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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 yeah it's because you dented his ego hun.
that's why he's saying sorry and shizzle like that.
he's gutted because he clearly thought you were easy.
and because you've rebelled he doesn't like it
and feels it's a chase now.
BE CAREFUL of him hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANK YOU SO MUCH.
i didnt do it but i still want to :S
i hope i did the right thing.
but now he wont leave me alone he keeps saying he is sorry and that it isnt all about sex and ye thats all we ever talk about.
he is messing with my head and i dont have any way to get away from him :(
but still tahnk you everyone you helped me alot xxx
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reader, Tooreal  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Don't do it. You obvioulsy don't want to. Boys will come and go. And don't ever let them keep a piece of you when they leave. If he keeps asking. Trust me that's all he wants. I know this first hand. I had this one guy and from the jump i noticed he would always talk about sex. Then it turn to us having sex. I really liked him and thought he liked me. He seemed so sweet. But then when it happened we slowly stopped talking and everyone began to find out. He just like me for my looks and body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Kiddo, listen to your heart. If you have enough doubt to post here, then your heart is telling you it's not the right thing to do.
There's no hurry. In three or five years there will still be guys out there. Wait until you're in a relationship where you've established trust, and where sex is the right thing to do to take the relationship to a higher level.
You're still not over having been raped. Another bad experience so soon will make things that much worse for you. Please don't take that chance.
And please take good care of yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): If he reaaally liked you he wouldnt be talking about sex, it wouldnt matter all that much to him, not at your age anyway. He's just a horny little boy who wants his merry way with you and dont give him it! You were strong enough to overcome what happened to you which i salute you for, now be strong and dont give in to him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Not if you arent ready or dont want to and to be asking us means you arent ready or dont want to x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): oh id say hes in love wit u and you sould let him drive it inta you sex with a partner is great and if he leaves you say he has a small penis
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Sweetie, don't do it. That's all he wants, and when you gets it, he will tell everyone.
Leave him alone, and tell him to leave you alone.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Don't have sex with him!!!!!!!
If you haven't already had counselling then see a doctor and get some, it should be free!
And don't have sex until you are ready, and you don't sound ready at all.x
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (5 June 2009):
hun listen to the other people
he is bull s******g you.
that's why he wants to have sex with you why he keeps telling you over and over again he likes you.
and keeps asking you for it.
he would actually have sex with you and leave you hun.
he may not know about your past
but he thinks your a virigin which does mean he just wants to be your "first"
he doesn't want anything more than that hun.
really sorry you've been through such a pants time!!
but he isn't being genuine.
he's completley lying about the whole thing.
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