the response! I think that you're definitely right about the pressure of time, the unpleasant environment and the knowledge that I was only doing it because I couldn't get a girlfriend in the real world. They don't add up to a ... (read in full...)

I cannot have a woman - how I can get rid of my feelings for women?

Q.   I'm a 36 old guy who never had a girlfriend,has never been friend of a woman and of course never had sex. I understood long time ago that it's impossible for me to have a woman(unless I don't look for the ugliest) and that no woman will never li...

A.   20 December 2010: I think that it's very, very difficult to change your sexual tendencies. I know that research has been done on how to change the tendencies of paedophiles (for the good of society) and they have all failed. There is something that I have thought ... (read in full...)

A job in a different city - how do people make that transition?

Q.   I want to move away from this small town. I recently spent almost the entirety of my savings paying off my medical bills, so I don’t have those to worry about anymore. I have about $1k in the bank now. I’ve never had a job, though not for lack of ...

A.   20 December 2010: Is there somebody you can move in with in Louisville? Perhaps you can live with your ex-boyfriend or one of his friends? In Britain, we had a very large influx of Polish workers a few years ago. They moved here first, then got the jobs, and that... (read in full...)

After 4 years of fancying my friend, is it time to bite the bullet?

Q.   Hello. I asked a question recently that stated that I am 25 years old, and I've never had a girlfriend although I do have several female friends. I have fancied one of my female friends for four years now. She had a boyfriend when I first met...

A.   20 October 2010: Thanks, Ven. You're probably right. It's gone on for too long now and I ought to bite the bullet.... (read in full...)

How do women decide whether a man is to be a friend or a boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 25, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. The strange thing is that I've always had more female friends than the average man does. (No, I don't get mistaken for being gay) I'm not a recluse and I cannot understand why other men have so ...

A.   18 October 2010: This is all useful advice. I just wish that I had known this when I was younger and had more time on my hands to find a girlfriend. I'll try my best now, but it's annoying having to work so much at this age. Fingers crossed :)... (read in full...)

How do women decide whether a man is to be a friend or a boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 25, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. The strange thing is that I've always had more female friends than the average man does. (No, I don't get mistaken for being gay) I'm not a recluse and I cannot understand why other men have so ...

A.   7 October 2010: Thank you for the quick responses! These answers both say that I must make my intentions clear. You might be right. It's very rare that I make any physical contact with anyone, and I've never felt anyone up the bum. I think it might take a while ... (read in full...)

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