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30-35,
*atelyn.sarah77
writes:I met this guy about 4 months ago - he fell in love with me, and I had never felt so comfortable with anyone before. Only problem - he's 34, I'm 19. We had what would qualify as a whirlwind romance, however I can never rush into relationships and I refused to be called his girlfriend - even though that's how he would talk about me to his friends. After about 3 months of this 'friendship' and A LOT of drama over pushing boundaries (I'm a Christian and we continually went WAY further than I had planned), I suddenly realised that I was falling in love with him. As this is what he always said he wanted, I told him and said maybe we should formalise our relationship. Suddenly he backed the hell away and told me that he was happy just being friends - even though he had continually told me otherwise - he wanted to keep what we had. He also told me he still loved his ex....Should I stay and just be 'friends' or ditch him and find someone who is actually willing to commit to a relationship?
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reader, almc  +, writes (29 August 2010):
You should find someone that who can love you and care for you. The way you want. Loss the loser and find someone better :) good luck
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