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writes:hey i really do need some advice,basically i gave birth to my daughter on the 24th august an the thing im worried about is she looks nothink like the guy i thought was her dad as from the due date the doctor gave me i automatically said ye hes the dad but she really is nothink like him she looks spit in image of the guy i slept with a 4 weeks after him!she was 14 days late aswell so i had to go into hospital to be induced but now im jus wondering if the doctor got the wrong due date an that my daughter is actually the 2nd guys child are doctors an scans allways accurate with due dates ?my perioads was quite ireggular aswell befor i concieved please help someone lots of advice needed x
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reader, Yos  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 I wanted to add that as a teenage mother, you should seriously consider contraception in future. Especially since you are having sex with different men in close succession.
I know a woman who has had a string of different kids with different men, starting as a teenager. She's lived off benefit her whole life: except now most of that has been cut off, none of the fathers are interests in helping, and she is in real trouble. You don't want to end up like her
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reader, Yos +, writes (8 September 2010):
Get the test. For his sake.
There is nothing worse you can do to a man than have him believe a child is his when it's not. You'll never be forgiven if found out.
Now you have to find a way to obtain the two potential fathers DNA without raising suspicion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): I found out my father wasn't my really father when I needed him to donate blood, and he couldn't, he was the wrong type. My 'father' found out I wasn't his daughter that day too. I hate my mother for what she's done, and will probably never speak to her again. She lied to me for years. You need to get a DNA test if you want any relationship with your child.
Plus, at your age, there shouldn't be that many options!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Get a DNA test. The scan report is not a sureshot indicator. Medical reports do make mistakes.
So, apparently, do people.
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reader, almc  +, writes (8 September 2010):
Yes they are all right!! DNA test is a must!! My mom didn't know who my father is, it was between 3 different guys, and to this day I don't know... I have a father and he has been there since day one... Don't know if he is really is my father, ans I hate my mother for it! The other two guys, one died before I was born and the other one god knows where he is, but he point is I never forgave her for it, and I have know for 10 years... Get a dna its the best thing you can do for your family.
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reader, WhateverMovesThee +, writes (8 September 2010):
 First off, yes mistakes can be made by doctors and machines. It's rare but not impossible. The only way for you to know without a doubt is to have a DNA test done before your baby is any older. This is a tough situation but be strong and keep your child in mind. Every action you make now will have a direct affect on her...best of luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 September 2010):
You need to do a DNA test, now. If you don't, then yo'll cause your two men significant trouble, and your child will grow up not knowing who it is. The only way to be sure is a DNA test. And it's worth getting it over and done with. You don't want to find out in 20 years time that you've got the wrong father, because your daughter will hate you for it.
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