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okay im only 14. i don't pick favorites. i listen to everyone, not just my friends i maybe young to give advice,but that doesn't stop anyone from listening to me

Am I wasting my time with him?

Q.   hi, i have been in a relationship now for three and a half years, we live 2 hours drive away from each other, and we see each other once a month now on average. I have three children from a previous relationship and he has two. in the beginning...

A.   10 April 2010: I think you need to tell hsim to forget about you you need to tell him how you feel but that he causes you to much pain to forget about you also need to talk to your children and see if they even like him... (read in full...)

He used to send me love letters -- how do I get that back?

Q.   When I first went out with my boyfriend, he was so sweet. Used to give me love letters and send me texts all the time, and make me feel loved. Now, 3 months later..he doesn't. He still says I love you and makes me happy but I can't help but think he ...

A.   10 April 2010: the question you have to ask yourself is did you do anything different. did you make it seem as though you didn't love him the same way. You need to tell him you want the romantic guy back... (read in full...)

Is it possible that he can love me the way he did before?

Q.   Deer Cupid I have been in relationship for two months now but sometimes, my boyfriend tells me that he had lost his feelings for me but told me is still in love with me. We still see each other but we cannot kiss or romance, we can only hug. S...

A.   10 April 2010: well im not doubting you can fall in love in 2 months ,but it sounds a bit much. especially if you dont feel like you can express your romance towards each other. Tell him you both need to take a break for about a month and see where that leaves you... (read in full...)

Is it just my hormones, or is he being unreasonable?

Q.   i have just turnt 18, my boyfriend is 25. i have recently found out i am pregnant...at the time i was shocked but ok about it. my boyfriend said he aint going to touch drink while im pregnant, but there he is already going round his mates for a ...

A.   10 April 2010: no you dont have to put up with his crapo.Tell him to start acting resnobly or your gone... (read in full...)

I want to move out and live on my own, is there any help I can get to do this?

Q.   i am only 17 and in full time education at college and i am wanting to move out of my parents bungalow and live on my own maybe but is there any help that i can get to get a house or whatever of my own and get help with it all? ...

A.   10 April 2010: First of all. get a roomate. you dont want to pay for everything all by yourself. post up signs that your looking for a roomate to pay half the rent for an apatrtment(you always wasnt to start out small). But first find an apartment near your ... (read in full...)

How can I apologise to her to make up for snapping at her?

Q.   I feel terrible! I was very tired and cranky after work. I rushed home to walk my dog and make it to dinner with my friend *I am also her boss. She is much younger so I am like a mentor to her career and life. I have been her boss and friend for 2...

A.   10 April 2010: okay so tell her your sorry. that she needs to remember the problems you have when you dont eat... (read in full...)

If I watch lesbian porn does that mean I am a lesbian?

Q.   dear cupid, I regularly watch lesbian porn. i am a girl aswell. I dont know if i'm a lesbian or not because i'm still attracted to boys. But not attracted to girls. i don't know what to do! help!...

A.   10 April 2010: okay then. no your not a lesbo. lesbo's are atracted to females you said you wern't. you might think your the only girl that does that but your not.i would try and stay away from it for a little while though porn is addicting... (read in full...)

Does he really love me or does he have another woman back in his country?

Q.   hello! i have a boyfriend i meet him in internet he visited me twice last year(2009),when he get back back from canada he left me his loptop and i found out he was chatted a lot of girls from febuary(when he get back from his first vacation...

A.   10 April 2010: okay one of 2 things. either you are really gelous or you got a cheater. the only way to know is to let it go for a little while. Try to belive him. don't regect everything he says. maybe the things he say are actually true. if he starts ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting more commitment from him?

Q.   The man i've been with for three years keeps telling me he,ll marry me and he,s even gotten me a ring but wont make any plans,just excuses like when your son gets out of jail so he can be there,and when you stop saying your leaving,what he dont ...

A.   10 April 2010: your right on girl. i'm only 14, but i can tell what your going through. Tell him to stop playing around. tell him that if he really cared about you he wouldnt make any exuses. and the best thing to know is that, it wouldnt even matter who goes to ... (read in full...)

How do I persuade my mum to let me go on holiday with my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi. I'm seventeen and my boyfriend has asked me to go away with him for a few days in the summer. We wouldn't be going far, just to the coast about 2 hours drive away, and only for a few days - a week maximum - and by then I'd be nearly 18. I ...

A.   10 April 2010: Okay well, tell your mum that if you can have sex then why wont you let me go on a trip with him for a couple days. tell her that youll call her twice a day and she can even drive up with you but dont chicken out. You have a great relationship so ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if my friend's brother actually likes me?

Q.   I've known my best friend since kindergarten and we are now in 9th grade. She is one of 5 kids and her oldest brother is a year older than me. I really like him and I think that he likes me too, but I dont know for sure. I don't know what to do. I ...

A.   10 April 2010: hey im going through the same thing right now. You deffinitly dont want to make it obvious, but make litle hints. For example, ask to spend the night at your friends house soon. Get your friend to suggest to play truth or dare. Tell her before hand ... (read in full...)

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