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writes:I don't know if I should be upset with my boyfriend. He was texting a girl we both know so I thought I would text her to say sorry for being upset with her before and she told me that I had problems and that my boyfriend didnt love me because I was too controling. She started being really mean and texted my boyfriend saying that he should just leave me. All he said was that he didn't care. I know it's silly but it upset me that he didn't stand up for me and that he told me it was all my fault. I've talked to him how I feel and I just don't know what to do
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reader, almc  +, writes (26 August 2010):
He should of stand up for you! For him to let her say those things about you guys and not say anything back... Well there is something wrong right there.. It might mean he wants to and that he is thinking it, because he let her say those things and not tell her that he loves you and is not going to leave you.
I would think maybe you guys need some time apart. Think about what's going on... And to see if you guys really want to be together. Because by the sounds of it, he doesn't really seem to care. Sorry to say hun. Well good luck. Let us know what happens. :)
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (26 August 2010):
Well to be hoenst he should have said to the girl that, no he isnt gonna leave you because he loves you etc. the fact that he didnt and that he stuck up fo her and said it was your fault proves that hes a bit of a prat. Its nothing to break up over, but he really should have stuck up for you and you have the right to feel a bit upset. I wouldnt be freiends with this other lass anymore. And hopefully its only friendly chat that her and your boyfriend is having. Good Luck xx
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reader, Zozey +, writes (26 August 2010):
Tbh he is a waste of space and needs to grow up, you need 2 leave him darlin' he int worth it xx
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 What did he say when you talked to him? As your boyfriend, it's his duty to defend you against anything that might harm you, physically or emotionally.
You have all the right in the world to be angered by this. What are his reasons for blaming it on you? Try asking him why he's still talking to this girl because she's trying to split you two up (no matter how feeble her attempts may be).
I hope that helps
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