In-law can't seem to understand to get out of our house
Q. The problem is that my fiancee and I plan on getting married next year,but I don't want to marry the guy if I'm going to live with his dad till death do us part. I love him,he's a great guy but I can't deal with his family situation anymore I want ...
A. 17 March 2011: You lived with his family, rent free for you and your two children. so maybe if you paid rent, he would of never lost his house. He was there and gave you so much help and now he needs a bit of help, and you want to kick him out, that's his father, ... (read in full...)
He has a drug problem, I may be pregnant, I really love him, what should I do??
Q. Idk where to start i just need someone to really talk to i have no friends or family to turn to. ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now but ive known him longer than a year and at 1st or relationship was great i guess u could call it the ...
A. 11 March 2011: This is going to be hard, and don't take anything I say mean or to upset you as I am telling you want I think. Well you need to find out if you are pregnant or not. And seconds you need to get him help.. for your safety, you will have to leave... ... (read in full...)
I should move on but I think of him all the time. Should I call him?
Q. Not sure sex buddy or more? I was living in Sydney and meet a guy who was nice, and would all ways bump in to him in the most random places and call me at random times,but like me had commitment issues. For months we would hook up on a night out a...
A. 10 March 2011: YES!! You should call him and tell him how you feel.. That's a must, he might feel the same way, and that's the best thing to do. But don't just sleep with him, tell him you want to have something with him, and not be with other people. But it ... (read in full...)
Cheating lying boyfriend..how to handle this planned trip?
Q. So, I found out my boyfriend of 6yrs who has cheated before had cheated with a girl over a year ago tells me that it happened a while ago and it was during the time we were having problems..and that he is so sorry! I have finally come to my senses ...
A. 9 March 2011: Maybe you should call that girl and see what she says.... She won't lie to you, it might hurt and suck but in the end the truth is the best!! Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Why cant this guy commit to this realtionship? Or is it age difference
Q. Does actions truly speak louder than words. Ive being in a relationship for 4 months he is older than me. I dont see him alot even though we live really close to each other. We go out for meals and to the cinema and stayed in a hotel after a night ...
A. 8 March 2011: Have you ever been to his house?? Why you staying in hotels?? Why not your house or his??? The way it sounds, that none of your friends and his, know about you guys.... And I think he might have another women... Hotels??? Why not his house and his ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a one night stand. Can I pass this baby off as my boyfriend's?
Q. I've been in a serious relationship for the past 2 and a half years with my Algerian boyfriend except for the last 8 months I’ve been living with my mother in a different country . Of course things haven’t been going too well for us since we’ve ...
A. 7 March 2011: You can do anything, but a lie to live with forever, will drive you nuts!!! But one thing is, that the child might grow up to hate you.... My mother did the same thing to me, I found out when I was 15, and I haven't talked to her since....( I'm 22 ... (read in full...)
He is a lot younger than me ... I am stupid!
Q. Hello I have a problem and I feel so stupid! I am 27 years old and have slept with a 19 year old! He was asking me for my number etc I kept telling him I was too old for him,(even though I was extremely attracted to him and he acts a lot older) h...
A. 4 January 2011: Naw! Its just a number it doesn't matter!! You should go out with him again, get. His number and see where things go!! Plus I think it could be fun :) goood luck. ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and boyfriend hit me
Q. I need some advice badly. So my boyfriend and I got into an argument. It was really bad, we were yelling and stuff, it was bad. Then he hit(punched) me in the face. I slapped his face and then he shoved me into the wall. Then he left and went...
A. 3 January 2011: You need to leave him, you don't need that! You can do better for you and your unborn baby ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my husband and cheat again? or leave him?
Q. I have been married for 14 years, my husband is a very caring, loving and great bloke - we unfortunately cannot have children but have spoken about this at length and have decided that we can have a fullfilling and wonderful life just the two of us ...
A. 3 January 2011: Leave him, if he is a great guy then he doesn't need that. ... (read in full...)
We are broken up but my ex allows me to sleep with her and hold her
Q. Hi... I need some opinions and help. I've broken up wif my gf already. It's something not easy to do. So, I called her up at 3am in the morning after not contacting her for about 3 days. Asked for her to open her door for me. She did, asked me what ...
A. 3 January 2011: You guys only broke up 3 days ago, pretty sure she still has feelings for you and maybe thinks this is your way of getting back with her.... If don't want to be with her then don't bug her, there is no need to break her heart. Good luck ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!
Q. Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that ...
A. 29 December 2010: This is hard and different for every family. But 5 years is a long time, and I understand she is close to her family but she also knows that your alone on the holidays and should be there for you so you don't feel alone... It would be different if ... (read in full...)
Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 19 December 2010: Thanks guys!!!! Just found out that I'm prego! Thanks so much ... (read in full...)
She's lesbian. I'm lesbian. My husband knows I'm bi.
Q. Hi Everyone I don't know what to do so I need your advice. I got married 20 years ago to a wonderful man that I met when I was in the Army. He was also in the Army. We have 3 children. I am bisexual and my husband knew this when we married. A fe...
A. 2 December 2010: I think you should just come out and tell her, go for a walk somewhere, where a lot of people don't go, and tell her how you feel... And all will happen is a yes or a no. Come out and tell her your sorry for not telling her soon, tell her how your ... (read in full...)
His mom hates me and takes it out on our daughter! How can I end this drama?
Q. Hi! I'm a single mother of a 2 and half yr old beautiful lil girl dealing with her father who has been cheating on me for 5 yrs with his other baby mama. Not only do I have to deal with that BUT I also gotta deal with the fact that HIS family ...
A. 1 December 2010: Don't bring your kid around her!! Her lost not urs, and leave the loser!! ... (read in full...)
What's with this threesome double standard?
Q. My boyfriend told me he'd like to try a threesome. I told him I'd do it but that I'd also like a threesome but with another guy. He went from totally enthusiastic that I said yes to furious. I told him I didn't want him to do anything with the other ...
A. 1 December 2010: He wants to have a 3sum, with another girl so he can cheat and not get in shit, ... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?
Q. Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a...
A. 30 November 2010: Yes ask her, if she is not hiding anything this wouldn't make her mad, I leave my emails, and fb, myspace open all the time and my bf can look or not. Its just a question. Good luck ... (read in full...)
Why do you answer to these questions?
Q. I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...
A. 13 October 2010: Because we know something that they don't know so why woiuldnt we help someone. Everyone needs a hand. I asked for help so I gave my help back. I like doing it. Being able to help someone out :) ... (read in full...)
Is it true that guys prefer non-virgins?
Q. Okay, so as me and my friend were walking she told me the reason why I don't get guys is cause I'm a virgin. She said if I lost my virginity then that would be better. Since she said a good percent of guys prefer non-virgins rather than virgins. ...
A. 11 October 2010: No she is a loser!! Don't listening to anything she says. SAVE your self for a guy you love and wait to your much older. The only reasdon why guys like her is because she is having sex with them. Don't do it. ... (read in full...)
He wants me to pay expenses for his house but I don't live there!
Q. My boyfriend and I both own houses. He rarely comes to mine but wants me to come to his. He has a child that he has custody of every other week and we get along great. I have suggested for the kid's stability that we do the week he has his kid at ...
A. 6 October 2010: Tell him no!! That's your money. You work hard for it and should put it into his bank!!! From the way I'm reading it, it seems like you make the money, and you should be giving any of it to him. I say get a new boyfriend and leave him. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriends boss coming onto him, or just friendly?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating a year now and my boyfriend got another job after being laid off a month ago. This is a small ice cream parlor job, so everyone working there is a three to five years younger than him. During the slow times at the ...
A. 1 October 2010: To tell the truth. I'm not sure. See some girls are very nice like that but some are sluts like that. But that doesn't matter, he TELLS you everything bout her, and is open. So don't worry its ok if she hits him. Good luck ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to do stuff with guys. I didn't know he was bisexual!
Q. right where do i start.... me and my bf have been together for nearly 2 years and are living together and everything, however 7 months into the relationship he told me he was bi sexual. he had never done anything with a guy, but i found out 3 mo...
A. 29 September 2010: There is a few things wrong with this..
What he is doing is not cool. He wants to have a life with you but have someone else on the side.
Also about HIV & stds.. Him sleeping around with other men, he can end up giving you something.
So he is ... (read in full...)
I can't get pregnant but I'm afraid to ask my doctor why
Q. Okay so my and my fiance have been together for 6 years and we are trying to have a child but have had no luck. We have sex all of the time so timeing is not one of my concerns. We know that he is fertile because he got a previous girlfriend ...
A. 27 September 2010: Best thing to go to the doctors and ask him.. If your ready to have a kid, you should be ready to talk to a doctor ... (read in full...)
Should I settle with a girl who claims she's pregnant with my baby?
Q. i falld in love with two girl and dated them both.my first girlfriend discoverd that i was seen another girl she conflanted me and i admited.my second girlfrind also discoverd and i admited but i cheated sayaying that it was over and she was now my ...
A. 11 September 2010: Wow! You got one great girlfriend there my friend. To put up with all of that and still tell you she loves you and wants to be with you. First thing, if you say you love her and want to get married to her then STOP!! Cheating on her, its so wrong. ... (read in full...)
How much does appearance matter to men?
Q. How much does appearance matter to men? For example, I don't put in any effort into my appearance except that my clothes are clean (I usually wear t-shirts and jeans). My boyfriend says that the clothing I wear either makes me look really youn...
A. 11 September 2010: Did you always dress like this? Before you guys even dated? If he can't love you for who you are, and you can't make your self look a little good, then you guys are going to be suck where you are at.
But good luck ... (read in full...)
Is it fine for a guy to sleep over at his friend's house if we live together?
Q. My boyfriend moved in with me about a month ago after 9 months of dating. Three days ago, he told me that he was going to sleep over his best friend's house, whom I have known for about 6 months. His best friend, had been to our apartment a few ...
A. 9 September 2010: Why is he sleeping there? If he is having a guys night out and drinking, then I don't see why not don't want him to drinkg and drive. Just have a girls night out, or stay in and watch movies, have fun and don't worry. You trust him right?!?
Good ... (read in full...)
Test results came back inconclusive..what does that mean?
Q. I recently got tested for chlamydia and the test results came back inconclusive and was told I needed to do another test. Can someone explain what it means when a test comes back like this? and does this not necessarily mean I may have something?...
A. 8 September 2010: Something hapened to the test and it didn't work. So you need to do it again. ... (read in full...)
I think my baby is another mans!
Q. hey i really do need some advice,basically i gave birth to my daughter on the 24th august an the thing im worried about is she looks nothink like the guy i thought was her dad as from the due date the doctor gave me i automatically said ye hes the ...
A. 8 September 2010: Yes they are all right!! DNA test is a must!! My mom didn't know who my father is, it was between 3 different guys, and to this day I don't know... I have a father and he has been there since day one... Don't know if he is really is my father, ans I ... (read in full...)
Magic Number - 5 too many?
Q. I told a close (male) friend of mine my magic number the other day (5). He seemed to think it was pretty high. I can account for these: 1. first time 2. 3 yr relationship 3. short relationship 4. 1 night stand 5. current relationship. I hav...
A. 7 September 2010: No its not high mine is 5, so don't worry about it. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me enough to leave his children
Q. If your married lover says that he doesn't love you enough to walk out on his children,does that mean he never will?...
A. 4 September 2010: Omg he leave him alone ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me and told me I deserved it
Q. hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for 6 months now, one night we were drinking and we got into an argument, and he slapped me, and told me i deserved it, i said you shouldnt of hit me, he said no, i havnt hit you, ive only ...
A. 30 August 2010: He is going to do it again, leave him its only been 6 months.. Get out!! You can do way bettter then that loser that needs to hit girls. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with 2 friends before me.
Q. I moved into a shared house with 3 girls F, D and S, and I started dating F, whilst I was with her the other girl D slept with my best friend. D was in a relationship with a guy she had been friends with a while Z, however whilst they were togeth...
A. 30 August 2010: You knew this before you two got together, she can't change it now, and you need to let it go!! Its her past, your the guy she is with now and as you say super happy, you must be happy too?!? You need to live with it? Or let her go, because she ... (read in full...)
Should I be the sneaky boyfriend or trust her?
Q. I have a problem! Here is the story. I have known this girl for 6 months and became an official couple in early July and we're currently still together. When I met her she said she was seeing someone and was trying to get over this person, this ...
A. 30 August 2010: Trust her!! She came out and told you before when she was sleeping with other people, and who she wanted to date first, but he didn't feel the same. So she has been telling you the truth, she calls you at night so you don't think of anything she is ... (read in full...)
I am in love with a woman who is in love with a man that has passed away!
Q. i am in love with a woman that is in love with a guy that died in a car accident. She knows that i am in love with her and o told her to move on but she says that she doesn't want to forget him. What i have to do so that i get a chance with her? ...
A. 30 August 2010: You need to give her time, don't tell her to get over him it doesn't work like that she can't just trun her feelings off and you telling her to get over it, is just going to push her away and make her made at you. Give her time and be there to ... (read in full...)
What's it like losing your virginity?
Q. so im talking to this guy about having sex with him so i can have a first time. i really like him but i dont think he feels the same way.. he is only 2 years older than me. should i have sex with him? he is in college and im a junior. and how bad ...
A. 30 August 2010: Naw you said he doesn't like you, then naw don't have sex with him! Keep it for someone that loves you and cares for you. Its something you will remember for ever!! ... (read in full...)
How do I forget?
Q. Is there a way, i can block the memories of my dead lover? It hurts too bad to think of him. I remember his beautiful face and sweet, funny personality. And I miss him painfully. My heart aches so much for him. It's only been 2 months now. It's the ...
A. 29 August 2010: I know how you feel. My boyfriend of 3 years passed away 17 months ago. And I remember it like Tomorrow, but what you need is time, and being around people you love. I'm sorry this happened to you but to its a good thing to cry. Let it out and talk ... (read in full...)
Stay 'friends with benefits' or ditch him...?
Q. I met this guy about 4 months ago - he fell in love with me, and I had never felt so comfortable with anyone before. Only problem - he's 34, I'm 19. We had what would qualify as a whirlwind romance, however I can never rush into relationships and I ...
A. 29 August 2010: You should find someone that who can love you and care for you. The way you want. Loss the loser and find someone better :) good luck ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he has waited long enough but I don't want to lose my virginity
Q. what should i do?i dont wanna lose my virginity. i am 22 years.and i am in relationship from past 5 years.me and my b.f have done oral sex many times.but now he wants me to lose my viriginty for him and i dont wanna lose it before my marriage...
A. 29 August 2010: You guys have been together gfor 5 years? Any talk about getting married? You guys should get married, being together that lkong
But don't do anything you don't want too. And he should understand
Good luxck ... (read in full...)
My heart is telling me he didn't cheat, but my mind is telling me I may be stupid to believe he didn't
Q. I need help. My boyfriend and I are in a very serious relationship (We are planning to get engaged soon, he has a ring and everything). And last night when I was leaving his place, I was confronted by an older woman who stated that he has been ...
A. 26 August 2010: Go with your heart.
BUT!!! Have a long talk with him.
Good luck!! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didnt stand up for me and told me it was my fault!
Q. I don't know if I should be upset with my boyfriend. He was texting a girl we both know so I thought I would text her to say sorry for being upset with her before and she told me that I had problems and that my boyfriend didnt love me because I was ...
A. 26 August 2010: He should of stand up for you! For him to let her say those things about you guys and not say anything back... Well there is something wrong right there.. It might mean he wants to and that he is thinking it, because he let her say those things and ... (read in full...)
HELP I want to sleep with my dads best friend
Q. hi i am in a bit of a pickle my dad is 42 and his best fried is 38 i was introduced to him when i was 12 but now i am 18 i am a adult and my feelings to him have got stronger he is single. i think he likes me too he comes over to our house ...
A. 25 August 2010: If you like him come on out with it, let him know, your older now and you can make up your own mind. Just remember that he is your dads best friend and if your dad finds out, he might go crazy. But in the end you can't help who you want. But make ... (read in full...)
Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 5 August 2010: Hey thanks so much for all your help! :) ill let you know when or if I become pergnant.
If nothing happenings within the year well go see a doctor and see if everything is ok. Thanks for your help. ... (read in full...)
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