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writes:Hi... I need some opinions and help. I've broken up wif my gf already. It's something not easy to do. So, I called her up at 3am in the morning after not contacting her for about 3 days. Asked for her to open her door for me. She did, asked me what I was looking for her for, and i just told her i need a place to sleep well. She let me stay over for the nite holding her to sleep. We are broken up, but, she allowing me to do tis... what does it mean? Need more understanding on this... Quite complicating... Thanks...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): she probley still likes you and it appears that you still like her if you was holding her.
you should sit down with her and talk about it but if you dont feel for her in that way then please dont lead her on this will just make matters more confussing x
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reader, Godchild  +, writes (3 January 2011):
The break up is recent, and you guys still have feelings for each other. I use to let my ex do the same thing only cuz i felt so comfortable with him. we just use to lay together. The love is still there. Maybe you guys need to reevaluate the reason you broke up.
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reader, almc  +, writes (3 January 2011):
You guys only broke up 3 days ago, pretty sure she still has feelings for you and maybe thinks this is your way of getting back with her.... If don't want to be with her then don't bug her, there is no need to break her heart. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): Feelings for you? Perhaps, but not the kind of feelings you want. Sorry to say this, but a man who doesn't have a place to sleep and feels the need to humiliate himself by calling his ex doesn't inspire romantic attraction. She probably just felt sorry for you.
Moreover, if you didn't contact her in three days and you were the one who broke the "no contact" rule, then she clearly cares less than you do.
Sorry, but it doesn't look like she has shown herself to be attracted to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): She allowed you because she probably still has feeling for you. The question is why you are going over to hers at 3am to sleep over.
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