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writes:Hi! I'm a single mother of a 2 and half yr old beautiful lil girl dealing with her father who has been cheating on me for 5 yrs with his other baby mama. Not only do I have to deal with that BUT I also gotta deal with the fact that HIS family loves his other baby's mama and HER 4 yr old son and can care less about my child. His mom keeps his son for weeks at a time and she makes absolutely NO effort to be in my daughter's life. She says its because she doesn't like me and prefers for him to be with the other baby mama instead of me, but what do I have to do with it my daughter is her flesh and blood.I have been dealing with ALL this for FIVE yrs I just don't know what to do, I'm losing my mind over this, I'm an emotional mess. I'm constantly fighting with him and kicking him out and taking him back but I just can't do it anymore and the only thing that is keeping him in my life is my daughter. She adores him and I don't know what to do. I do NOT want him or anything attached to him in my life BUT he is the father of my child I don't know what to do. I can try to make it work with him BUT he is TOO attached to his mom (he's a mama's boy) and SHE is too attached to the other baby's mama and his son , therefore if I accept him for my daughter's sake then he brings along all this other baggage that I DO NOT want in my life. This has been taking an emotional toll on me, I'm becoming a resentful, hateful and angry woman because of all this and I don't know what to do!PLEASE help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): I completely agree with 'raiders.' Just because he's your daughter's father doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship with him OR put up with his cheating. Kick him out for good, make arrangements for your daughter to see him once in a while, and move on with your life.
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reader, raiders +, writes (1 December 2010):
 Just because he is your baby daddy does not mean he has to be your Man. Let him go you are obviously tired of all the drama. With time you will find a person who will be devoted to you and only you. Don't settle for less just make sure he has a relationship with your daughter and you live your own life and try to be happy.
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reader, almc  +, writes (1 December 2010):
Don't bring your kid around her!! Her lost not urs, and leave the loser!!
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