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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

After having sex, I might be pregnant and now it hurts when I pee. Should I go back to the doctors?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Well on Saturday night I lost my virginity to a guy who I know quite well. It was amazing and didn't hurt at all and I have no regrets or anything. But unfortunately the condom broke. I got the morning after pill from the docs on Monday morning and ...

He told me he liked me whilst going out with other girls, now he's single he only wants to 'hook up', is he just after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm 15. So theres this guy whos 16. We started off as friends. just talking. he had a girlfriend. then he said he liked me as more than a friend. but meanwhile he was still dating this other girl. he wanted to cheat on her but i didnt let him. ...

Can a guy tell if a girl is a virgin during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, Okay i was just wondering when having sex can guys tell if the girl is a virgin? Would they feel any different? Thanks :)...

Ladies, would it put you off if you found out a guy was a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - hi everyone this question is mainly for the ladies but anyone can answer realy. i just wondered what you people thought about male virginity, and girls would it put you off a guy if you found out he was a virgin? im not realy to bothered about be...

Tempted to lose my virginity to a married man. Do I or don't I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I am an unmarried virgin girl.For the last two years iam in friendship with a married man. He is asking me for sex and to spend 3 nights with him. He says that it will not affect my future marriage. I am tempted to have sex with him. What ...

Not heard from him since I turned down sex, but I still want him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I am a 14 year old girl. I live in a conservative middle eastern country where I cannot talk to anyone about this problem I have, so I have to confide in an internet site as a last resort. I have had a crush on this guy since the beginning of the y...

Is it my fault that I couldn't maintain an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Lost my virginity last nite. I could not sustain an erection while inside her. i felt as though the condom started to slip at times due to this. I may have been the virgin in the situation, but she wasn't much for foreplay (wouldn't let me go down, ...

Did my hymen break the first time? After two attempts it's still excruciatingly painful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I'm hoping you lot can help settle my mind about this. I had sex yesterday for the first time, but i'm unsure if my hymen broke or not. When he went inside me, the pain was excruciating... he had to pull out several times because i was almo...

She has beautiful curves...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I saw my cousin's sister taking shower and since that day I just want have her, whenever I think of that scene I masturbate by thnking of her. She's younger to me and has beautiful curves. Do you think I am a developing lesbian, or I dont know. But ...

Am I naive for believing my ex isn't just after sex? are all guys only after one thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - How do guys think? What am I not getting? I have recently been in contact with a sort-of ex (unofficial relationship) and he wants to meet up to 'discuss things'. My friend, when I told him, was angry at this. According to him, all my ex wants ...

Didn't bleed after first time sex, why did this happen?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid,i am 20year old.i had sex at first when i was 16.before that i never had a sexual connection with anybody.even not a kiss.but my first sexual experience was unusual.there was no bleeding.my boyfriend didnot get any problem to leak my ...

Hopelessly in love...with a player.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

26 June 2009 (?) - Ok first of all, i'm a 22 year old virgin. i've never had a boyfriend and i had my first kiss just last year at 21. i've always been pretty shy especially when it comes to talking to guys. this is gonna be long, but please help me. here goes...ab...

I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...

I want to date but I think the past is getting in the way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I'm a 23 years old male virgin. At a young age i was sexually abused by a former class mate in middle school. I've had depression, anxiety and lack of confidence as long as i can remember. After high school these symptoms got extremely severe and my ...

I'm worried about not getting my period! I'm late but I'm also a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (?) - I keep having "the feeling" i'm gonna get my period, but I don't..and it's 9 days late I think. Btw I am a virgin. And maybe it's a little cramps, but it's just the feeling I have when I have period but I don't have it so I'm worried..?...

I don't want sex, it hurts. Should I give it to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - i don't want to have sex with my boyfriend because i'm not yet ready but everytime he touched me in areas gives me tickles and make me want to do it and i cant think well during that state. then everytime he tries to stick his thing in I cry and he ...

Going camping and going to get some?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - heyyy please help! well im a virgin and ive never really had a proper boyfriend, and tonight i am going camping with my friends and this guy adam who is a year older then me but not a virgin. we know each other a bit, but mostly though facebook...

Is sex important in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Okay let me just start this out as...I am 21 and still a virgin and would like to stay that way until I'm ready to get married. I have always promised myself I would and I'd rather do so, sex just doesn't seem important to me...I've never even ...

My parents want me to marry someone else but I'm not a virgin any more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I was committed with a guy for 2 years. I even lost my virginity. I belong to a very constraint hindu family and so my parents were against my love. My guy was getting worser every day and we broke up but now they want me to get married to some ...

I really love him and want to give myself to him, but I'm worried it's never going to happen.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex 3 different times but it never seems to happen as we plan, we're both virgins and 18. I've gone on the pill after the first time he couldn't get the condom on, and he didn't want me to risk us getting ...

One night of sex, now I'm pregnant and he doesn't respond

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - My bestfriend and I have been friends for years, since we were babies. Our families know each other really well. On the night my bestfriend was leaving to move to the other side of the country I told him I loved him and had done for many years. ...

Should I have sex with him even though we are both going to collage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I'm pretty much best friends with my boyfriend. We've been "best friends" for more than a year, but we've only been going out for 3 monthes. I really trust him and love him, but i'm not sure if we'll have a future since I'm going off to college in ...

Why did it hurt when I touched myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - im a virgin, and i was fingering and when i started i wasnt wet, then i was touching my clit and it began hurting. then i was still doing it but then i started getting this burning /fire feeling and i kept going. then i got really really wet, and ...

I'm a 30 year old virgin and I feel judged for wanting a virginal woman...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - Non religious 30 year old male virgin here. I am wondering what women think of me for wanting an inexperienced partner. Of course I have had chances to have sex with lots of women since I was a teenager but I turned it down because I want to share ...

Depressed from the bombshell my wife dropped. She wasn't a virgin.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - I recently got married and on our wedding night my wife dropped a bombshell by saying shez not a vrigin. she said she had sex while she was 9 years old and the guy was 20 years old. She didn't have any boyfriend or any sort of relationship since ...

23 and a virgin. Boyfriend doesn't want to be the one I lose it too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and still a virgin. It's not that I wanted to wait till marriage; I just wanted to wait for the right person and the right loving situation. I've been going out with this guy for over a month now, who was my friend for 3 years first, and ...

I lost my virginity with him, not sure what to say to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity to this my ex boyfriend like 3 months after we broke up. We dont talk but I really like him and I'm afraid to tell him how I feel because I'm afraid of what he will say. What should I do?...

Is there something wrong with him or is it me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - so here it goes...ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im very happy to say that we havnt had sex yet, im not ready yet. he has waited a long time too. even though we havnt had sex, we do have our "fun". our fun consists of dry sex kind of ...

He made a bet to take my virginity, I found out and hit him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

11 June 2009 (?) - My `boyfriend` is 23 and im 17 I recently gave my ``boyfriend`` my virginity (we both wanted it). Well I fonud out he made a bet with his friends that he could have get me drunk and have sex with me on his birthday. I was so mad that I punched h...

Girls lose their virginity without having sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - is it true that girls loss their virginity with out having sex? my girl friend with whom i studied high school have no virginity and told she never dated with anyone before me.and now we are living in different worlds and about to get married with ...

I think I want to give up my virginity..but not 100% certain

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Typical question Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months and I think Im in love. I really want to take our relationship to the next level (sex) but Idk if it's the right thing. He's not a virgin but I am and i did make a promise to my...

He wants me to give my virginity to him to show my love

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Hey frnds plz............ help me to come out of the complicated situation. For the last 4 years i am in relationship with a married man. Though he never forced me for anything, i was equally involved. we both r Indians and in India this type of ...

My boyfriend is a virgin, makes jokes if I want to have sex, should I just let him be in control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a virgin and when i try to have sex with him he try's to make a joke. He cant be serious. Does this make him a jerk or does it mean hes scared? should i keep trying or, drop the subject? Should i take charge if we get to that ...

Still confused..do I give him my virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - i have wrote a series of questions about this boy but im still caught up with it :( i am 15 and i like this 16 yr old boy and im still a virgin and he isnt. i have known him for about a year now and i still want to lose my virginity to him...

Will my husband know I have masturbated and has it affected my 'tightness'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years With a wooden tool due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will ...

How can I be sure that she is ready to lose her virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - I have a gf who's a virgin what would the signs be that she is ready to lose her virginity other than saying "I want to lose my virginity"?...

It's all kinds of messed up! He likes my close friend, I don't want to lose both of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - So I'm 16 and I've had this weird relationship with this guy for about 9 months. We tried being together but he never actually wanted a relationship with me. I lost my virginity to him recently and we have always been close. He has never really ...

Bought a purity ring, not a virgin, was it wrong to buy the ring?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Okay. So I am 19 years old and I am finally starting to accept Christ. I have begun studying the bible and attending church. My religion is becoming a major part of my life. But now I come to this problem in my life. I am not a virgin and I have ...

21 and still a virgin!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - hi.. im 21 years old and im a male virgin. i have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend in my life. ive had no sexual encounters what so ever and recently have been feeling very lonely.. more so than normal. i dont find it difficult to socialise ...

I don't want him to know I am inexperienced

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I'm don't know whats wrong with me, I am so uptight when it comes to guys. I have never had a boyfriend but this really good looking guy hit on me and we kissed and it was great, he was very upfront and said that he doesn't want a girlfriend he ...

I'm scared. Should I have sex with this boy who is asking me? Or is he trying to use me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - i am 15 years old and i need help i really do. when i was 14 i was raped by my ex botfriend and since then i have not been able to be in a stable relationship. its messed up my whole life. theres this boy that i really really like and he keeps ...

Wondering how people's 'first times' were?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Okay so I've been awfully curious about how different first times having sex has gone. This isn't like an advice needed thing. I would just like to hear how male and female first times went. Did you regret it after? What made you feel like you were ...

Should I just get it over with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I’m 16 and I still haven't had my first kiss. All my friends tease me about it and I’m just not that type of girl to go on dates and kiss. Plus I want my first kiss to be special and with someone I really like. And I also am a virgin. Sometimes I ...

Doesn't his plan make me look like his bitch???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Okay well I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we got onto the subject of sex. We are both virgins and I'm his first girlfriend. so anyways its hard to really explain everything but um well he couldn't understand my reasons for waiting and ...

Sex in the woods to lose my virginity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - So me and this guy "Alex" have been talking all school year. We pass notes all the time and we always joked about having sex, especially because at my school, everyone think I get around. The truth is I'm a virgin. Well Alex asked me to go to a lake ...

I regret losing my virginity, had intimate problems and her past is haunting me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - hey im 17,male and lost my virginity about a week ago. ive been having trouble getting over my girlfriends past because i had vivid images of her and her ex in my head and she seems tainted somehow. he USED her for many sexual activities i was...

Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...

Not proud of the way I lost my virginity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

3 June 2009 (F) - Hi, this is mainly for parents to help me out here, I'm a 16 year old girl, and I was at a concert one night, and me and my friends booked a hotel room for after it and we meet some people, I ended up having sex with one of them and this was my ...

Did I lose my virginity or not? How do I explain this to my new boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

3 June 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and I'm afraid I might have lost my virginity. I was dating this guy and I desided that I wanted to lose my virginity on him but when we were busy withe 4 play, he inserted his tip of the penis but it didn't reach the hymen and I ...

I think I want to lose my V-card to him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

3 June 2009 (F) - im 15 yrs old and thers his boy that i have known for like almost a yr now and he just turnt 16 and i really really like him and i know he likes me to because he has told me many times. he knows that i am a virgin and he has told me that he isnt ...